I am going out of town for work this weekend and will be gone for a week so I think that is making him want to hang out a lot before I go out of town.

Again. *I* only got messages by spam bots. And no one ever answered a message I sent.

Let me write your profile and letters. You will get responses.

Oh and your whiny nobody likes me bs is very unattractive. Just saying.

Because I'm daft enough to say that thing around women.

If you wanna help, try setting up this cracker with some job interviews.

Good for you. You broke the ice. Women have all the power. Remember that.

You ended up dating a chick your friend ****ed? You lost.

Yes it is kind of scary the power we have over men! It is sad that so many women nowadays don't get that.

Or maybe it's sad that it's still true? I've met a lot of women who claim to be staunchly "for" gender equality, but still expect men to do all sorts of very traditional things in a relationship. It's frustrating, and in my opinion, it actually sets women back in the long run.

I get the point you are making, but I don't think this is losing. In fact I saw the situation as an opportunity to collect where the friend failed.

as far as dating goes I say screw gender equality. I want a man that is going to step up and take care of me, and I in return will take care of him. At this point in my life I am so sick of all the crap I'm in charge of that if a good man comes along who wants to spoil me I am all for it, and I will find ways to spoil him. I also feel very strongly than allowing men to be men and take the lead in dating is essential to their well being. I guess that is what I mean so many wine nowadays don't want to just enjoy that.

If she didn't **** anyone before me, that would have made her either an inexperienced virgin or one of the un****able masses. Neither are good options.

This. She took some other dude home from the Halloween party the three of us attended. His closing skills were poor to nonexistent.

Exactly. You guys are over-thinking it. If she says no, move on. There are tons of chicks out there.

**** that. I have enough opportunities to "be a man" in my day-to-day life, and the last thing I want at the end of the day is for my best friend to act all dependent "for my well-being".

That was maybe not the best choice of words. I just mean it seems like men are happier when they get to take the lead. But based on what you said maybe I am totally wrong that that is not all men. I mean seriously that is why I'm on here, what the hell do I know about men! :)

I think that's the key. Just because I dislike the notion doesn't mean that there aren't some men who appreciate it. The same goes for women; there's nothing that's universally true about peoples' personalities.

Absolutely. I have been so independent all my life and I think I'm just now getting that I like men who are going to take the lead and it just allows me to enjoy things more when I don't have to be in charge. So as for me, screw gender equality in dating. :)

If I ever, god forbid, get divorced -I highly doubt I'll have the patience/tolerance to try the dating thing again.
OR, if I do, it'll occur by chance. I'll never approach a woman and ask her out.

You're a nice girl. Just go for what you want and tell that to the guys you date. Either they agree or they don't. Better to find out early as possible. Be yourself.

Sounds like his closing skills weren't that poor if he smashed her a few times.

I've never ****ed a chick that smashed a homie but I've had a few friends that smashed after I did. Three times, actually.

Are they on trial for murder? What happened to just shooting people? Why you gotta mutilate a hoe?

Throw shade all you want, but she was several levels hotter than the most attractive chick you'll ever have sexual relations with.

Your friend hit it several times then passed it to you and you make it sound like he didn't know how to close the deal then you get salty when someone states the obvious lol have fun kissing your friends dick bruh

Ah, shit. That reminds me..

Back when I was 18 I made out with a chick at a party. I found out the next morning that she gave my friend head and he ****ed her in the bathroom not 30 minutes prior.

What a ****ing bitch! I was so pissed.

I don't know whether this newfangled technology has made its way to Nebraska, but where I'm from we have these things called showers....

That's pretty sluttastic on her part.

Sounds like a fun party

Best advice.

You know what I think most dudes want in a relationship? An honest, upfront woman who's comfortable being herself. No games, no bullshit, and especially no surprises later because a lady's been acting a certain way for a long time and then suddenly decides it's time to "be real".

Which I would guess is probably what most women want, too.

You either click with someone or you don't. No point in forcing it or trying to be what you think they want. You be you and let the rest work itself out.


Not that I should be taken as any kind of authority on dating or relationships, of course...

And big tits and a nice firm ass.

Who swallows...

And plays with the B-hole area just prior to climax.

What? No? Okay, just a personal thing I guess.

I'm doing well with this. We just watched the entire original Star Wars trilogy and she wants to see the prequels now.

No she does not! She might think she does, but she really doesn't! Once she watches those steaming piles of shit, if she can make it through all of them, she'll realize it was the biggest mistake of her life.

If she likes the prequels I'm dumping her.

That probably should be a requirement, but then sadly I'd be breaking it myself. Being born in the early 90's, my formative years were filled w/ the original trilogy, then the new trilogy came out through my elementary and middle school years, so I'm pretty much a self-proclaimed Star Wars nut. My fiance pretty much hates them all, but prefers the new to the old because she says the old-school effects just ruin them for her. WTF? I don't get her some times....

Awesome

Ok I'm finally single. Feels shitty right now, but I'm happy I guess.

You should probably get an STD check, as it seems you have been running through chicks at a rapid clip.

He was just breaking you in slowly. On date #5, he brings the compressor with the hydrolic triple dildo. It's gonna be like 10 million roses

FYP

Embrace it bro! Soon enough you'll be married and able to complain like some of these guys on CP.

Yep, already got my referral to be tested, just have to bring paperwork to the lab.

Lmao

:thumb: Smart move.

Update for you gentlemen (and ladies):

I decided to go the facebook route and chatted with her a bit on there the last couple days. First date next Saturday!

Hell yeah.

Facebook is not for creeping! I stand corrected.

Awesome

Figured that was the best course. Of course, if she was interested the phone thing would have hit home as well. All that matters is her interest level.

This couldn't be more true.

Good looking guy asks for girls number: "OMG HES SO HOT".

Ugly guy asks for girls number: OMG HES SUCH A CREEP".

Are you married?

So true.

No, just dating around right now. In search of a true bangmaid ROFL

Know how I know?

You like it too?!?!?!

A 30 year old stayed behind with me at a bar Friday until close. Told me about drunk stories I probably wouldnt volunteer to people I'd,only met once before.

Did you boink her?

No. I didn't realize she might have been interested until I realized she seemed really intent on me,waiting for her to come back from the pisser.

Of,course she also talked about receiving dick pics from a mutual acquaintance whom im83% sure hooked with her a few months ago.

Dude, she's a 30 yard old bartender. She's ****ing.

Not a bartender.

Oh shit, I read that wrong.

So she was just some random ass 30 year old chick that stayed with you til close? That's even better. She's ****ing, bro.

Friends with my buddy's GF. Chiefs fan and likes how I mt your mother.

If she were 26-27 I'd be all over it.

Aren't you around 26-27? 30 isn't too bad..

Even if you think she's too old for something long term, it seems to me like you need somewhere to empty your nuts.

WTF dude? Who cares about age. I've been all over the place age wise lately. Mostly younger, but I wouldn't be opposed to go older.

I'm with Virus...empty those nuts!!!

No offense, dude, but with the way you've complained in this thread, it sounds like you're a beggar trying to be a chooser. Especially if you're just in it for fun (and it sounds like you did have fun), a 3-4 year age difference is nothing.

No doubt. I know 25 year olds that look like they'er 40 and 40 year olds that look like they're 25. Don't get too caught up in age.

I think that Discuss needs a legit gf, but that shouldn't stop him from sending his demons into an eager slut that may not be gf material on occasion.

LMAO

at first I thought "...bit deal with this gif. Just two dudes giving a handshake etc".

...then I noticed the 'expert mode' handshake.
very nice.

I need a job more than anything.

That sucks. Pick a bad field?

Don't laugh, but you ever try match?

ALL SALES ARE FINAL!

LMAO

3.2 English student at a decent Midwestern private college and one year experience in freelance sports reporting.

Yeah man, I get antsy, I'll figure it out - I'm going to go full blown Rocky Balboa workout mode this winter. When I make myself the focal-point, it's my best bait. :evil:

You'll be swimming in it soon no doubt.

[teenage rant]

I went out for drinks tonight with a chick from my apartment complex, whom I met during our Halloween bash last Thursday. I called her to ask her out, she says "I'd love to" and all that, and we finally went out tonight.

We have a very nice time, and I make at least a few flirtatious comments referring directly to the date we're currently on. After a couple hours of enjoyable discussion, we leave (because we both have early morning work things to do), and I feel pretty good about it.

I'm sitting at home, sipping at a rum & coke before bed, and I get a text from her saying that "I had a nice time, but I had no idea that you were asking me on a date! We hardly know each other! I'm not in a position to date right now, but I hope that we can be friends, haha!"

I cannot emphasize how obvious this date scenario was. Like any man, I've had my fair share of rejection, but it frustrates me like hell that she hesitated to tell me that she didn't see things as a date until well after the "date" culminated. I feel far more let-down than I would have if she had asserted her position outright (at which point we'd have happily shared some beers as new friends), but she purposefully led me to believe that she was interested in some sort of relationship during the "date" so that she wouldn't have to "give me the bad news" in person. For women, that's considered to be "tactful". For men, it would be "leading someone on".

Pardon me, but that's absolute bullshit. Women nowadays are plagued by inequities in income and social status, but so many of them choose to perpetuate their situation by using only the social constructs that benefit them. Neither I (nor any reasonable man) is encouraged to be anything but direct, and the same standard ought to be applied to women.

I'm one of the bigger supporters of gender/sex equality in nearly every aspect of life, but I feel like an asshole for being convinced that behavior like this (from liberal women, no less) practically guarantees their continued inequality by a majority of men who support it.

I'll be over this specific scenario tomorrow, but **** this shit. I'm tired of being proven wrong, and I'm tired of seeing supposed "progressives" turn out to be nothing more than social opportunists.

Reading through this before posting it, I'm inclined to go get some cheese to accompany my whine, but since I've typed it all out I may as well post it. Or not. You can be the judge of that.

[\teenage rant]

That's why you get on a dating site.

You KNOW they're looking for a "real" date.