I have no input in the matter.

I agree, it's shameless. Tragic situations somehow have a way of getting society's knuckledraggers out in force.

What's her name and where does she live (city,state)? We can find her on FB that way.

You're confusing disagreement with your position with an inability to follow your argument.

Well, if your Mom were to started banging high school boys and a thread was started about it here, I would wager that the vast majority of them would be sent to be nasty and not actually friendly.

whats her name, I'll leave it up to her to decide.

Curious = nasty?

Perhaps you jumped into this without reading far enough back, but I posted earlier that I thought Clay's action of contacting the husband and sending him an invite to come here was distasteful.

Only on friday nights.

It can be, yes.

Anyway, that scenario above is hypothetical (I presume).

What you did was not. And you've already acknowledged that your intentions were not friendly.

So is sending a Facebook friend request to the wife.

Imagine someone creates a thread on the main board about something you're really embarrassed about. Some secret so bad, that you would consider committing suicide if it were to become public. Now imagine those people from TMB started sending you friend requests on FB. Would that have a nasty feel to you or would you just think it was innocent curiosity? Comon, man, you're not that dumb. Admit you were acting like a little piece of shit and move on.

I disagree. Well, to be more accurate, I would say that it would depend on intent.

Then you're an idiot. Sorry.

I see you added. Yes, the intent is key. Now, what do you think was the intent of those who claim they sent her a request?

so what's your mom's name? I wanna send her a friend request.