Originally Posted by DaKCMan AP (Post 10723675)

Wrong.





Right.


It's about confidence. Sure, looks can give you confidence. So can exercising, socializing, and self-improvement. Many girls are attracted to a guy who is confident and that guy becomes better looking than he really may be.

Originally Posted by Chocolate Hog (Post 10723699)

I am confident after reading a Dakc post because he is awesome

Originally Posted by Demonpenz (Post 10723682)

Being a "Hot guy" is not all about looks. You can be the top 99% of wit, humor, money making, social skills, etc. You can be a hot guy with average looks. I have a bag O tricks because I have years in the game. I have tools that I can use to bring down those hot girls bitch face. Of course people want to whine and play xbox all day because they are lazy ****s. I also am not of the approach "let it happen" I don't see any other skills in life where people "let it happen" it's not like you learn to play piano by "Not thinking about it and letting it happen" you work on your game and you work on relationships like any other skills. Think about what you want and what you don't want and improve yourself over time to get that. In my world "Let it happen and don't worry about it" gets you some sea donkey that sucks at making me laugh and can't do shit for herself.

Originally Posted by Demonpenz (Post 10723682)

Being a "Hot guy" is not all about looks. You can be the top 99% of wit, humor, money making, social skills, etc. You can be a hot guy with average looks. I have a bag O tricks because I have years in the game. I have tools that I can use to bring down those hot girls bitch face. Of course people want to whine and play xbox all day because they are lazy ****s. I also am not of the approach "let it happen" I don't see any other skills in life where people "let it happen" it's not like you learn to play piano by "Not thinking about it and letting it happen" you work on your game and you work on relationships like any other skills. Think about what you want and what you don't want and improve yourself over time to get that. In my world "Let it happen and don't worry about it" gets you some sea donkey that sucks at making me laugh and can't do shit for herself.

Originally Posted by GordonGekko (Post 10723747)

Solid.



This goes to the poeple who act like victims in this thread. In the love game no one is a victim. The good ones go out and make it happen.

Originally Posted by Count Zarth (Post 10723437)

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Originally Posted by PackerinMo (Post 10723486)

How about the schmucks that are like" Yeah I'll go get me a wife overseas.?" As soon as she becomes Americanized she will be out the door. A friend of my dads married this chick from Brazil and like a year later her and her mother took everything of his and kicked him out the door, how sweet of them.

Originally Posted by DaKCMan AP (Post 10723675)

It's about confidence. Sure, looks can give you confidence. So can exercising, socializing, and self-improvement. Many girls are attracted to a guy who is confident and that guy becomes better looking than he really may be.

Originally Posted by keg in kc (Post 10723914)

Some guys just aren't that guy. Everybody's different and some people just aren't wired that way. It's not like you can go out and buy a bottle of "change your entire being". If somebody needs real psychological help, no amount of "exercising, socializing and self-improvement" is actually going to 'fix' whatever's really wrong with them. Not that they shouldn't do those things, but without addressing the real core issues that make them the person they are, it'll just be a bi-polar roller-coaster.

Originally Posted by Katipan (Post 10724006)

Confidence makes you universally attractive but what women seek physically in men is about as universal as what you people seek in us. Quit blaming your face.
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Originally Posted by DaKCMan AP (Post 10723976)

I don't disagree with you. Some people have issues. Discuss has severe self-esteem issues. I also realize that his issues are what drive his attitude. What I was responding to, however, is the notion that if you're not good looking, don't bother because you'll never succeed with females. While I have no experience relating to that circumstance, I have perceived confidence, among other things, to be of more importance to a woman than mere looks.

Originally Posted by Count Zarth (Post 10724032)

There has to be SOME kind of physical attraction there, but if we don't have common interests or personalities that mesh it's not going to work.

Case in point, I had dinner two weeks ago with a very cute girl, but the conversation was like pulling teeth. I'm not wasting any more time with her unless she feels a need to get in touch again.

Originally Posted by Count Zarth (Post 10724032)

There has to be SOME kind of physical attraction there

Originally Posted by Count Zarth (Post 10724032)

Looks only get you so far, anyway.

I've learned to stop trying to connect with women simply because they're physically attractive.

There has to be SOME kind of physical attraction there, but if we don't have common interests or personalities that mesh it's not going to work.

Case in point, I had dinner two weeks ago with a very cute girl, but the conversation was like pulling teeth. I'm not wasting any more time with her unless she feels a need to get in touch again.