Wut?

Umm, that is socialism. Man I hope you are lying. Sociology is study of societies.

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Maybe they're both confused!

Marx was an advocate of socialism, no doubt, but socialism is itself a theory of societal structure.

Cool self-reflection, brah.

This other gal I've been talking to is super cute and we seemed to have hit it off real well. But last night hit me with the "I just want to date, not looking for a relationship" line. I guess she just got out of one?

So let me get this straight? You want me to take you out, show you attention, waste my time and money.. But I don't reap any benefits from it?

Woman logic. I'll never understand it.

Move on. If/when she's ready and if you're still single and want to, you can try again. Don't waste your time if you two aren't looking for the same thing.

It's actually mature logic more than woman logic.

Being up front with me about it is mature, yes. Being on an online dating site + wanting to go out on a date with me is head scratching. I'm not on there just to mingle with women, I'd like to meet someone and have it go somewhere. What's the point if going on a date is the last step in the process?

This.

Like DaKCMan said, in your case it probably makes sense to move on because you aren't looking for the same thing. But there's no reason why everyone on a dating site needs to be looking for the same thing. Some might want NSA sex, some might be looking for a long term relationship and some, like this girl apparently, might be looking to date around and see what kind of chemistry develops.

I understand that not everyone is looking for the same thing. But, I don't understand the mindset of going into a date with the idea of "I'm not looking for a relationship". It seems like a good way to potentially miss on someone who (not saying I am) is awesome.

But maybe I'm just putting too much thought into this.

What dating site did you meet her on?

WAAAAY too much. :)

How else can you gain a man's trust to discover his dream and thereby becoming his dream make him hooked on the dream and then dangling that dream in front of him as a carrot of encouragement to get him to do whatever you want without ever having to even ask?