Originally Posted by frazod (Post 9901479)

No shit, dumbass. I didn't say it was.

But would you want to live across the street from that kid?

Originally Posted by JASONSAUTO (Post 9902437)

some children have no other way of expressing themselves. If the child is disabled would you rather them just not let it out of the house? I'm sure its not outside in the middle of the night wailing...
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Originally Posted by frazod (Post 9901450)

One of my dad's best friends had a kid that was severely reeruned like this. He was a few years older than me, and big for his age anyway. God I hated going over to visit them. He had a sister that kept him at bay for the most part, but he would just do.... anything. He might slobber on you - he might punch you. He might break a lamp, or shit his pants. All while laughing, moaning or screaming - he was never quiet. I don't know how they kept sane.

I assume a lot of the people riding their moral high horses in this thread have never had to deal with one of these people in real life. It isn't exactly fun.

Originally Posted by ThaVirus (Post 9902450)

"It"?

Originally Posted by Flachief58 (Post 9901515)

In the video, they said they keep him in the back yard so he could play with his balls (no homo) because he would otherwise run off. He was also only there for the summer so his Grandmother could watch him.

So unless he was out there raising hell at an unreasonable time, the bitch overreacted and should take her own advise and move into a trailer in the woods

Originally Posted by Iowanian (Post 9901531)

Regardless of how you feel about the topic, the letter itself is psychotic and about as asshole of a thing as you can say to the parent of a special needs child.

Originally Posted by Squatch (Post 9901546)

The letter is bad for sure but, there really are people on this forum that stoop to that level regularly and that's why this thread is funny. Some of you guys are like, "It's an outrage!" but, have treated people the same way for years.



Nope, I'm just a sasquatch lurking in the woods waiting patiently to strike.

Don't **** with the sasquatch! ROFL

Originally Posted by JASONSAUTO (Post 9902456)

Yeah, at that point I didn't remember if the child was a boy or girl.


Trust me dude there is no need to try and check ME here. And I'm not even going to explain why.
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Originally Posted by jspchief (Post 9901623)

I assumed it was rhetorical.

No. I would not want to live in a neighborhood with a troublesome mentally handicapped person. Or a neighborhood with high crime. Or on a dangerous road, etc.

No one wants to live in a neighborhood with difficult neighbors. But that's so far removed from justification for that letter, I'm not even sure how you think it enters the discussion.

Originally Posted by ThaVirus (Post 9902484)

I was just ****ing with you, man.

Are you aware of the multi-quote feature, though?

Originally Posted by Squatch (Post 9901624)

Sorry if I offended you. I do unto others as they do to me.

I know exactly what you mean and that's why I have said some things here.

What I said has nothing to do with you but, I meant exactly what I said about JasonsAuto.

Originally Posted by Mosbonian (Post 9901659)

I don't mind answering....

90% of the time you would see my son in public and think nothing of it. He is well-mannered, respectful and everything a man could ask of a son. He loves his parents, is overly-protective when it comes to his little sister, and he and his dog are inseparable.

It's the 10% of the time that his emotional issues take over that my wife and I have to handle. And at his size, sometimes "handling" becomes more about mental than physical.

We have always taught him what is acceptable behavior...although recently he has taken to using more profanity than what I find acceptable when trying to get "attention". I don't think that is anymore different than a normal 21 y/o so I don't get highly angry when he does it...I just try to be more paternal and remind him that if offends his mom.

At times we leave him home alone because he is independent enough to handle himself without needing us. Other times when we will be gone for a period of time he will accompany my wife and I. And most of the time he just sits in the car/truck reading because that is what he really likes to do.

Our dilemma...no different than any other parent in a situation like us is this...what do we do with him when we are incapable of taking care of him?

There will come a day when my wife and I can no longer care for him, much less ourselves. And that is what I have to prepare for. And it kills me.

Originally Posted by JASONSAUTO (Post 9902483)

yeah, bullshit. I really don't think there are many people here that would stoop to THAT.

and again **** you bitch.
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Originally Posted by Mosbonian (Post 9901695)

There are fewer and fewer options for group homes for Adult Special needs....and even the ones that are out there are suspect in nature. There is nothing worse than worrying about what will happen to your child when you are gone.



Good luck to your client....with the new health care insurance reform coming next year he is in for some real fun.

Originally Posted by Pitt Gorilla (Post 9902497)

To be fair, folks here can be fairly cavalier vis-a-vis death.

Originally Posted by Mosbonian (Post 9901706)

1) This one we are comfortable that we have done our best.
2) This one we are just plain out of luck. It's too much to ask friends to be support for your special needs child when you are gone, and quite frankly my family (all my family) has been little to no support. Most of the time they are no more than interested spectators willing to give advice that has little to no foundational intelligence. The only thing I am sure I will be able to count on is my daughter....she says (even at her present age as a Senior in HS) that any man who loves her and wants to marry her must understand she will never abandon her older brother.

As for your situation.....my heart goes out to you my friend. Your situation is much more tough to deal with.

Originally Posted by JASONSAUTO (Post 9902451)

These people?


Its someone's child. Its not their fault they aren't the same as you. Piece of shit post here
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Originally Posted by frazod (Post 9902516)

Another quality post from JASONSAUTO

http://boards.cannabis.com/attachmen...sandvagina.jpg

Originally Posted by fan4ever (Post 9902514)

Not to talk about myself again, but I have a son who has severe Cerebral Palsy, and he can be very noisy. There are some things we won't do; take him to movies (although he loves them) or anything else in public that will be disruptive to others trying to enjoy an event. We DO have to be in public with him from time to time, like shopping, etc. and there I just think other people can just put up with it and I answer disgusted looks with a nasty glare but I don't confront people for the most part. That being said, if I had a neighbor who complained about him when we're on our own property, front yard, back yard whatever...I'd go apeshit all over them.

Originally Posted by Pitt Gorilla (Post 9902411)

That is boss. You win the intranets for today.

Originally Posted by JASONSAUTO (Post 9902518)

Yeah **** you too dude. And btw who is the guy pointing at you in that pic?
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Originally Posted by frazod (Post 9902523)

Right back at ya, vagasaurus. Maybe you can post about it fifteen times, too.

Originally Posted by JASONSAUTO (Post 9902528)

You are a ****ing pussy. That's for sure. Talk tough behind that keyboard bitch. Its all you've got...
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Originally Posted by frazod (Post 9902532)

ROFL

How many weepy replies have you gushed out in the past few minutes?

Seriously, are you a lesbian? I mean, there's no way you can be a man and a mechanic.

Originally Posted by JASONSAUTO (Post 9902544)

Weepy replies?


You are ****ing delusional.

And you are more than welcome to try and find out what kind of man I am anytime buddy.

Always good to meet a fellow fan
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Originally Posted by frazod (Post 9902549)

I'd be afraid of what your free lube job might entail, Nancy.

Originally Posted by JASONSNAILSALON (Post 9902560)

I'm sure you would be afraid, bitch. Its in your nature
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Originally Posted by frazod (Post 9902567)

Yeah, I'm quaking in my boots, sweetheart. LMAO

Originally Posted by JASONSAUTO (Post 9902477)

Exactly.

Euthanize your child?


I would ****ing LOSE it.
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Originally Posted by fan4ever (Post 9902514)

Not to talk about myself again, but I have a son who has severe Cerebral Palsy, and he can be very noisy. There are some things we won't do; take him to movies (although he loves them) or anything else in public that will be disruptive to others trying to enjoy an event. We DO have to be in public with him from time to time, like shopping, etc. and there I just think other people can just put up with it and I answer disgusted looks with a nasty glare but I don't confront people for the most part. That being said, if I had a neighbor who complained about him when we're on our own property, front yard, back yard whatever...I'd go apeshit all over them.

Originally Posted by JASONSAUTO (Post 9902574)

its easy to be so sure of yourself on the other side of that screen.

Its cool dude, this is all you've got. I understand. Obviously in real life you are kicked around quite a bit.
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Originally Posted by seclark (Post 9901777)

my instance is kind of on the other end of the spectrum. instead of a child, it's my great uncle. 86 years old, with some type of learning disability. never went to school. lived with his mother in the Ozark mountains until she died in 1972. the only sibling he had that would have anything to do w/him was my grandmother(his sister), who took him in, and started taking care of him.

when my grandmother died, I promised her that I would take care of ernie as long as he lived. I moved him and what little he had into an apartment on our property we had made to stay in while we built our house. it's actually the first time in his life where he has freedom to make some of his own decisions. he fixes his own coffee, breakfast and lunch. he'll either eat supper with us, or we take something over for him.

as far as I know, he's never actually had any type of studies done that would explain what type of disability he has. can't read or write(except his name). I have to set his microwave every day at 60:00. I have different color pieces of tape on his tv remote buttons so he can go back and forth between the only to channels he watches. take him to doctors, monitor his medicines, etc. he gets confused very easily.

ernie doesn't have a mean bone in his body. he gets up every day and goes outside to work on something...anything. he does get depressed in the winter when he's stuck inside.

he loves people. lives for when our kids/grandkids come down. will talk to and trust anyone(which is frightening at times).

ernie was the youngest of 7 children. they've all passed away but him. he does have numerous nieces and nephews that we never hear from. I don't expect them to offer to keep him...****, I wouldn't know what to do without him around. but I know it would mean a lot to him just to know they were thinking about him.

craziest thing about ernie is, he can play guitar, banjo, mandolin, harmonica beautiful...I can sit and listen to him forever. no lessons...just sits there and works at it until it makes music. I took him to a weekly sr citizens music get-together where they take turns playing a song and everyone jumps in, but had to stop because he wasn't playing the way they did.

holy shit, I wrote a lot...sorry.
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Originally Posted by JASONSAUTO (Post 9902501)

Its a ****ing message board. Not real life.


There IS a difference.
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Originally Posted by frazod (Post 9902592)

Says the weepy pussy from the other side of the screen. Let me guess - you're usually tough and manly, but this is just that special time of the month for you. And a side effect of that is spamming threads getting all bent out of shape over a figure of speech.

Got it.

Yeah, you must be a real badass, Blanche.

Originally Posted by Pitt Gorilla (Post 9902645)

Sure. The anonymity of the message board allows folks to act like who they really are without the threat of any real repercussion. This lady merely translated that into an offline artifact.

Originally Posted by JASONSAUTO (Post 9902680)

This is spamming a thread? Ok. Don't like it do something. Take a drive and get told to your face.
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Originally Posted by frazod (Post 9902693)

Hey, look, it's Buster Hymen Part 2. You gonna tow your double-wide up here and kick my ass? LMAO

Originally Posted by Mr. Flopnuts (Post 9902593)

Some of this reminded me of my brother in law. He's 10 years younger than me, and something is off. Highly, highly functional. Has a job, pays his portion of the bills, and you may not catch it the first time or two you meet him. But he has a boyish attitude, and mentality. Trusts EVERYONE (and it's scarier than a mother****er) to the point that he just doesn't see any evil in the world. Incredibly optimistic, and is always happy. Even when life shits all over him. He can't really live on his own, and my wife and I brought him with us when we moved down here. It was that, or let him stay with his folks until they died and move him into a group home.

Best thing I ever did. Dude teaches me lessons everyday, and is just a perfect roommate. He's pleasant to be around, and will do anything to please us. We obviously don't take advantage of it, but you really couldn't ask anymore in a roommate. I'm not exactly thrilled this may be a life time thing, but he's sure doing his part to make it easy. Completely drama free, and does as he's told when he needs to be told, which is rare in itself. He's a joy to be around, and how many people can you actually say that about? There isn't much I wouldn't do for the dude.

Originally Posted by NewChief (Post 9902707)

This sounds a lot like my oldest son. He's only eight, and he's definitely cognitively and physically delayed... however... he fits in pretty well (though not to the point that other kids ask him to come over to their house and hang out or anything. Peers like him, but don't want to be close friends with him). He's the sweetest, most thoughtful kid in the world, and we're so thankful that part of his genetic abnormality seems to be that he's not overly self conscious about his difference (though his little brother, extremely social and popular, getting invited to play dates constantly bothers him). It's very likely he'll be somewhat dependent on us for the rest of our lives, but it's good to think that isn't a death sentence for my wife and I and may actually be a very pleasant, positive experience as we age.

Originally Posted by NewChief (Post 9902707)

This sounds a lot like my oldest son. He's only eight, and he's definitely cognitively and physically delayed... however... he fits in pretty well (though not to the point that other kids ask him to come over to their house and hang out or anything. Peers like him, but don't want to be close friends with him). He's the sweetest, most thoughtful kid in the world, and we're so thankful that part of his genetic abnormality seems to be that he's not overly self conscious about his difference (though his little brother, extremely social and popular, getting invited to play dates constantly bothers him). It's very likely he'll be somewhat dependent on us for the rest of our lives, but it's good to think that isn't a death sentence for my wife and I and may actually be a very pleasant, positive experience as we age.

Originally Posted by Pitt Gorilla (Post 9902645)

Sure. The anonymity of the message board allows folks to act like who they really are without the threat of any real repercussion. This lady merely translated that into an offline artifact.

Originally Posted by NewChief (Post 9902707)

This sounds a lot like my oldest son. He's only eight, and he's definitely cognitively and physically delayed... however... he fits in pretty well (though not to the point that other kids ask him to come over to their house and hang out or anything. Peers like him, but don't want to be close friends with him). He's the sweetest, most thoughtful kid in the world, and we're so thankful that part of his genetic abnormality seems to be that he's not overly self conscious about his difference (though his little brother, extremely social and popular, getting invited to play dates constantly bothers him). It's very likely he'll be somewhat dependent on us for the rest of our lives, but it's good to think that isn't a death sentence for my wife and I and may actually be a very pleasant, positive experience as we age.

Originally Posted by ThaVirus (Post 9902761)

Bravo to guys like you, Mosbonian, fan4ever, and Flopnuts.

I don't mean this in any sort of negative way, whatsoever, but I have to imagine it is pretty rough. You guys don't make it sound so bad.

Originally Posted by frazod (Post 9902706)

And you're a pathetic sniping bitch masquerading as a man. I hope I haven't made your mascara run or anything.

Originally Posted by NewChief (Post 9902707)

This sounds a lot like my oldest son. He's only eight, and he's definitely cognitively and physically delayed... however... he fits in pretty well (though not to the point that other kids ask him to come over to their house and hang out or anything. Peers like him, but don't want to be close friends with him). He's the sweetest, most thoughtful kid in the world, and we're so thankful that part of his genetic abnormality seems to be that he's not overly self conscious about his difference (though his little brother, extremely social and popular, getting invited to play dates constantly bothers him). It's very likely he'll be somewhat dependent on us for the rest of our lives, but it's good to think that isn't a death sentence for my wife and I and may actually be a very pleasant, positive experience as we age.

Originally Posted by ThaVirus (Post 9902761)

Bravo to guys like you, Mosbonian, fan4ever, and Flopnuts.

I don't mean this in any sort of negative way, whatsoever, but I have to imagine it is pretty rough. You guys don't make it sound so bad.

Originally Posted by ThaVirus (Post 9902761)

Bravo to guys like you, Mosbonian, fan4ever, and Flopnuts.

I don't mean this in any sort of negative way, whatsoever, but I have to imagine it is pretty rough. You guys don't make it sound so bad.

Originally Posted by Mr. Flopnuts (Post 9902809)

Oh, shit. I'm nothing special. This kid is completely functioning. He's socially acceptable, awkward, but doesn't have any moments. People like him, because they can sense he really likes them, but he's not over the top. He's a blessing in my life, not a hindrance in any way, shape, or form. Those other guys you mentioned are awesome, I'm just lucky.

Originally Posted by Mosbonian (Post 9902839)

I guess I see it differently....I see you as an awesome big brother he probably would not otherwise have had. You are more than you give yourself credit for....imagine what his world would have been like had you not stepped in!!

Originally Posted by JASONSAUTO (Post 9902775)

I didn't snipe at shit bitch. I tell it like it is.

You are a pathetic ****ing pussy.
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Originally Posted by Cochise (Post 9902798)

WTF is going on here?

Originally Posted by J Douche (Post 9902893)

Some lady wrote a mean letter. Then, just like a hockey fight, fraz and Jasonsauto broke out in a fight.

Something about estrogen and purple letters, I think.

Originally Posted by frazod (Post 9902907)

Sorry, he just can't quit me.

Originally Posted by JASONSAUTO (Post 9902937)

What are you talking about pussy? I wanted to say much more in response to your first post but held back because I knew you would cry.


**** you for real though. You are a ****ing pussy. You are a ****ing bitch. This is all you have. Talking shit online. That's it.

Sad. Very sad existence you've got there.
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Originally Posted by JASONSAUTO (Post 9902941)

And I'm FAR from miserable. And I talk tough in real life. and back it up every ****ing time.


I'm THAT guy.
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Originally Posted by NewChief (Post 9902707)

This sounds a lot like my oldest son. He's only eight, and he's definitely cognitively and physically delayed... however... he fits in pretty well (though not to the point that other kids ask him to come over to their house and hang out or anything. Peers like him, but don't want to be close friends with him). He's the sweetest, most thoughtful kid in the world, and we're so thankful that part of his genetic abnormality seems to be that he's not overly self conscious about his difference (though his little brother, extremely social and popular, getting invited to play dates constantly bothers him). It's very likely he'll be somewhat dependent on us for the rest of our lives, but it's good to think that isn't a death sentence for my wife and I and may actually be a very pleasant, positive experience as we age.

Originally Posted by ThaVirus (Post 9902761)

Bravo to guys like you, Mosbonian, fan4ever, and Flopnuts.

I don't mean this in any sort of negative way, whatsoever, but I have to imagine it is pretty rough. You guys don't make it sound so bad.

Originally Posted by Cochise (Post 9902798)

WTF is going on here?

Originally Posted by JASONSAUTO (Post 9902488)

What is "troublesome" about a child in their own backyard playing loudly?
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Originally Posted by Iowanian (Post 9901531)

Regardless of how you feel about the topic, the letter itself is psychotic and about as asshole of a thing as you can say to the parent of a special needs child.

Originally Posted by Mosbonian (Post 9901614)

I'm going to go with the "most people don't have an effing clue what it is like to live with a Special Needs child" explanation for many of the responses on here.

And making light of the situation shows, for the moment, you are showing a lack of class.

Originally Posted by fan4ever (Post 9902514)

Not to talk about myself again, but I have a son who has severe Cerebral Palsy, and he can be very noisy. There are some things we won't do; take him to movies (although he loves them) or anything else in public that will be disruptive to others trying to enjoy an event. We DO have to be in public with him from time to time, like shopping, etc. and there I just think other people can just put up with it and I answer disgusted looks with a nasty glare but I don't confront people for the most part. That being said, if I had a neighbor who complained about him when we're on our own property, front yard, back yard whatever...I'd go apeshit all over them.

Originally Posted by Pestilence (Post 9903634)

My wife called me crying one time because they were out eating lunch and some lady walked by the table they were sitting at and said under her breath "she shouldn't even be here.....keep her at home next time". ****ing **** is lucky I wasn't there because I would have snapped.

Originally Posted by Pestilence (Post 9903634)

Once again....not in the same aspect of what you're going through....but my 6 year old daughter has to get 24 hour EEGs 3 or 4 times a year to measure her brain activity. So for 24 hours...she has to wear electrodes on her head...and her head is then wrapped up so she doesn't mess with them. All of the electrodes are attached to wires that run down to a backpack that she has to wear. Everytime that my daughter gets one done....my wife takes her out for lunch and to pick out a small toy.

My wife called me crying one time because they were out eating lunch and some lady walked by the table they were sitting at and said under her breath "she shouldn't even be here.....keep her at home next time". ****ing **** is lucky I wasn't there because I would have snapped.

Originally Posted by NewChief (Post 9903664)

People are ****ing crazy. One of our friends has two young sons with longish hair (not like shoulder length... just typical longish hair for young kids). Some guy, randomly, walked up to her at a restaurant and said, "Are those boys or girls?" She replied, "Boys" and he replied, "I'd never let my sons have hair like that."

WTF? I mean.. WTF? Seriously.

Originally Posted by fan4ever (Post 9903670)

Wow. Was it an old bitty? Some older people tend to think kids like ours should be kept at home or even institutionalized. I guess it's how things were handled way back when. My own mother insinuated that once and I told her if she ever wanted Lisa (my wife who she loved) to ever speak to her again, she'd better never say something that again. My wife also got the treatment your wife received years ago when my son was still a baby and had a feeding tube running up his nose...again, old broad...a cashier. My wife had to stand in front of the door to keep me from heading back down to the Walgreens where this old fart worked.

Originally Posted by patteeu (Post 9903427)

It depends on what you mean by "loudly".