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The intrusion is a bunch of dorks SENDING the request in the first place.

A friend request is exactly like knocking on somebody's door. The very same thing. Would you go knock on the door of somebody (either party) involved with this situation and say - hey, let me watch the train-wreck. Can I come inside?

And she can just deny the request if she chooses, correct?

But it's not the same thing. One can watch the train wreck that is her situation without ever seeing her Facebook account. Isn't that pretty much exactly what Donger and yourself are doing?

Perhaps I'm giving the sender of the request too much credit. I'm sure that they did so thinking that she would get them and be happy.

I already explained to you the difference between reaching out to either the husband or the wife and this thread.

You don't see the difference between the two? Really?

Go **** yourself you piece of shit. I sent the guy one invitation over facebook.

Perhaps your assigning a moral position where there isn't one. If she wishes for privacy, she can merely deny the requests.

If I'm wrong about her being able to deny them, please let me know.

You can also choose to ignore the protesters at the the funerals I suppose.

You asked how is making a friend request an attempt to hurt a person. It's what they plan on doing if they happened to be accepted as friends.

It's really just called being a decent human being and some people seem to struggle with doing that.

I don't understand your reaction. You wanted to meet this man, no? You wanted to have fun with him, right?

Quit being a bitch and you won't have anything to worry about. Why the **** would you kick a man while he's down?

I see you trying to claim a difference as a way to excuse your own behavior while criticizing the behavior of others.

Perhaps I'm reading that wrong, but that's the way it looks from here.

I don't use Facebook, so I don't know if she can setup blanket denials. My opinion is that she shouldn't have to in the first place.

No, not in the slightest. By asking for FB friendship you're asking to be allowed in the inner circle. It's akin to asking the family to observe in her hospital room for jollies even though you didn't know her. Might as well ask her mother for a go at her while she's "under".

Because one is here (where these people are not) and the other is intentionally reaching out to the actual people involved.