Originally Posted by R8ers (Post 8382954)

Help me figure out this chick for a good friend of mine..

Ok, my friend was married for 16 years, his wife basically came home one day and said she did not want to be married anymore... So that's over... He has been legally separated for like 6 months now. He has 2 very well behaved children....


Ok here's the deal, the guy met a good looking woman about 3 months ago and she would like to come over in the mornings to his house and booty call him after all the kids go to school (he works nights too) and she was happy with that.

Background on her, she is very good looking , 35 years old but she has one major problem and that problem is her 2 kids from hell,(10 & 5) I mean these kids hit her, disrespect her and everybody she is around, run in restaurants , slam doors so hard you think they are coming off the hinges etc... imagine bad then add 10 times more to it... I mean really bad.

He is a very dedicated Dad and his kids come #1 in his life and she is mad because he will not spend more time with her, she is now withholding the promised land from him now trying to get her way.... Should he just dump her and move onto another woman who just wants to date? He has 3 or 4 scoping him out and want to date him. What do I tell this dumbass to prevent him from living a life of misery with this girl

Originally Posted by bevischief (Post 8383533)

As a friend till him to move on. Not worth it for a piece of ass. From someone without kids 20 plus yrs later who was in the boat.

Originally Posted by R8ers (Post 8383538)

Yep but thats the deal, he only hangs out with her when his kids are with their Mom, he is with his kids when they are with him and they are with him most of the time... He basically is bummed out because a hot chick is not interested in just booty calls and no inter mingling families LMAO

He does not want his kids around her kids because they don't like them, they are not snooty bratty kids they were just not brought up like that and so my bud don't force his kids to be with them nor will he pawn his kids off on a sitter or his parents to go out with her and she has a major case of the ass over it... He will go over to her house though with her kids there but says he feels like sticking forks in their heads after about 10 mins (of course he is joking)

Originally Posted by R8ers (Post 8383543)

The dude said the chick is amazing in bed and if it weren't for that I am sure he would have dumped her long ago

Originally Posted by R8ers (Post 8383543)

The dude said the chick is amazing in bed and if it weren't for that I am sure he would have dumped her long ago

Originally Posted by Just Passin' By (Post 8383544)

I hear what you're saying, but I can assure your friend that there are plenty of smokin' hot, nympho-like psychotic divorcees out there who don't have the same problem (out of control kids) that this woman has. He can find one that has a whole different set of accompanying baggage.

Originally Posted by Donger (Post 8383547)

And she's already using that (or not using it) as a tactic.

Originally Posted by bevischief (Post 8383554)

Not trying to start anything being a voice of reason from someone who has been there.

Originally Posted by R8ers (Post 8383563)

I will tell him that later today, thanks



Hell yea see, his ex wife went cold for like the last 2 years, he told me he could count on 1 hand how many times he had sex with her that last 2 years. He said when she did have sex with him he felt like it was damn near rape or something as she was emotionless and just basically laid there.

I am sure he relayed this same info to this new chick so she ran with it, wild marathon sex, said he could touch here and kiss her for like 5 mins and she couldn't sit in a chair without sliding out of it... Stroked his fragile ego, made him feel like a man when his ex basically never showed him anything for the last 2 years....

I see where he is coming from but this woman is a Pro at it and I told him to think about this..

I told him if a woman as pretty and smoking hot as her was on the market, why hasn't she had many dates in 6 years....

Originally Posted by BigChiefFan (Post 8383289)

The kids are a direct reflection of her and she has a direct hand in molding them into what they are.

Move on and play the field.

Originally Posted by Donger (Post 8383582)

And now she is threatening to withhold it in order to get what she wants. If he is willing to give her what she wants in order to get his carrot wet, so be it.

Originally Posted by R8ers (Post 8383576)

No that's cool, I am feeling the same as you, just trying to be delicate and not piss him off because he is a good friend but 6 months ago he was down in the dumps on the phone with me (we both drive so we have plenty of free time to talk on phone) about how he thinks his life is over because the EX is gone, how he will probably die alone blah blah blah... Me like a dumbass got him hooked up on Facebook (he didn't have an account) Now this guy has women practically beating his door down to date him and he can't get away from this one crazy bitch with the hell children...

I don't get it

Originally Posted by bevischief (Post 8383593)

I do but you have to go thru it. Do your best.

Originally Posted by R8ers (Post 8382968)

I told him he ****ed up telling her all the things his ex wife didn't do, lack of affection, sex etc... Because this woman has zeroed in like a Laser on these areas to try to sink her claws in him... She is basically broke and he has his own home and a good job, very clean and responsible and is a good catch for a woman, she knows this but she has no idea how much she is scaring this guy off....

He would work nights and leave the door unlocked after the kids go to school and wake up to her naked in the bed beside him... Of course this rocked his world.