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Titty Meat 11-05-2013 11:13 PM

Yup if you meet a girl from a dating site it's usually


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Eureka 11-05-2013 11:15 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Canofbier (Post 10164496)
[teenage rant]

I went out for drinks tonight with a chick from my apartment complex, whom I met during our Halloween bash last Thursday. I called her to ask her out, she says "I'd love to" and all that, and we finally went out tonight.

We have a very nice time, and I make at least a few flirtatious comments referring directly to the date we're currently on. After a couple hours of enjoyable discussion, we leave (because we both have early morning work things to do), and I feel pretty good about it.

I'm sitting at home, sipping at a rum & coke before bed, and I get a text from her saying that "I had a nice time, but I had no idea that you were asking me on a date! We hardly know each other! I'm not in a position to date right now, but I hope that we can be friends, haha!"

I cannot emphasize how obvious this date scenario was. Like any man, I've had my fair share of rejection, but it frustrates me like hell that she hesitated to tell me that she didn't see things as a date until well after the "date" culminated. I feel far more let-down than I would have if she had asserted her position outright (at which point we'd have happily shared some beers as new friends), but she purposefully led me to believe that she was interested in some sort of relationship during the "date" so that she wouldn't have to "give me the bad news" in person. For women, that's considered to be "tactful". For men, it would be "leading someone on".

Pardon me, but that's absolute bullshit. Women nowadays are plagued by inequities in income and social status, but so many of them choose to perpetuate their situation by using only the social constructs that benefit them. Neither I (nor any reasonable man) is encouraged to be anything but direct, and the same standard ought to be applied to women.

I'm one of the bigger supporters of gender/sex equality in nearly every aspect of life, but I feel like an asshole for being convinced that behavior like this (from liberal women, no less) practically guarantees their continued inequality by a majority of men who support it.

I'll be over this specific scenario tomorrow, but **** this shit. I'm tired of being proven wrong, and I'm tired of seeing supposed "progressives" turn out to be nothing more than social opportunists.

Reading through this before posting it, I'm inclined to go get some cheese to accompany my whine, but since I've typed it all out I may as well post it. Or not. You can be the judge of that.

[\teenage rant]

Dude, you won! Atleast she told you right away instead of leading you on for weeks/months. Now you know "da game" and you'll be a little more wise to it. It sucks sometimes but it's just part of the dance. Chicks on dating websites can be the same.

If you haven't texted her back yet then text her something like: "no worries"......
I enjoyed hanging with you tonight. I'm in no rush either. Buddy's ? :-)

Either move on or play "da game".

Rausch 11-05-2013 11:17 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Pam Oliver's Forehead (Post 10164510)
That's why you get on a dating site.

You KNOW they're looking for a "real" date.

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Pasta Little Brioni 11-05-2013 11:32 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Canofbier (Post 10164496)
[teenage rant]

I went out for drinks tonight with a chick from my apartment complex, whom I met during our Halloween bash last Thursday. I called her to ask her out, she says "I'd love to" and all that, and we finally went out tonight.

We have a very nice time, and I make at least a few flirtatious comments referring directly to the date we're currently on. After a couple hours of enjoyable discussion, we leave (because we both have early morning work things to do), and I feel pretty good about it.

I'm sitting at home, sipping at a rum & coke before bed, and I get a text from her saying that "I had a nice time, but I had no idea that you were asking me on a date! We hardly know each other! I'm not in a position to date right now, but I hope that we can be friends, haha!"

I cannot emphasize how obvious this date scenario was. Like any man, I've had my fair share of rejection, but it frustrates me like hell that she hesitated to tell me that she didn't see things as a date until well after the "date" culminated. I feel far more let-down than I would have if she had asserted her position outright (at which point we'd have happily shared some beers as new friends), but she purposefully led me to believe that she was interested in some sort of relationship during the "date" so that she wouldn't have to "give me the bad news" in person. For women, that's considered to be "tactful". For men, it would be "leading someone on".

Pardon me, but that's absolute bullshit. Women nowadays are plagued by inequities in income and social status, but so many of them choose to perpetuate their situation by using only the social constructs that benefit them. Neither I (nor any reasonable man) is encouraged to be anything but direct, and the same standard ought to be applied to women.

I'm one of the bigger supporters of gender/sex equality in nearly every aspect of life, but I feel like an asshole for being convinced that behavior like this (from liberal women, no less) practically guarantees their continued inequality by a majority of men who support it.

I'll be over this specific scenario tomorrow, but **** this shit. I'm tired of being proven wrong, and I'm tired of seeing supposed "progressives" turn out to be nothing more than social opportunists.

Reading through this before posting it, I'm inclined to go get some cheese to accompany my whine, but since I've typed it all out I may as well post it. Or not. You can be the judge of that.

[\teenage rant]

You got let down gently brah. Happens to us all. I have heard worse excuses than that though.

Cephalic Trauma 11-05-2013 11:35 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Canofbier (Post 10164496)
[teenage rant]

.

[\teenage rant]

:clap:

I've never had this happen to me, and I am very happily engaged, but I agree with every single word of this.

Pasta Little Brioni 11-05-2013 11:37 PM

"I am no in a position to date"...2 days later she is on a date with another guy.

Hammock Parties 11-05-2013 11:38 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by PGM (Post 10164566)
"I am no in a position to date"...2 days later she is on a date with another guy.

sounds like just another BS girl way of letting a guy down easy

keg in kc 11-05-2013 11:38 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by PGM (Post 10164566)
"I am no in a position to date"...2 days later she is on a date with another guy.

She was actually texting him while being reverse pile-driven by a neighbor.

Pasta Little Brioni 11-05-2013 11:40 PM

Have no problem with the rant. That kind of stuff is frustrating as ****. I would take outright rejection and why over "I am not in the right mindset for dating blah blah blah"

Pasta Little Brioni 11-05-2013 11:44 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Pam Oliver's Forehead (Post 10164568)
sounds like just another BS girl way of letting a guy down easy

Oh no doubt about it. Same shit recycled in different words by a different bitch.

Hammock Parties 11-05-2013 11:44 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by PGM (Post 10164582)
Oh no doubt about it. Same shit recycled in different words by a different bitch.

I can't recommend match.com highly enough.

Titty Meat 11-05-2013 11:44 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by PGM (Post 10164566)
"I am no in a position to date"...2 days later she is on a date with another guy.

PGM lost. Don't dwell on it who would want to be with someone like that?

Pasta Little Brioni 11-05-2013 11:45 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by keg in kc (Post 10164569)
She was actually texting him while being reverse pile-driven by a neighbor.

THAT is why you don't befriend girls you really like.

Pasta Little Brioni 11-05-2013 11:51 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Bo's Pelini (Post 10164584)
PGM lost. Don't dwell on it who would want to be with someone like that?

????

Just giving can the reality of the situation.

Pasta Little Brioni 11-05-2013 11:53 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Pam Oliver's Forehead (Post 10164583)
I can't recommend match.com highly enough.

I like it as a supplemental option. Some great girls on there....free sites on the other hand...

Aspengc8 11-06-2013 07:29 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by PGM (Post 10164598)
I like it as a supplemental option. Some great girls on there....free sites on the other hand...

Match is where I met my wife. Had enough of the local scene so when It was time to start thinking about marriage/family (when I hit 30), I signed up and set my requirements high. The only requirements I put down were college education, 80K+ salary and must love football. It actually found quite a few candidates so It turned out well. Found a nice gal who has been a teacher in a ritzy school district for the last 9 years, and milked the shit out of their income 'step' system to set herself up well. 4 years so far and a beautiful little girl about to turn 2.

I highly recommend match.

Canofbier 11-06-2013 07:33 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Pam Oliver's Forehead (Post 10164510)
That's why you get on a dating site.

You KNOW they're looking for a "real" date.

Been there, done that. Did Match for a few months recently, and although I went on a lot of dates, it was too much work getting there and none of the relationships stuck. I got really tired of sifting through profiles and writing messages to which I would only occasionally get responses. Maybe I'll go back to it at some point, but not now.

Quote:

Originally Posted by Eureka (Post 10164541)
Dude, you won! Atleast she told you right away instead of leading you on for weeks/months. Now you know "da game" and you'll be a little more wise to it. It sucks sometimes but it's just part of the dance. Chicks on dating websites can be the same.

If you haven't texted her back yet then text her something like: "no worries"......
I enjoyed hanging with you tonight. I'm in no rush either. Buddy's ? :-)

Either move on or play "da game".

Nah, that seems like a bit of a fools' errand. Before typing up my little rant, I called her. She admitted that she knew all along, but was trying to be "polite". I was perfectly genial in my response, and said I was open to hanging out again without any romantic pretense (which is true). Honestly, I'm not sure that a relationship would work anyway considering how poorly she communicates.

Quote:

Originally Posted by PGM (Post 10164555)
You got let down gently brah. Happens to us all. I have heard worse excuses than that though.

True enough. I was frustrated by what seemed to be a sudden turn, though, and needed to vent a bit. Figured that this thread was as good a place as any.

Pasta Little Brioni 11-06-2013 07:43 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Canofbier (Post 10164793)



True enough. I was frustrated by what seemed to be a sudden turn, though, and needed to vent a bit. Figured that this thread was as good a place as any.

The old blindside is the worst

Buck 11-06-2013 07:45 AM

Just ask every girl you see, "Fancy a shag, baby?"

Guaranteed knee deep in pussy.

Pasta Little Brioni 11-06-2013 08:11 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Buck (Post 10164805)
Just ask every girl you see, "Fancy a shag, baby?"

Guaranteed knee deep in pussy.

....and STDs from the ones it would actually work on!!

Dayze 11-06-2013 09:26 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Canofbier (Post 10164496)
[teenage rant]

I went out for drinks tonight with a chick from my apartment complex, whom I met during our Halloween bash last Thursday. I called her to ask her out, she says "I'd love to" and all that, and we finally went out tonight.

We have a very nice time, and I make at least a few flirtatious comments referring directly to the date we're currently on. After a couple hours of enjoyable discussion, we leave (because we both have early morning work things to do), and I feel pretty good about it.

I'm sitting at home, sipping at a rum & coke before bed, and I get a text from her saying that "I had a nice time, but I had no idea that you were asking me on a date! We hardly know each other! I'm not in a position to date right now, but I hope that we can be friends, haha!"

I cannot emphasize how obvious this date scenario was. Like any man, I've had my fair share of rejection, but it frustrates me like hell that she hesitated to tell me that she didn't see things as a date until well after the "date" culminated. I feel far more let-down than I would have if she had asserted her position outright (at which point we'd have happily shared some beers as new friends), but she purposefully led me to believe that she was interested in some sort of relationship during the "date" so that she wouldn't have to "give me the bad news" in person. For women, that's considered to be "tactful". For men, it would be "leading someone on".

Pardon me, but that's absolute bullshit. Women nowadays are plagued by inequities in income and social status, but so many of them choose to perpetuate their situation by using only the social constructs that benefit them. Neither I (nor any reasonable man) is encouraged to be anything but direct, and the same standard ought to be applied to women.

I'm one of the bigger supporters of gender/sex equality in nearly every aspect of life, but I feel like an asshole for being convinced that behavior like this (from liberal women, no less) practically guarantees their continued inequality by a majority of men who support it.

I'll be over this specific scenario tomorrow, but **** this shit. I'm tired of being proven wrong, and I'm tired of seeing supposed "progressives" turn out to be nothing more than social opportunists.

Reading through this before posting it, I'm inclined to go get some cheese to accompany my whine, but since I've typed it all out I may as well post it. Or not. You can be the judge of that.

[\teenage rant]

I read an interesting article somewhere, that read something to the effect of making it clear you're asking a woman out on a date. So instead of 'we should go out sometime" etc, we should say something like " i'd like to take you out on a date and buy you dinner" etc.

There were lots of comments by women who gave the same BS line she did saying "Oh...I didn't know we were on a 'date'" etc.

Canofbier 11-06-2013 09:28 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Dayze (Post 10164991)
I read an interesting article somewhere, that read something to the effect of making it clear you're asking a woman out on a date. So instead of 'we should go out sometime" etc, we should say something like " i'd like to take you out on a date and buy you dinner" etc.

There were lots of comments by women who gave the same BS line she did saying "Oh...I didn't know we were on a 'date'" etc.

I definitely used the word "date" on more than one occasion last night, and she didn't bat an eyelash.

Dayze 11-06-2013 09:31 AM

well shit...that sucks.

Skyy God 11-06-2013 09:49 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Discuss Thrower (Post 10160944)
3.2 English student at a decent Midwestern private college and one year experience in freelance sports reporting.

Journalism, lol. The outlook for that field has been poor for years and years.

Hammock Parties 11-06-2013 11:31 AM

What is an appropriate "1-month of dating" gift? I like this girl and am now ruled by my loins.

Skyy God 11-06-2013 11:36 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Pam Oliver's Forehead (Post 10165271)
What is an appropriate "1-month of dating" gift? I like this girl and am now ruled by my loins.

Facial.

Dayze 11-06-2013 11:38 AM

check to see if there is a Groupon first.
http://chud.com/articles/content_ima...ecret01ch5.jpg

Dayze 11-06-2013 11:39 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Cave Johnson (Post 10165282)
Facial.

LMAO
If she agrees, she's a keeper

Buck 11-06-2013 02:40 PM

I think ex-gf trying to look at my facebook page based on the fact that when we broke up I told her I was gonna block her so I didn't have to see her face anymore and she had access to FB and just blocked me instead.

Now I'm seeing her posts and stuff so I think she unblocked me to try and look at my page. We recently talked a couple times.

Buck 11-06-2013 02:49 PM

Remember when I said I was off pussy? Well I lied. Chick from work who is down to just have sex came over (I work in a huge building and never see this person at all at work, though it is still probably stupid). She sent me this today from what happened last night. She also sent me a pic without the top on and there's a lot more bruising but I ain't bout to post her tittays on the internet.

I think I'm addicted to sex.

http://i.imgur.com/DMV3SHP.jpg

Valiant 11-06-2013 02:57 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Buck (Post 10165773)
Remember when I said I was off pussy? Well I lied. Chick from work who is down to just have sex came over (I work in a huge building and never see this person at all at work, though it is still probably stupid). She sent me this today from what happened last night. She also sent me a pic without the top on and there's a lot more bruising but I ain't bout to post her tittays on the internet.

I think I'm addicted to sex.

http://i.imgur.com/DMV3SHP.jpg

Good man.

Hopefully those aren't lesions.

Buck 11-06-2013 02:59 PM

They are my claw marks. I was trying to rip off her tit.

Valiant 11-06-2013 02:59 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Buck (Post 10165773)
Remember when I said I was off pussy? Well I lied. Chick from work who is down to just have sex came over (I work in a huge building and never see this person at all at work, though it is still probably stupid). She sent me this today from what happened last night. She also sent me a pic without the top on and there's a lot more bruising but I ain't bout to post her tittays on the internet.

I think I'm addicted to sex.

http://i.imgur.com/DMV3SHP.jpg

I will post the topless version when I get back from the gym tonight.

Dayze 11-06-2013 03:01 PM

thems some big ass tittays.

The Franchise 11-06-2013 03:02 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Buck (Post 10165773)
Remember when I said I was off pussy? Well I lied. Chick from work who is down to just have sex came over (I work in a huge building and never see this person at all at work, though it is still probably stupid). She sent me this today from what happened last night. She also sent me a pic without the top on and there's a lot more bruising but I ain't bout to post her tittays on the internet.

I think I'm addicted to sex.

http://i.imgur.com/DMV3SHP.jpg

I know you've got my phone number. Text me that shit. lol

Buck 11-06-2013 03:18 PM

For some reason I attract girls with huge knockers. It's not very important to me (breast size). But all the girls I end up with have big boobs.

The Franchise 11-06-2013 03:26 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Buck (Post 10165833)
For some reason I attract girls with huge knockers. It's not very important to me (breast size). But all the girls I end up with have big boobs.

It's been the same way since I started dating. Chick with big tits.....all over me. I've only ever dated one chick that was a B cup.

Pasta Little Brioni 11-06-2013 04:07 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Pam Oliver's Forehead (Post 10165271)
What is an appropriate "1-month of dating" gift? I like this girl and am now ruled by my loins.

Choco Penii

Titty Meat 11-06-2013 04:21 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Pam Oliver's Forehead (Post 10165271)
What is an appropriate "1-month of dating" gift? I like this girl and am now ruled by my loins.

Lick her ASS

LoneWolf 11-06-2013 04:44 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Bo's Pelini (Post 10165994)
Lick her ASS

If he hasn't done this already, there certainly won't be a 2 month anniversary.

Clay, get her a gift certificate for a massage. Just trust me on this one.

TLO 11-07-2013 12:04 AM

Dear dating thread,

I'm talking to this girl I met online. She's 24 (I'm 19) and I feel like I'm in way over my head. She is absolutely drop dead gorgeous, and has worked her way up to a very nice career in the career field I plan on entering when I graduate. I'm not someone who generally lacks self confidence, but when I talk to her I feel like I'm making an ass of myself, second guessing everything I say.

Any helpful advice?

Yours truly,
Big Smoke

Discuss Thrower 11-07-2013 12:06 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Big Smoke (Post 10166882)
Dear dating thread,

I'm talking to this girl I met online. She's 24 (I'm 19) and I feel like I'm in way over my head. She is absolutely drop dead gorgeous, and has worked her way up to a very nice career in the career field I plan on entering when I graduate. I'm not someone who generally lacks self confidence, but when I talk to her I feel like I'm making an ass of myself, second guessing everything I say.

Any helpful advice?

Yours truly,
Big Smoke

Don't put her on a pedestal. You're doing nothing but ****ing yourself by saying she's drop dead gorgeous and you're way over your head.

BigCatDaddy 11-07-2013 12:10 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Big Smoke (Post 10166882)
Dear dating thread,

I'm talking to this girl I met online. She's 24 (I'm 19) and I feel like I'm in way over my head. She is absolutely drop dead gorgeous, and has worked her way up to a very nice career in the career field I plan on entering when I graduate. I'm not someone who generally lacks self confidence, but when I talk to her I feel like I'm making an ass of myself, second guessing everything I say.

<b>Any helpful advice</b>?

Yours truly,
Big Smoke

Post a picture and that should help us determine the best course of action for you young smoke.

TLO 11-07-2013 12:12 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Discuss Thrower (Post 10166883)
Don't put her on a pedestal. You're doing nothing but ****ing yourself by saying she's drop dead gorgeous and you're way over your head.

Agreed. But that's how I feel. I'm trying to get out of that mindset. I actually took a risk and told her a little abt how I felt. She just said she felt quite flattered, and to not worry about it.

TLO 11-07-2013 12:19 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by BigCatDaddy (Post 10166889)
Post a picture and that should help us determine the best course of action for you young smoke.

Check your pm's for teh nudez. :)

Ceej 11-07-2013 04:43 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Big Smoke (Post 10166882)
Dear dating thread,

I'm talking to this girl I met online. She's 24 (I'm 19) and I feel like I'm in way over my head. She is absolutely drop dead gorgeous, and has worked her way up to a very nice career in the career field I plan on entering when I graduate. I'm not someone who generally lacks self confidence, but when I talk to her I feel like I'm making an ass of myself, second guessing everything I say.

Any helpful advice?

Yours truly,
Big Smoke

You could very well be on MTVs show Catfish very soon.

Canofbier 11-07-2013 08:14 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Big Smoke (Post 10166892)
Agreed. But that's how I feel. I'm trying to get out of that mindset. I actually took a risk and told her a little abt how I felt. She just said she felt quite flattered, and to not worry about it.

Do you have any plans to meet up with this girl? I think that should go a long way towards determining how to feel about it. If you're still uncomfortable around her even after a few meetings, then maybe things won't work out; if being around her puts you at ease, then your problem is fixed.

Alternatively, if she's a man in her 40's, you have the opportunity to experiment! That's what all the kids are doing these days, right?

Skyy God 11-07-2013 08:44 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Big Smoke (Post 10166896)
Check your pm's for teh nudez. :)

Some "chick" you met online is already sending you nudes, and that's not a red flag??

Dayze 11-07-2013 09:31 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Canofbier (Post 10167051)
Do you have any plans to meet up with this girl? I think that should go a long way towards determining how to feel about it. If you're still uncomfortable around her even after a few meetings, then maybe things won't work out; if being around her puts you at ease, then your problem is fixed.

Alternatively, if she's a man in her 40's, you have the opportunity to experiment! That's what all the kids are doing these days, right?

Bonus!

Discuss Thrower 11-07-2013 09:34 AM

Yeah..i didn't see the online part. You're getting catfished

TLO 11-07-2013 09:40 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Discuss Thrower (Post 10167188)
Yeah..i didn't see the online part. You're getting catfished

I can assure you that I am not. In fact, I met her this morning for coffee. Nothing major, we just discussed her work, how I'd like to get where she is some day. Also talked about the Chiefs, and how we were both pumped to watch the Denver game. Then we made dinner plans for Friday night.

Woo! PBJ

TLO 11-07-2013 09:42 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Cave Johnson (Post 10167090)
Some "chick" you met online is already sending you nudes, and that's not a red flag??

Please "check" your sarcasam meeter and get back to me. :)

ghak99 11-07-2013 11:38 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Big Smoke (Post 10166882)
Dear dating thread,

I'm talking to this girl I met online. She's 24 (I'm 19) and I feel like I'm in way over my head. She is absolutely drop dead gorgeous, and has worked her way up to a very nice career in the career field I plan on entering when I graduate. I'm not someone who generally lacks self confidence, but when I talk to her I feel like I'm making an ass of myself, second guessing everything I say.

Any helpful advice?

Yours truly,
Big Smoke

Given the age and experience difference you probably are, but you're 19 and it damn sure won't be the last time you do it so quit giving a shit about it and just PIIHB while making some connections in the field you plan to enter.

Dayze 11-07-2013 11:52 AM

Answer all of her questions, with questions. You're golden

TLO 11-07-2013 12:26 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by ghak99 (Post 10167538)
Given the age and experience difference you probably are, but you're 19 and it damn sure won't be the last time you do it so quit giving a shit about it and just PIIHB while making some connections in the field you plan to enter.

She told me today she was really impressed with my overall knowledge in the field, considering how young I am and all. I'm pretty nervous about dinner plans for tomorrow.. I don't want to make any glaring mistakes and **** things up before they get started.

Ceej 11-07-2013 12:28 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Big Smoke (Post 10167650)
She told me today she was really impressed with my overall knowledge in the field, considering how young I am and all. I'm pretty nervous about dinner plans for tomorrow.. I don't want to make any glaring mistakes and **** things up before they get started.

Cancel.

It's KU's home opener.

patteeu 11-07-2013 12:47 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Big Smoke (Post 10167650)
She told me today she was really impressed with my overall knowledge in the field, considering how young I am and all. I'm pretty nervous about dinner plans for tomorrow.. I don't want to make any glaring mistakes and **** things up before they get started.

What's your field, generally speaking?

AndChiefs 11-07-2013 12:55 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by patteeu (Post 10167696)
What's your field, generally speaking?

Antifreeze.

TLO 11-07-2013 01:19 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by patteeu (Post 10167696)
What's your field, generally speaking?

Legal Studies/ Pre Law

Pasta Little Brioni 11-07-2013 05:54 PM

I think she just wants the D.

Buck 11-07-2013 06:25 PM

Going to an Xmas part Dec 7th and will see my ex for the first time since we last parted. She told the host we're cool now and she unblocked my fb.

Knowing me, I'm gonna tap that, but I feel shitty about not being able to completely get over my feelings from her since we broke up 5 months ago. I was in love. How long does it take to completely fall out of love?

Titty Meat 11-07-2013 06:27 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Buck (Post 10168278)
Going to an Xmas part Dec 7th and will see my ex for the first time since we last parted. She told the host we're cool now and she unblocked my fb.

Knowing me, I'm gonna tap that, but I feel shitty about not being able to completely get over my feelings from her since we broke up 5 months ago. I was in love. How long does it take to completely fall out of love?

Yeah hitting it will help you get over her

LoneWolf 11-07-2013 06:38 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Buck (Post 10168278)
Going to an Xmas part Dec 7th and will see my ex for the first time since we last parted. She told the host we're cool now and she unblocked my fb.

Knowing me, I'm gonna tap that, but I feel shitty about not being able to completely get over my feelings from her since we broke up 5 months ago. I was in love. How long does it take to completely fall out of love?

(In the manliest voice possible) if you truly love someone, you never really stop loving them. That doesn't mean you want to be with them, but you will always have a special place in your heart for them and always have some sort of feelings for them.

Pasta Little Brioni 11-07-2013 06:49 PM

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Originally Posted by Buck (Post 10168278)
Going to an Xmas part Dec 7th and will see my ex for the first time since we last parted. She told the host we're cool now and she unblocked my fb.

Knowing me, I'm gonna tap that, but I feel shitty about not being able to completely get over my feelings from her since we broke up 5 months ago. I was in love. How long does it take to completely fall out of love?

At least until you meet someone else you feel strongly about. Problem is, your feelings for your ex may cloud things with other girls.

ThaVirus 11-07-2013 07:22 PM

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Originally Posted by Buck (Post 10165773)
Remember when I said I was off pussy? Well I lied. Chick from work who is down to just have sex came over (I work in a huge building and never see this person at all at work, though it is still probably stupid). She sent me this today from what happened last night. She also sent me a pic without the top on and there's a lot more bruising but I ain't bout to post her tittays on the internet.

I think I'm addicted to sex.

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DaKCMan AP 11-07-2013 08:58 PM

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Originally Posted by Buck (Post 10168278)
Going to an Xmas part Dec 7th and will see my ex for the first time since we last parted. She told the host we're cool now and she unblocked my fb.

Knowing me, I'm gonna tap that, but I feel shitty about not being able to completely get over my feelings from her since we broke up 5 months ago. I was in love. How long does it take to completely fall out of love?

It can take a while, bro. I've been in several relationships since, some of them serious, but it wasn't until I saw one of my exes (the relationship ended in 2010) this past month that I was completely over her. No more feelings.

TLO 11-08-2013 11:32 AM

Excited / nervous for my date tonight. Hope all goes well.

Rausch 11-08-2013 11:34 AM

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Originally Posted by Big Smoke (Post 10169787)
Excited / nervous for my date tonight. Hope all goes well.

I can't help it, I always think of this with internet dating...

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TLO 11-08-2013 07:05 PM

Date went well. Met her after work, we went to eat, and talked for about an hour and half. She's going home to see her family this weekend, but we have a second date planned for next week. :)Sh

Titty Meat 11-08-2013 07:15 PM

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Originally Posted by Big Smoke (Post 10170744)
Date went well. Met her after work, we went to eat, and talked for about an hour and half. She's going home to see her family this weekend, but we have a second date planned for next week. :)Sh

Did u hit it?

keg in kc 11-08-2013 07:29 PM

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Originally Posted by Bo's Pelini (Post 10170773)
Did u hit it?

If he's posting this early in the evening, and he still has a second date scheduled, then I'm guessing "no" on that one. LMAO

Hammock Parties 11-13-2013 04:57 PM

We spent all ****ing day yesterday watching movies, and she ordered in chinese. Things are going very, very well. We're exclusive now.

Discuss Thrower 11-13-2013 05:02 PM

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Pasta Little Brioni 11-13-2013 05:41 PM

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Originally Posted by Pam Oliver's Forehead (Post 10184814)
We spent all ****ing day yesterday watching movies, and she ordered in chinese. Things are going very, very well. We're exclusive now.

Niiiiice :clap:

Pasta Little Brioni 11-14-2013 09:29 PM

Things seemingly going well...get "I need some time to think before we go out again"....awesome :rolleyes::rolleyes::rolleyes:

keg in kc 11-14-2013 09:32 PM

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Originally Posted by PGM (Post 10188308)
Things seemingly going well...get "I need some time to think before we go out again"....awesome :rolleyes::rolleyes::rolleyes:

That's where I go with my patented "You need some time? You can have all the time you want. Cause we done!"

Pasta Little Brioni 11-14-2013 09:46 PM

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Originally Posted by keg in kc (Post 10188321)
That's where I go with my patented "You need some time? You can have all the time you want. Cause we done!"

Pretty much.

I have heard every variation of no longer interested and each one is equally annoying. ROFL Sad part is I catch myself giving lame excuses too, so...

Hammock Parties 11-14-2013 09:50 PM

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Originally Posted by PGM (Post 10188308)
Things seemingly going well...get "I need some time to think before we go out again"....awesome :rolleyes::rolleyes::rolleyes:

I straight up told my chick I wanted to be exclusive and she didn't balk at it.

At the same time, it's a two way street, because she said she wanted me to hang out with her more...which isn't altogether horrible. o:-)

I'm sure she would have gone looking for some other dude if I hadn't agreed to invest more time in her, though.

Pasta Little Brioni 11-14-2013 10:00 PM

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Originally Posted by Pam Oliver's Forehead (Post 10188366)
I straight up told my chick I wanted to be exclusive and she didn't balk at it.

At the same time, it's a two way street, because she said she wanted me to hang out with her more...which isn't altogether horrible. o:-)

I'm sure she would have gone looking for some other dude if I hadn't agreed to invest more time in her, though.

Eh, I was on the fence myself, so it is kind of funny. Sweet girl/ great person though. Sucks when the connection just isn't there.

HoneyBadger 11-22-2013 05:53 PM

The girl I'm dating is wanting to go to the gym with me. I've always kind of had the gym as my personal time. Anyone have any experiences with going to the gym with the girl you're currently dating?


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