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Huffman83 06-15-2010 08:19 AM

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Originally Posted by Fire Me Boy! (Post 6821902)
I don't think the fact that she made more money than me would bother me. We need more money, and her making more would be a major plus for us.

What would bother me is that she was making more money than me with no college degree. Would probably make me feel like my degree was devalued.

I don't have a college degree and my wife has 2. I make more money than her and she's still paying off the degrees.

I think it bothers her a whole lot more than she admits.

I come from a family that wasn't big on education unfortunately. So they worked hard and did very well for themselves.

Her family is all about education and they're broke.

Go figure!

Rain Man 06-15-2010 08:22 AM

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Originally Posted by DaKCMan AP (Post 6821955)
My sociology professor from 8 years ago said whoever makes more is the boss and has more say in financial decisions. While he currently made more than his wife, and was the boss in financial matters, he admitted that once he retired in a couple of years she would become the boss.

there may be truth in this. it's odd, though, how the dynamic shifts when the ratio goes from 55/45 to 45/55.

i've been married 19 years and have made more money or been the main breadwinner in consulting income for 12 of those. i've seen both situations and it's easier if I make more.
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Rausch 06-15-2010 08:24 AM

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Originally Posted by Huffman83 (Post 6821969)
I don't have a college degree and my wife has 2. I make more money than her and she's still paying off the degrees.

I think it bothers her a whole lot more than she admits.

I come from a family that wasn't big on education unfortunately. So they worked hard and did very well for themselves.

Her family is all about education and they're broke.

Go figure!

If you work you make money.

If you aren't working you build debt.

The longer you build debt the longer you'll have to work to pay it off.

If you have debt you have to increase what you earn or increase how much you work.

THE END...

Huffman83 06-15-2010 08:25 AM

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Originally Posted by Rooster (Post 6821878)
I make more but not a lot more. If she came home tonight and said she got a nice raise I would be very excited for both of us. Marriage is a team sport IMO. There is no need for foolish pride to get in the way.

I don't think it's foolish pride to know when you're being a doormat and not putting up with it.

I'm all for marriage being a team sport. But when you're the LT for a QB that doesn't get rid of the ball and then you get blamed for it.

You'd have an issue w/ that teammate as well.

wildcat09 06-15-2010 08:31 AM

My wife has a higher base salary than I do but I bring home some pretty decent commission bonuses every quarter so by the end of the year, I actually bring more home. If she made more than me (and she might be someday very soon) I would be fine with it. She is a very talented women and she deserves to be compensated accordingly. I am proud of what she has accomplished at a very young age. I would be just fine staying home and playing golf all day.

Rausch 06-15-2010 08:34 AM

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Originally Posted by Huffman83 (Post 6821979)
I don't think it's foolish pride to know when you're being a doormat and not putting up with it.

I'm all for marriage being a team sport. But when you're the LT for a QB that doesn't get rid of the ball and then you get blamed for it.

You'd have an issue w/ that teammate as well.

So.........this is NOT a money question.

Huffman83 06-15-2010 08:36 AM

I mean...it is a football team fan forum...it seemed relevant at the time!

petegz28 06-15-2010 08:39 AM

If my wife made more money than me I would just see it as her making up for all the years I made more than her. LMAO

Jilly 06-15-2010 08:41 AM

I wish Sully had a job and if he made less or more than me, I wouldn't care a bit. I'd be happy for the extra income and so would he.

SenselessChiefsFan 06-15-2010 08:43 AM

If my wife ever makes more than me.... I will forgive her for throwing it in my face. I wish that was a problem that I could have at least once in my life.

DaKCMan AP 06-15-2010 08:44 AM

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Originally Posted by Jilly (Post 6821995)
I wish Sully had a job and if he made less or more than me, I wouldn't care a bit. I'd be happy for the extra income and so would he.

I guess Rain Man is right. The woman brings home the dough and she even speaks for the guy. :D

|Zach| 06-15-2010 08:45 AM

Wouldn't bother me.

Jilly 06-15-2010 08:53 AM

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Originally Posted by DaKCMan AP (Post 6821998)
I guess Rain Man is right. The woman brings home the dough and she even speaks for the guy. :D

Perhaps. Although, I am sure he's not responding in this thread as he's getting my supper ready for tonight, doing my laundry, and cleaning my house! :D I'm kidding. He's probably just trying to conquer level 5 on Red Dead Redemption.

boogblaster 06-15-2010 09:00 AM

She doesn't but she gives me all that she doesn't spend on her little things she wants so how could i care more money for the pile suits me fine ...

ToxSocks 06-15-2010 09:17 AM

**** no. Bring it on baby. Make me a househusband!


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