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Good luck, dude. I wish you, and, most importantly, the child well.

Don't worry, you'll get your DNA test. Right after the husband leaves her and decides he doesn't want to pay child support on you kid.

Anyway, kudos for trying to do the right thing.

Sent from my ADR6350

The moral to this story: Don't impregnate a married women with the expectation you'll get parental rights.

The end.

I dont know, perhaps he changed his mind?

"I've changed my mind AGAIN! I'm coming HOME!!!!"

Wow thanks for the enlightenment...maybe we should call you Captain Hindsight and you can come around and tell people not to make the mistakes they already made..

This could be your theme song:

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You're so ****ed in the head.....it's funny.

Yep that's it. Or maybe smart enough to keep things wrapped up so I don't spend my life savings to chase after a crazy married broad that "says" she's having my baby. That's totally a smart play. Leave it to you and fail to totally want to do this.

It probably happened to both of you so I understand your defending it. Congrats to you both. :thumb:

Your reading comprehension is awful. There's a big difference between wanting this to happen and defending someone who has had the misfortune / made the mistake of having this happen to them.

If you can't sort out the difference and put yourself in his shoes for a little bit, it probably means you lack basic human empathy which is a social skill.

I totally understand. If this happened to me no way would I want to be involved with the woman. Or take on an totally unstable family situation.

To each his own. Given this scenario I'd consider myself lucky.

Yeah....you'd abandon your son. What a stand up guy you are.

I can see your point somewhat, especially regarding the woman...but I would always feel like a douche for not trying to make sure my son was taken care of....I suppose if I KNEW 100% that the child would be better off without me, then I would agree with your stance...but if I thought that I could help or make a significant impact, then I would want to.

Let's say, hypothetically, he's successful and men in UT are granted the right to request a DNA test. You can see how it might be bad public policy in situations where the adulterer isn't the father. The family just got put through the ringer for no good reason.

It's a tough scenario either way.

I'll amend my moral: Don't f**k a married woman.

So he should suffer because the woman is a whore?