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Please pray for Lumpy (https://chiefsplanet.com/BB/showthread.php?t=340164)

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Originally Posted by stevieray (Post 15879752)

Her hubby passed away. They have a wonderful daughter together.

She is now a mom raising two boys.

Please say a prayer and keep her in your thoughts.

I can only imagine what she is going through right now.

Love on your family while you can, people.

Oh no. That's absolute nightmare fuel. Breaks my heart.

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Originally Posted by Frazod (Post 15880329)

Every time I post or say "sorry for your loss" I feel a little piece of my soul die. But what the hell else do you say?

Laura is one of three female friends of mine who are all sweet, wonderful people that the gods have seen fit to use as ****ing chew toys. Seems like every time I talk to one of them some fresh new horrible thing has happened. It's almost like they're in a race to see who gets shit on the hardest. I guess Laura just took the lead. :(

So, so true. It feels so empty and inadequate.

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Originally Posted by Frazod (Post 15880329)

Every time I post or say "sorry for your loss" I feel a little piece of my soul die. But what the hell else do you say?

Laura, im so sorry to hear about what happened to Robert.

Then just let her know that you are thinking about her and you are there if she needs anything.

Even though some people just want to be left alone they still appreciate the gesture and hell maybe she just needs someone to listen if she wants to talk. Just extend the olive branch so to speak.

So sorry for your loss and prayers for comfort in this difficult time.

So sorry to hear. Very sad. I wish them a new kind of strength to get through this.

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Originally Posted by Bugeater (Post 15879943)

Life has definitely shoveled more than her fair share of shit in her face. Keep getting the urge to text her in a feeble attempt to console her but damn...what do you say when there are no words?

You say:

I was thinking of you and wanted to give you a chance to vent if you need it.

I'm here if you need anything.

I don't know what to say to make this better but please know that you are not alone.

Let me know if there is anything I can help with for your kids.

Here are links to low cost therapy/counseling/support group options-

https://www.healthline.com/health/th...#sliding-scale

Prayers sent to Lumpy & her family.

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Prayers for you and your family

This family is in my thoughts and prayers
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Originally Posted by FAX (Post 15880744)

Done.

Otter

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Originally Posted by Frazod (Post 15879908)

Let us know if anybody sets up a gofundme thing for her.

^this^ prayers to Lumpy and her boys...

Horrible news. Prayers for your family.

Laura, I can relate to what you are going through with the death of a loved one & children.

May God Bless you with the comfort of his healing spirit to guide you during this difficult time in your life.

If you need an ear that will listen, or a comforting friend to confide with, please do not hesitate to contact me.

Again. May God Bless you with unlimited love and support as well as wisdom and understanding to help you guide your children in the coming days ahead.

Roy.

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Originally Posted by listopencil (Post 15880541)

I hate to say anything further as I don't disagree with any of this at all and don't want to come off like Bugeater or anyone should do something.... but, will just throw out there for generality that it's greatly beneficial if someone is able to act on "if you need anything".... such as buying some groceries so they don't have to worry about doing that for the week, or whatever; and of course like the gofundme suggestion earlier.

People generally don't want to be a burden and won't usually respond to "let me know if you need anything" with "sure, you could do my shopping / watch my kids / etc" unless it's close family, but if there are specific/obvious things that could be done, going that route could be a great help.