Quit being bored. Life is too short. And leading women on usually leads to more drama than its worth.

It all leads to drama, that's why they call it the game.

The most drama I've actually had is with girls/women who I've just cut it off with when I lost interest.

Everyone takes rejection hard.

Especially those who aren't used to being rejected.

The average man is going to get rejected a lot more, though.

And why only kids or bored adults play them.

Besides what Clay said, your previous post leads me to believe you're too good at faking it. Don't fake it and the drama goes away... erm. Usually.

Reddit relationship rules here

1) Be attractive
2) Don't be unattractive
2b) Don't be average

True. I got rejected once recently. She stopped texting back for no reason. It actually irked me.

Women pull this constantly. I don't blame them, actually, because guys can be douchebags. It's still shitty.

Happens.

I'm fortunate to have developed quite a callus with rejection. I have learned, especially recently, that there are plenty of fish in the sea. And probably with much shinier scales.

Even if someone you think you really like dumps you, you may look back on it as them doing you a favor. Because you just never know what kind of girl might drop in your lap in the future.

Youthful women are usually the decision makers when it comes to whether a relationship will go forward or not. If they are attractive then you as the guy are definitely not the only dog barking up her tree. Probably why you don't hear from them again, that or they just don't want to deal with dating at that time.

She won't get emotionally close so far the relationship has been all physical. Thats cool and all but that's side piece material not invest your time girlfriend material.

Are you sure you're flexing those biceps enough that she's sure to notice?

What a sweet boy billay is.

I'm just talking about rejection in general. I got dumped twice recently after some pretty good times. They actually informed me rather than just ignored me. It was tough, but I've learned quickly those girls weren't the best girls I'd meet in this life.

The sea is positively teeming with fish, gentlemen. Cast your nets wide. And throw one back if she smells funny.

I may have heard of a girl that would fein disinterest in order to make a guy chase harder. I think she either grew up or died.

You see, it was their decision though the dating game ended, and again I'm assuming these girls are youthful. The sea is definitely well stocked, but only if you are above average in every way.

They weren't that young. Both were older than 27.

*shrug*

I don't want either of them back now. Which is strange considering how hard I was hit. If a lonesome loser like me can get over it, anyone can. Let that be a lesson to all of you.

It's a numbers game really, just like in sales, one will hit for you eventually. You gotta keep on truckin' though and I'm proud of you. I'm in a similar situation where i'm kind of dating around but nothing is sticking for a variety of reason. It's feast or famine sometimes.

Most definitely.

Just talk to as many girls as possible. Stop when one talks to you too much.

Really couldn't be simpler.

Clay is my long lost brother ROFL

She's 22.

I was talking about a different girl.

You need some confidence bud. How are you this down on yourself?

I find the image hilarious. And I'm not totally convinced W. (name withheld) isn't trolling this thread.

Between bowling and applying to graduate schools I have zero interest in women I can't pull up images of on /r/GoneWild. My decision making is still flawed: I was half flirting with a girl working basketball games with me yesterday. Figured out her name since I apparently covered her playing ball last year and did some SM creeping: she's a Faid and comic book fan as well as having the earmarks of being a stereotypically damaged white girl. Yeee-ikes.

EDIT: Seriously? His last name is filtered now?

Sounds like she wants you to throw something in her

Not worth it. Crazy white girl + Faider fan = my tires get slashed for not texting her back fast enough.

PGM reminds me of a guy who sits at the end of the bar by himself but still bags poon at the end of the night.

Beggars can't be choosers, breh.

Sounds fun

They are all crazy

Another girl asked if u would take her on a date

Huh?

Called it off last night with the girl I've been dating.

What happened Daman?

She wasn't awesome.

How's the chicky?

We had our 2nd date. It went well.

Has she been to your love chamber yet?

I'm not interested in trying to lay girls after knowing them for two dates. It's not conducive to my interests as someone looking for something long term.

There just wasn't a connection. By now there should have been some, even weak, feelings. There weren't.

On to the next.... planning a date for next Tues.

We need a Buck update

Girl hasn't texted much since Thursday claims we can't hangout this week because she has wedding stuff to do for her best friend. All week though? Hmmm.

Move on brah you are toast. An interested girl will make time. My favorite excuse is "family issues"

meh

But she told me she'll be available for 2 days after lol

I am smelling an excuse for that when it gets closer. Just a hunch.

That's where I am at.

Yeah no doubt.

I am not trying to go full discuss. It just seems like one of the things they say when their interest level drops or they meet someone else.

Substitute your name for "Wendy"

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Well what is your take? I didn't mean it as an insukt.

Anytime I see my name listed on this forum I take an opportunity to make a joke out of it. What better way then use a South Park clip?

My take is I got an email from a master's program coordinator saying as long as I agree to submit a 3rd recommendation letter, retake the GRE to raise my math score to around the 50th percentile and rewrite my statement of purpose letter to actually fit the program's line of questioning, I will have a spot left open for me for aforementioned master's program.

That's a bit more pressing than getting my dick wet.

That will help u get yo dick wet ;)

My last go around on the GRE only brought my math score up 2 points... I need to triple it in the next month, maybe two.

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Welp. I guess there won't be a third date. Probably for the best as I likely don't mix well with vegans who hate movies, no matter how hot they are.

Fortunately I (think) I have a second date with the girl I met for coffee on Saturday. We'll see.

Sorry to hear, hopefully you did not spend much.

Is the GRE math hard? I took the GMAT and not sure how they compare. The GMAT math was geometry type shit.

That's the worst. You think it went well and she's like this ain't gonna work. Yeah, it's tough on these sites. The hoy ones like that usually have 3 or 4 different guys lined up for the week.

3 or 4 guys, she burns through them, but it is so easy for her to round up 3 or 4 guys again on the sites. Gotta capitalize when you have the chance.

Yup. Hell, even the average ones can do that. Those are the worst cause they are not used to THAT much attention. Problem is most of the guys are banging down a notch or two just for an easy lay. The average looking guys are boned.

Damn everyone is getting rejected on here at once

A Vegan who hates movies?

Definite dealbreaker.

This cracks me up. Banging down a notch or two...
Is that a cumulative score or just a physical one?

You know, for the most part you can't pick how you look. Sure you can be active and healthy. You can bathe and wear trendy clothing, but your features?... No where near a priority as far as Im concerned. Whhhhy? Because you had nothing to do with them. I'm more inclined to give a parent a high five for passing down good genes, than I am a pretty face that's just wearing them.

Other than symmetry, the definition of beauty changes with such regularity that to make it the master of your relationships is just so damn boring.

By far the most boring date I have ever been on was with the hottest guy I've ever been on a date with. Ever want to flick someone in the forehead just to see if it would echo?

It's online dating. Everyone is so expendable.

The name of this thread is sort of misleading. It should be called:

"Pity-Party: A CP Sausage Festival"
"She won't let me bone; I'm so alone"
"Bitches and hoes, discussed by bros"

That's just the sort of posting that this thread attracts, and I'm sure as hell not an exception.

Overall. Dating is cruel...online dating is even crueler. Way more mainstream now. There are just so many options available that they don't have with meeting someone in person. Like Gordon said everyone is expendable.

Yeah, I had my fill of it after a few months. Trying to get decent women to come on dates from online is like writing resumes for a prestigious graduate programs. Almost without exception, the dates themselves didn't live up to all the hoopla.

You got a good story about one of them?

On match if you aren't good looking, fit, bachelor degree minimum, decent salary,world traveler...your goose is cooked. Have all those you still might be struggling. An unemployed, "curvy", average looking chick will still get the 8 billion messages...well cause she might actually respond lol

This is why it's important to diversify your portfolio.

I'm hoping this other girl wasn't BSing me and actually wants to meet up again. She's not as drop-dead smoking gorgeous (girl #1 was really a knockout), but she's younger and has a better personality. And she likes movies and eats meat. :rolleyes:

I would prefer the one with common interests and a better personality. I agree with that. I will pick one I really like, but always have fall back options on stand by just in case. You pretty much have to.

Funny, the easiest time I had with women was when I worked in restaurants while going through school. Right now, I meet most of the standards you just pointed out on match.com, and I still struggle. The huge difference from college days to now were the volume of young women I was meeting back in those days. Now, I'm trapped in a cubicle and I travel a week or two a month, it's a ****ing antarctic desert.

Don't forget tall.

If you're under 5-10 you are ****ed. I feel sorry for short men.

I tried dating a vegetarian once. LOL... what a pain in the ass......

Who the **** doesn't like movies?

Apparently 5-foot-9 smokin' hot blondes with huge tits and awesome careers.

Yeah I am over 6 feet, so am pretty much covered. Almost every girl I have gone out with has expressed their disdain for short dudes.