Perineum Ripper |
05-18-2014 11:14 PM |
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Originally Posted by Discuss Thrower
(Post 10637770)
It has nothing to do with attitude at this point.. There's something about who I am as a person that's defective.
And if that's the case, then there's really nothing I can do about it beside completely fabricating an entirely fake personality. Losing 15 to 30lbs won't really help in that regard.
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My advice is quit worrying about what other people think of you..When you can stop giving a shit about what other people think of you and can really be yourself then your life will become a lot easier..yea it sounds cliché but it is true..whenever you can walk up and talk to another person and just be yourself not worrying about what they think or how they see you then you can really begin to look for the person you are really compatible with
Most people start relationships on lies..being something they aren't..sending sweet texts or talking on the phone all night..flowers showing up unexpected to surprise the other person..unless that is who you are day in and out its a lie to trick the other person into liking you..After a while things slowly slide back into who both people really are and things normally sour
So be who you are..don't give a shit about what other people think and don't try to put on a show to have someone like a highlight reel of who you can pretend to be..If they don't like you for you then they are a waste of your time and there is something wrong with them
I used to worry about how other people seen me..Once I stopped caring and was myself then I was able to let go and talk to anyone I wanted and had way more success doing that and it thinned out the bullshit of trying to talk to someone who didn't really match up to who I would be good with
I'm an asshole..I have no trouble admitting it..If a chick doesn't like that then she can go on with her life looking for whatever she wants..If a girl can handle my asshole attitude and my sarcasm from the start then she can be graced with my awesome and my sweet moves in the sack that will make her life a nonstop ride to orgasm land
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