Ha. You think that a dude's "selection" matters.

If you're on a dating website and you come across a profile you're interested in, then there are extremely likely chances that multiple better looking / more successful men than you are have already sent a message (or many) and you're winning move is not to play.

A strange game.

I think it completely matters. You have to look beyond appearances. I pretty much only message girls I think I am compatible with personality wise. My response rate is pretty decent when I stay to true to myself. I skip over the girls who mention Jesus or want kids mostly.

The best girl I met in the last year actually messaged me first.

ROFL

You think you can figure that out by a totally fabricated dating profile?

Shit, maybe you should stick to girls who mention Jesus because they're at least more likely to be honest.

Your problem is you.

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You think you can negate what I'm saying by posting an image macro?


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You think you've got it all figured out don'tcha, Discuss?

Damn straight I do.

If you're a dude worth "dating", then you do sure as **** don't need to be on a pay-for-play service such as Match.com to advertise this fact. If you are desirable in "real life" then you shouldn't need a dating website at all.

Jfc dude. You are a lost cause. Some people have busy lifestyles and meeting quality people in your 30 s is tough anyway especially if you are done with the bar scene.

That said yeah the women on those sites are shallow as **** as well as we are. You can have success as an average dude. I should say some can...they will run away from you faster than one of those sea critters.

What is your definition of desirable?

The “I suck and you will just dump me for someone better” mindset will draw very few women and will push away the few that break through it.

Define "better" and "more desirable" in the dating world. Aside from a few intangibles that are universally attractive (success, loyalty, etc.), everyone is looking for something different.

You bae.

From his posts in this thread, it's pretty easy to see why Discuss is having issues on the dating scene.

Self-awareness?

Depends. What are you aware of?