I don't think you can put methods or constraints on it at all. Everybody's different, and each relationship is different. You're never going to apply any set method to a range of different people. One date out to sleeping over may be exactly what works for some people. Neither way is right or wrong. Either way could bring the relationship to a higher level.

Dating should simply be whatever brings enjoyment to the both of you while you're together. No rules or methods. It's not a 12 step program.

LMAO

Don't listen to Fish, people. There's definitely a method that you have to figure out. Good luck. It's tricky.

spot on. Great post
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Buck do you even like art? This artsy-fartsy girl probably isn't a good match if not.

There's this girl I've always been attracted to, and she chased me for awhile, but I just shut her down. Why? Because she was so into going into music shows and music scenes and all that garbage I knew it would never work. Especially since she isn't into sports, at all.

I like art, I like her, we don't have a lot in common though. I guess that is what's bugging me.

I sent her a message saying I can't hang out at night anymore, and she took it as I was breaking up with her. That's not really what I was saying when I sent it because I didn't want to straight break it off.

Then I felt like shit for a few hours, then she sent me a message saying she was going to fight for me. Then she sent me another message saying that she went back and read my first message and that she totally misinterpreted it.

So pretty much I've ran the full gamut of shitty feelings today, but at least now I know she knows what I was trying to say to her.

You need to clarify your statement. You can hang out at night on the weekends so let her know.

Your first mistake, texting her something like that which you know should would misinterpret through text. Biggest thing I learned through my 20's was when you get serious with someone, just talk about it. Text ****s up so many things besides lining up plans or just saying hello.

Guess you aren't perfect, Buck.

If there's anything I took away from this, that is it.

Good news: got a hunnie's phone number.
Neutral news: it was related to class
Ungood news: she has a boyfriend

Beta male

So not really good news at all?

There's only one thing left to do. Kill the boyfriend and turn his hide into seat covers for your new girlfriend

Technically, it's a good thing because it's the first digits I've got in a while.

Pic of you? Pic of boyfriend?