It is has crossed my mind

Does she have a job now?

If you have enough cash after the c()nt rakes you over the coals, get yourself a nice hot rod. I realize it is cliche, but at least it'll be fun.

Sorry to hear about your losses. I'd suggest The Macallan.

Well hang in there, it will get better after all the bullshit is done. Live your life and have some fun.

Of course she doesn't. She's a f()ckin lazy leach. She'll live off his hard earned retirement money.

By the way, if your wife has left you for another man that's adultry. You contest it, you should come out on top financially.

Maybe there are some real positives that can come from this, who knows.

It should bring some sort of solitude to see your integrity is unblemished while someone doing you wrong has none. Maybe, I don't know.

Yes since she left she has started work a small business here in town as a receptionist or something

Seriously, you should get a better lawyer. Under the circumstances, you should at least get half the value of the house. I would fight that bitch tooth and nail over that. Let the guy she's ****ing buy her a house.

God I hope so, but right now I see none.

It's what you make it to be honest. Like I said, after all the BS is done, old Monk needs live some dreams and have some fun. I'm not saying go bat shit crazy, but live your life and enjoy it.

That really sucks. Listen, hop in the car, drive to the nearest liquor store, and buy a bottle of Glenlivet (aged 12 yrs plus). I bought that for my husband and he raves about it! Good luck to u Monk.

Ok here is the long and short of it.

#1 Colorado has some F-ed up laws...
#2 Based on what I have read so far... the "standard" for CO would be for you to split the house and pay her temporary Alimony
#3 I am assuming they are trying to take ALL of the house in lieu of any alimony (bullshit!)
#4 All lawyers suck and are lazy. Period. if your attorney is highly regarded, that just means she may actually work 20 real hours a week and may actually give a shit and THINK during 2 of those. They are as unethical as automechanics and as unreliable as doctors... so, please get at least ONE other opinion before you agree to something as life changing as your final divorce decree.

(Apologies to any lawyers, docotrs or mechanics... hyperbole needed for point...)

That is really really good for you. Did she physically move out? Is she living with the other guy?