**** I dunno.

I figured it was a vasectomy. I wouldn't have posted a lame joke had I thought it was due to something else. o:-)

Neither do I.

Wait, what are you talking about?

Edit: *buzzer* Time is up, Joey. I got sick of waiting for you to respond, so now I'm logging out.

See? Communication fail. Had you just expressed what was on your mind, I would have stuck around.

:)

So she cooked me dinner last night, we had some wine, watched about 40 min of Hot Fuzz, then went at it. Seems like a great date, but I just have this feeling this morning of meh...which sucks.

I'm not sure why, but if I get the same feeling next time I'm probably going to cut ties before I get too deep.

That sounds awful, for as much as I've dug this chick the last month.

Yeah, that sucks bro. Sometimes the chemistry just isn't there or the initial sparks dim. Could have been just an off night, though, so good luck next time.

I think I could use some advice myself.

I need to convey to her that I have trouble doing anything after 9pm on weeknights...without sounding rude or unappreciative.

Just tell her but explain why. Ensure her that you want to see her & spend time with her but provide the reasons why post-9PM activities disrupt other aspects of your life (I'm guessing work).

Based on back and forth texts that I initiated this morning, I don't think its going to last much longer.

We'll see.

Why the **** would you do that?

Just curious. How many dates did you go on that didn't involve sex? And by dates, I mean going out.

Maybe it was just an attraction thing that just wore out?

Why not if you don't want [more] kids?

1.

How many times have you gone out overall?

small weiner, eh?

I don't know? Maybe 8 times.