I mean look at this girl. That's a niner. Damn.

http://pictures.match.com/pictures/3...23063447X.jpeg

http://pictures.match.com/pictures/3...23063447M.jpeg

Here's another knockout.

http://pictures.match.com/pictures/2...03202347K.jpeg

http://pictures.match.com/pictures/2...03202347I.jpeg

And I just fell ass over teakettle into those tonight. It's not hard.

crazy eyes...

A friend of mine is a super hot blonde and the reason no one in our crew dates her is because she can be el crazy! I recommended one of the sites to her and she's one of the hottest chicks on there. She gets plenty of messages but those guys don't know what I know.

I would say the majority of time this is true but not always! There are diamonds in the rough I'm sure.

After making fun of these dating websites on page 52? Of this thread I was politely told to knock it off. I then decided to try these sites (okcupid & POF) and I had mixed results. Went out with 2 different chicks and had an overall great Experiance because of those sites. Here's one of them.

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Keep in mind that sites like Match aren't just used by people who "can't get any" under normal circumstances. A lot of people resort to online dating because they're too busy with work to go out looking, they aren't surrounded by a dateable peer group, or both.

You're in med school, right? It's much, much easier to find dates when everyone around you is around your age and they aren't your coworkers. I'm in consulting, which tends to attract a pretty young crowd, but I made the mistake of finding a girlfriend from within the company last year.

We didn't even work at the same client and never saw each other at work, but after our amicable (and mutual) breakup, it was still very touchy when going the company's city-wide events. She ended up dating another guy in the company, and they are very public with their relationship. That's embarrassing for me, and I find myself going to fewer of the events. It would be better for my career to not be in that position, so I consider the lesson learned.

Combined with a heavy/unpredictable work schedule, that means that I have very few venues for finding worthwhile women. I'm not using it now, but online dating is one of those remaining methods (and I'm ****ing 24 years old). Not a desirable scenario to be in, but a true one.

Shit, maybe I should figure out a graduate program to enroll in. I miss collegiate life!

Unless she's over 250 that's something I'd swing at.

She's more like 115. I would now conclude that dating sites are just another helpful tool in the dating scene.

This thread needs more pics.

I tried a bunch of those sites, and ended up finding my wife on match. Makes weeding them out pretty easy; college education, must like football, high salary, athletic build... and went to town. Whoever said that teachers are crazy on the previous page was right. :)

**** yes I am.

And equal disdain for gays, of course.

There is a reason why a rule exists to not date anyone in your workplace ever. It always ends shittily for all parties involved. Pick off their hot friends, yes!

Man. What do you do with a girl who doesn't particularly like eating out or watching movies?

Live music

You can't even land the chubbies?......damn

**** like rabbits

It sucks when you're not compatible with someone you're super attracted to.

Because she doesn't like eating out or movies? If those two things are truly the only things you like doing you'd better pick something she likes and embrace change.

They aren't, but I'm a simple man. Dinner and a movie makes me happy. If someone can't find joy in such an evening they might not be my type.

She should have a slew of interests and hot spots listed to choose from. Start with that.

The woman eats I'm sure and you can see movies with your friends. Your end goal isn't to find a woman who will eat and watch movies with you. Your end goal is supposed to be finding someone that thinks you being happy is the end goal. Even if that means she finds something else to do on nights you polish your lightsaber.

You will have decades to sit on a couch, eat and watch movies. Go live a little so you have a frame of reference of... I dunno... life?

:hmmm:

While true, it's probably not that ****ing hard to find someone who's into that. I mean, come on.

I KNOW, RIGHT?

You don't have to polish a lightsaber like a sword - it is permanently resplendent through the power of the force!!!

An another, totally unrelated note, I've never understood how women tend to get so obsessed with TV shows. Nobody who's worth anything cares that much about a dumb TV show like Downton Abbey, AMIRITE?

No but I'm assuming you have a list of other requirements too... I don't know many girls our age that love going to movies early on in a relationship. You can't talk and its been the go-to date place since we were teenagers.

Aim younger or lower.

Sure, when they're in their 20s.

Neither do I, and I haven't even attempted that. I'm not a dumbass.

I'm just saying that enjoying movies is an activity I'd prefer to share with my partner.

RE: This, my list is really not that difficult.

1. Attractive.
2. Not a bar hopping club skank.
3. Employed.
4. Enjoys dining out/foodie, loves movies.
5. Low maintenance.
6. Non religious, or at least compatible with someone who isn't.

I don't feel like that person should be hard to find.

I was thinking more along the lines of a euphemism for masturbation.

You're such a nerd.

It would bother me too

I know. :(

My budtender last week was an attractive young tattooed woman who pushed a strain called Deathstar on me. It was mind blowing. First time I ever smelled a woman's fingers. She was not currently dating anyone.

I'm just saying... Want an employed chick that loves eating and movies? You need to start smoking pot.

Women play this game, too?

Drugs are a dealbreaker.

Why and how is weed a deal breaker

:hmmm:

Because it's a drug.

How is it a drug..it's a plant..drugs you add shit to it..water baking soda whatever goes into it..weed grows the way it is..I understand it's no good to sit around and only smoke weed all day just like it's bad to sit around and drink all day but I don't see how it's a deal breaker or why weed is so scary to people

Is Alcohol a dealbreaker?

How about caffeine?

Let her help you get outside your box/comfort zone. She may show you something new.

I've been around girls who liked weed before. I didn't like them when they were on it. It's a turn off.

That's cool and all, but if she literally never wants to enjoy a nice meal out, um, that's an issue.

Of course not. I'm not a complete square.

I love the people who use the "it's natural, so it's not a drug" argument. Natural things can be pharmacologically active and extremely toxic.

And, I'll just place this right here:

http://adai.uw.edu/marijuana/factshe...oryeffects.htm

Now, I don't care if you use or not, because that's your prerogative, but marijuana is not an innocuous substance.

That's precisely how I feel about alcohol.

Im cool with just about any drug so as long as it is responsible use.

Blah. You have a much better shot at being able to tell I'm high when I'm posting on CP than in person. Too much black and white in your life.

Alcohol is a drug.

People seem to forgot that.

It's also far worse than MJ.

It's not unreasonable to expect anyone you want to be with to avoid drugs. Along the same lines I'm not into girls who get rip roaring drunk three times a week.

And I assure you, there are plenty of girls like that out there.

Yeah, having a couple of drinks is way worse than sitting around getting stoned out of your ****ing gourd.

Please. It's much worse. And for me, it makes someone completely unattractive.

Just eat it, then.

No it's not. But to write off an entire category of women because you found a few flighty obnoxious ones isn't necessarily doing you a service.

Why do you use the small example for drinks and the extreme example for weed? You argue better than that.

LMAO Educate yourself.

Girls getting sloppy drunk and pissing on themselves is attractive?

Serious question, have you ever smoked marijuana?

Doubtful

I don't use it but I have..I just don't see why it's illegal but cigarettes, alcohol, and some legal drugs are glanced over..they are no different..it is naturally grown that way so I don't think it should be considered a drug..but the definition of the word is different..If I could post the link I would show what supports my side

Absolutely not.

But as I already said, having been around those who have, not interested in those kinds of people. At least as a prospective partner.

Absolutely not. Don't tolerate that either.

Even getting a little stoned is unattractive to me. Just the simple act disgusts me. I didn't use an extreme example.

ROFL

THC is lipid soluble, and dissolves quite nicely in butter. Butter is an important component in certain baked goods.

I think you might be onto something.

Shocking.

Tell us how it's worse than Alcohol.

Are you high? Stoned out of your gourd is an extreme example.

I can understand if it isn't attractive to you..I was just curious why if was a deal breaker but drinking wasn't..it is really confusing why people freak out about weed and say it's a drug it's so bad but those same people go drink..that's very hypocritical to me

I thought so. The whole "stoned out of your gourd" comment is why I asked. I haven't smoked in 5 years, but casual use is not mind altering. To me it's like taking a really effective muscle relaxer. It just takes the edge off and causes me to feel relaxed. As someone said earlier, you'd have a real hard time telling I'd been smoking if you were around me.

In my experience, I'd much rather surround myself with smokers than drinkers.

Virtually zero chance of there being any violence.

While I agree that it can be safer than many things we conventionally use, I have no idea what this means. Again, natural things can have bad side effects.

Aflatoxin from mushrooms can have life-threatening muscarinic effects and ephedra from ma huang can cause CNS and cardiac issues resulting in death. Those are two examples off the top of my head because I'm too lazy to look it up.

This.

Myself, I haven't smoked in about 2 years.

I have a CDL. I can't risk it.

I completely understand things are naturally grown and deadly but we aren't talking about those..people are allergic to nuts so are those considered drugs

Bad choice of words.

Anyway, plenty of nice girls who don't get high out there. No need for me to mess with those who do choose to engage in such a nasty habit.

My reaction to those who smoke weed, even a little, is repugnance.

If a girl has a couple of drinks, I'm cool with that. She's still attractive to me.

Simple as that.

mac... I have no idea what you're trying to say, man. I'm sorry. But classifying allergens as drugs has never been common, and it will make me question everything you say.

Your Jehovah's witness upbringing is showing.

:)

My wife has a nut allergy. Any time they get close to her face, her jaw clenches shut. :D

Do women who smoke cigarettes turn you off as well?

Because it's illegal? Regardless of your personal feelings on the subject, the legality of the two is a notable difference, and could very reasonably be an issue someone doesn't want to deal with.

If someone doesn't want to date someone who smokes weed, or drinks, or whatever else, what does it matter? Everyone has their criteria for dating...

ROFL

What I'm trying to say is if weed is considered a drug because it has harmful effects as it's naturally grown then you can say things like nuts can be drugs..I say that because both have effects that cause chemical reactions in your body that change how your brain and body operate..so I don't see how people lump weed in as a horrible drug but never say anything about drinking

Sure. It's hard to completely remove that kind of programming. It is what it is.

Big time.

He never said it was because it was illegal so that has nothing to do with it..I was curious why it was a deal breaker and why people think it's so bad whenever the affects of it are no worse than drinking..most of the time damn near all the time it's effects are milder when taken in moderation

Can I read your profile? Clinically and with love?

Drinking to excess is horrible.