My looks aren't good enough to outweigh my personality, and my personality isn't good enough to outweigh my looks.

Damn man, you're still looking at this all wrong.

Dating websites expand your circle with very little effort. How else can you get your face in front of multiple women on a daily basis without expending a single ounce of effort? It's one of the greatest multitasking tools I've ever used.... and it gets you laid. Anyone who knocks it simply isn't using it right or doesn't accept it for what it is.

You were in a fraternity. You got laid at one time. You're not hopeless. You may be trying to outkick your coverage or date up too much. I don't know. What I do know is that going through life with a defeatist attitude, closed off to the possibility of forming a meaningful relationship with someone is a self-defeating prophecy.

I mean, I don't want to go all Stuart Smalley on you, but you need some positive affirmation.

What I need is a job.

Some chicks don't even care about anything else if you've got that.

Dude, that is a bullshit excuse.

I recently graduated with a Bachelor's degree in a worthless field just the same as you. Now I'm sitting here with a piece of shit degree with no job prospects because all I'm qualified to do is work in restaurants.

... And you know what? I still get pussy because I'm the ****ing man and nobody can tell me any different.

I have a college degree and all I ended up doing was working for my dads company.

That's pretty much my only opportunity. But I'd have to move back to Joplin. And I hate Joplin.

That sucks, my dad is about to sell some land in Ft. scott kansas and its actually not far from Joplin, I've chatted with a few Joplin folks and they used to call it Joplin, Mizzery.

I know I'll get hate from J-Diddy, but the whole area sucks. I know there's a bunch of new stuff being built as part of the revitalization after the tornado, but it's a municipal version of polishing a turd.

I will say that dating websites can be a negative for someone with low self-esteem. You get in the face of lots more women, but also get rejected by lots more women, and you never know why so you instantly find ways to blame yourself.

Internet dating is superficial the relationships never last.

*Ive never tried Match.com sounds like a different ball game.

The best way to meet people is through mutual friends.

Lots of people have met their spouses via the internet. Even on POF.

I dont think ive met anyone whos marries off POF.

Lots of people have though.