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MIAdragon 04-30-2014 09:23 AM

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Originally Posted by BDj23 (Post 10594966)
I understand that not everyone is looking for the same thing. But, I don't understand the mindset of going into a date with the idea of "I'm not looking for a relationship". It seems like a good way to potentially miss on someone who (not saying I am) is awesome.

But maybe I'm just putting too much thought into this.

She wanted some company and someone to pay for dinner\

MIAdragon 04-30-2014 09:23 AM

This thread is ****ing awesome btw

George Liquor 04-30-2014 09:28 AM

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Originally Posted by Katipan (Post 10594974)
WAAAAY too much. :)

How else can you gain a man's trust to discover his dream and thereby becoming his dream make him hooked on the dream and then dangling that dream in front of him as a carrot of encouragement to get him to do whatever you want without ever having to even ask?

I'm confused.

luv 04-30-2014 09:28 AM

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Originally Posted by BDj23 (Post 10594966)
I understand that not everyone is looking for the same thing. But, I don't understand the mindset of going into a date with the idea of "I'm not looking for a relationship". It seems like a good way to potentially miss on someone who (not saying I am) is awesome.

But maybe I'm just putting too much thought into this.

Men do this all the time. "I'm just looking to date (meaning have sex). I'm not looking for anything serious." So it's not just "woman logic".

Valiant 04-30-2014 09:28 AM

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Originally Posted by Chocolate Hog (Post 10594971)
What dating site did you meet her on?

tinder

:p

George Liquor 04-30-2014 09:28 AM

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Originally Posted by MIAdragon (Post 10594975)
She wanted some company and someone to pay for dinner\

That was my initial thought.

ThaVirus 04-30-2014 09:34 AM

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Originally Posted by luv (Post 10594983)
Men do this all the time. "I'm just looking to date (meaning have sex). I'm not looking for anything serious." So it's not just "woman logic".


I was going to say this. I can't hate on her because I have the same mindset 99% of the time.

That line doesn't always work with women because more often than not they're wanting a long term thing from the start. That's why you have issues with a lot of guys pretending and tricking the girls into thinking they want the same thing, when in reality all we want is the puhhh.

DaKCMan AP 04-30-2014 09:40 AM

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Originally Posted by BDj23 (Post 10594966)
I understand that not everyone is looking for the same thing. But, I don't understand the mindset of going into a date with the idea of "I'm not looking for a relationship". It seems like a good way to potentially miss on someone who (not saying I am) is awesome.

But maybe I'm just putting too much thought into this.

You are.

Over 3 years ago I was casually dating a girl. She's younger than me and was just finishing college while I'd been working full time for 4 years. We were at different places in our lives and she didn't know what she wanted yet. She wasn't ready for a relationship. I broke off our dating and didn't see or talk to her.

Fast forward 3 years. I've had several relationships/dating since, she had been in a long-term. We're both single and reconnect. We're now at the same point in our lives and we're now in a relationship. It's so much stronger than it would have been back then. What we have now was also possible because I ended it when I did 3 years ago. We wouldn't have been in the position to reconnect and try again if we had continued to move forward (without really moving forward).

George Liquor 04-30-2014 08:43 PM

So.. That girl messaged me today and asked me if I wanted to meet up.

We went out for ice cream and talked for a good 2 hours. I had a really wonderful time. She even kissed me and said she wants to do something again sometime soon.

All in all, a very good date. I'm definitely interested.

Titty Meat 04-30-2014 10:22 PM

What website did you meet her on?

Pasta Little Brioni 04-30-2014 10:43 PM

Bd went hoggin on Craigslist

ThaVirus 04-30-2014 10:51 PM

Ay, Peej. You an ass man or a tits man?

George Liquor 05-01-2014 06:49 AM

Haha. No Hoggin'.

sedated 05-01-2014 08:15 AM

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Originally Posted by BDj23 (Post 10596536)
We went out for ice cream

Sounds like a wild one

Titty Meat 05-01-2014 08:36 AM

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Originally Posted by PGM (Post 10596789)
Bd went hoggin on Craigslist

Sounds like it he wont reveal what website he met her on.


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