I swapped numbers with a chick once during a company party at a bar with specific instructions to call her (she was with a different group). I called twice, no return call. No joke, she spots me 3 years later at another bar, comes over and apologizes for never calling me back. I didn't even recognize her. She said he hooked up with an ex after she left that night and stayed with him for the last 3 years. Unfortunately, I was either really wasted when we had swapped numbers, or she didn't age well because I was like thanks, welp, have a good night.

Think of it as a bullet dodged.

That is a good point. I even if you don't feel like it is bullet dodged. It was a bullet dodged. I used to think my feelings and ego were reality, but outsiders would always say...oh dude that chick would have been bad for you. They were right. Lots of the game of life is seperating yourself (Not being a pussy) from your feelings and setting yourself up for situations that bring you happy. If you are always chasing slores for your ego and pride you will get one that sucks and will ride the cock carrassel at a t-bones came in my van.

Yep. Dudes have a habit of putting "the one that got away" on some pedestal when in fact that bitch is probably loaded up on carbs right now and getting bitchy with someone over the phone.

It's a bad cycle of "The one that got away" makes me feel bad that effects my work, that effects my choices, that makes me a pussy...that makes me not find quality snatch....instead of being a man and doing good work, doing stuff for charity, lifting weights, listen to music, feel good without "the one who got away" get quality pussy.

I got a date with a 41 year old milf

I had a casual relationship with a woman in her low 40s for a few months last year, and it was fantastic. Aside from the fact that she was WAY better in bed than any of the 20-somethings I've been with (she told me stories about some of the rich and powerful she had slept with, including admirals and the like), she was also much more interesting to talk to about regular stuff.

Then again, mine had multiple graduate degrees from Harvard, so I guess your mileage may vary.

Yeahhhh, going to assume that sort of background is going to distinguish this woman from the majority of her peers.

No we're all definitely better in bed than 20 somethings.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YkLIP5ftWv0

I talk about putting 10,000 hours into working on your mental game-guitar-getting better. Most people want to bitch and moan about dating, when they haven't put the work on themselves to be good enough to attract the oppo sex.

TL;DL

Women in their 40s can be brutally hot. Laughing at that sentence is just a sign of insecurity.

And yes, women get better in bed with age. I'm actually pretty jaded about women in their 20's. I've met too many young-20's women with a drastically inflated sense of self-worth, and too many mid- or late-20s women that are itching to get knocked up.

The concept of self worth is definitely completely foreign to many of them. The fairy tail mentality isn't helping the cause either.

Not too long ago I had a 23 year old tell me she deserved "better" and "more" after no contact for a few weeks. Turned out this was no more than a week after her getting arrested for fighting with a family member, while intoxicated, in public and spending a week in two rivers. ROFL

No, no you don't.

Personally, I blame the massive explosion in the romantic comedy film industry in the last 15 years. Dozens of films all with basically the same plot, with an incredibly handsome and successful guy marrying some girl who is ****ed up or has some kind of issues and oh he looks past it all bla bla bla bla.

Not to mention The Bachelorette.

While true in a general sense, the younger generation can be straight up freaks. If they continue to progress, I hope to god I'm able to land a 40 something when I'm in my 60's. :drool: