Buck sounds like hes insecure and thats getting in the way of his relationship. Calling this girl a drunk is his security blanket. I know a lot of girls who do this kind of shit usually they say the guy is "too perfect".

That doesnt make someone an alcholic.

If shes getting hammered everyday, violent when not drinking, missing work, etc.

You are ****ing stupid. Just because I don't post in this thread every ****ing day doesn't mean that nothing is happening with my relationship in real life.

I know what makes a person an alcoholic you dumbass. She drinks too much and it's nearly every day. Unless I have her at my house she is drinking 2-3 bottles of wine a night. I made her quit drinking when she is with me because she pissed my bed too many times.

Dude, I feel you on this.

I was in the same situation with my last GF of 2 years, and she did the same. I would get drunk, but she took it to the extreme, and my night always ended with finding a way to get her home. There were times where people thought I was taking advantage of her while walking her home because she was gorgeous, but nothing was going on upstairs (worst feeling ever). She promised me numerous times she would limit it, which never materialized.

I found myself becoming more and more controlling because I wanted the situation to change, but that's not me. Controlling girls is silly and reflects poorly of you. So I moved on. I didn't judge her or get mad or have a dramatic break-up. I just walked and didn't look back. She's contacted me numerous times, but I have never once thought about going back. It's liberating, really.

So when shes at your house she magically quits drinking?

I guess you are OK with someone you describe as "completely hammered" and "plastered" getting in a car and driving. That is not a good situation and completely ****ed up on your part.

And physically restraint her would have been better? By the time she drove home about 2 hours had passed. I know that's still not good reasoning, but I want about to have a physical struggle with her.

Whatever, it's over, I'm a piece of shit who doesn't know how to stay out of drama.

I'm done

Buck, I don't mean to belittle you for how you handled this situation, but I believe you could have handled it much better.

First, you never give an ultimatum to a woman who is drunk and angry. She's going to tell you to **** off every time.

Second, there would have been no need to physically restrain her. You calmly explain to her that you don't want to see her get hurt or hurt anyone else by driving drunk. If that doesn't work, you offer to drive her home. If she is still being an unreasonable bitch, you let her know that if she gets in her car that you will call the cops and report her as a drunk driver.

Trust me, if she would have gotten into an accident and killed herself or anyone else that would haunt you for the rest of your life. I know from experience.

Holy shit. I thought I was a heavyweight, but that's absurd. At 215 lbs, 3 bottles would do bad things to me; I can't imagine how that affects a chick that's probably 50 lbs lighter than I am or more.

A bed wetter? LMAO

How do you know Bucks gf isnt 215?

Buckley has never heard of snail trail

You should feel bad about dumping the alcoholic bed wetter. You cruel bastard.

3rd time I've seen this chick now. I really do like her. What I thought was going to be a one night thing seems to have at least a chance of becoming something else. And I'm pretty darn happy about it.