Maybe once he reaches the 'resigned acceptance' stage.

That is the difference.

He's yet to accept it while you've fully embraced it. And for that, I salute you.

And when do I reach such a level.

You'll know you're close when your friends start calling you eeyore.

So two years ago.

Heh.

This thread delivers! Top one on CP.

This is right, even as absurd as it sounds when you actually think about it for a second. By writing a thoughtful paragraph or two in an effort to get to know someone on a personal level, you may come off as trying too hard. In the dating game, shit rarely ever makes sense...

I'm about to be single again. I told my girl I didn't want to hang out yesterday because I was busy running errands (she called out sick from work). Now she's guilt tripping me about not asking how she was doing or wanting to see her (I didn't even know she called out of work, she texted me asking if she could come over).

So yeah. So over this shit.

Stop being a drama queen and go nestle yourself in her loving folds.

I'm a single guy in my early thirties who has his shit together! Im not fat and I have no goatee either. Didn't knock up the first puss that came along. Maybe I'm the exception?

I tried a dating site just for fun because of this thread. I generally have no problems talkin with the ladies so Internet dating was just another source.

This thread has been entertaining! Thanks ya'll

Just end it now!! Your feelings aren't going to magically change.

Always pull the bandaid off fast.

Nah, you sound like the all rest of us. Assuming you have a 10" dick, a 9" tongue, run a 4.2 forty, throw a 104 mph fastball, can bench 350 left handed, cured cancer while resolving the theory of everything and like puppies.

If you're missing any of that, though, then yes, you're the exception!

I don't know you or your situation beyond what I see on this board, but the impression I get: you're either being unreasonable or you're continuously dating unstable women with low self-esteem.

Either start dating women that have their shit together (easier said than done) and/or get your shit together yourself. If you're only dating these girls because they're easy, you have zero right to complain.

Did you copy&paste that from a woman's profile from a dating site?

I need to start being more realistic when I start a relationship. I always act abnormally to impress women, and then the true me comes out and shit goes downhill. Gotta stop fronting if I want to find something long term, but maybe that's not what I want. I miss the exciting honeymoon feeling.

Here's the issue, though. With some girls, if you don't try to impress them early they bail. I've gotten paranoid about it because now I feel like girls are completely bored if you just do the standard "let's have a drink and chat" on a first date.

Me and my guy are still going strong. I joined Match on Sunday, we went out that Saturday on our first date and we've been together ever since. Best thing I ever did.

Nah, just refreshing the old meme about your average chiefsplanet poster.

You weren't the least bit intrigued to see what else was out there, eh? Sounds like you are the exception.

You can only waste your time with profiles that lead off with "hey babe u want sum fuk"

Well I'm mid 30s so I had an idea of what was out there.

Also maybe I had a better understanding of what I was looking for after years of being stupid/confused and prioritizing the wrong things.

Before I started going on Internet dates I made up my mind, unless they were total d-bags i would give them a few dates (assuming they wanted to date me of course) and not make quick judgments. I passed up on way too many good guys by being picky over stupid things.

In this case, We had a crazy high level of chemistry on the 1st date.

I hate young girls so much right now :hail:

Did you boink yet?

True - it's best to be yourself. But flirt a little. Don't say/type so much. Be flirty, get her out on a date, then be yourself.

The Penzification of this thread! Awesome.

Good.

So. Much. Drama.

This thread needs more Buck

Simply give us a dating story

I heard a quote recently, I think it was from the movie The Counselor, but some guy was talking about women and said that, "you can do anything to a woman, except bore them..." - pretty much right on the money.

You guys have shit attitudes and shit midsets. **** em if they are bored. LMAO They are the ones getting older and their pussies are getting less value-able by the day. If they don't want to be there they can get up off their asses and leave. You should have a life so great that girls are trying to win your attention. I see all these people slapping band-aids on a gunshot wound.

OK so I'm getting a divorce and just getting back on the dating scene..A girl who I have known all my life and was good friends with took me out and we had a great night and have hung out every night since then..about a week..except last night..she texts me and the following was our conversation

Her- I am wanting Olive Garden

Me- I'm going to get Olive Garden this weekend

Her- have fun with whatever nasty whore you are taking

Me- where did that come from

Her- what

Me- where did the whore comment come from

Her- well you won't have the kids and I'm not going so I'm sure you will call some whore but don't worry I won't throw stuff in your face like you

Me- um what in the **** are you talking about

Her- you are an asshole

Me- well better to be an asshole than crazy..sooooo yeah..If you would leave me alone that would be great

Could be a miscommunication or a misinterpretation of something you said. That's the problem with texting.

I always text back ... "k" or "coo"

If slores want to be crazy don't even acknowledge it with a response.

Even if it is she is off the chain with her blabble. She isn't even woman enough to call and talk it out. Find a girl with her shit together.

I don't know how it could be a miscommunication..she text me about olive garden and I said I was going to get olive garden this weekend..then it was I was going with some whore..I don't know how going to a restaurant means I'm going with some whore

Sounds like a special case of crazy.

Bitches be crazy.

ROFL That is some funny shit.

Maybe she's confused and thinks you're going to another woman named Olive's "garden".... know what I'm sayin'.

She was asking if you wanted to go to Olive Garden with her. You said no, I have plans to go there this weekend with someone else. She called you an asshole because you're eating endless breadsticks with another woman.

I've dated a lot of hairdressers, I'm fluent in crazy.

Holy shit what a psycho. This bitches be crazy!

Oh very insecure too. Run away while you can.

Crazy. Batshit type.

As long as Olive isn't crazy I'm down for it

What's sad is people think you're just pulling your typical schtick.

PENZ IZ DROPPIN' KNOWLEDGE ON YOU BETA ****S.

You ordering the tossed salad?

As long as she keeps on taking my endless bread stick a tossed salad can get thrown in somewhere I guess

Do you know what they make you do in County???

Not correct. She was implying that he should take her to Olive Garden by saying "I want Olive Garden". He simply stated that he was going there this weekend and she flipped the **** out because he didn't invite her. Bitch is nuts and an attention whore.

nice

Wow. My response would have been, "Great! When are you picking me up?"

This is exactly why I hate texting/texting relationships.

I think you took the whore comment too literally, and then this pissed her off and she wouldn't acknowledge the joke?

You should have just left her hanging after the whore comment. She would have come back and apologized, I guarantee it.

Is there a way to try Match.com for free? How about E-Harmony? I'm tired of meeting these girls that have no job, no car, etc. And the rate of " I"M COUNTRY" people who like muddin, and fishen, and BIG OL PICK UM UP TRUCKS! HEPR A DERP, is pissing me off.

OkCupid blows.

POF blows harder.

Well, when you're too cheap to pay for a dating site, those are the kinds of girls you get. :p

I was going to say OkCupid. I met a couple chicks through it that definitely had their shit together.

Also, in OkCupid, just look to see in their profile if they have a job first. Easy.

LMAO

This is why a lot of good guys just stay single.

I normally don't even give the outbreaks of crazy a response. Three hours later you get the "I'm sorry" or a phone call. Crazy bitches. :shake:

I've been duped though. Last night I met up with a girl... her profile says she has a job, but once we meet up, she tells me that she recently quit, and doesn't want to get another one for a while.

I'm like WTF.

And I'm concerned that if I pay for Match.com, I'll have similar results. :(

The **** do you need an online dating site. Go out and get real skills with real girls. Use that time and energy actually making yourself better. You will spend hours and hours with lame ass chicks on okcupid when you could be sculpting yourself to be a man.

You should have asked her to pick up half the tab just to see how it went over.

After my success some of my friends got on - I think match and/or eharmony. They have jobs. :) I know 1 of them is talking to 2 really good guys right now. When you aren't meeting single people it is just a no-brainier to sign up and at least expand the possibilities.

Sorry, I'm just not a very interesting or exciting person. On my day off I went to Winstead's and saw The Grand Budapest Hotel. I did bike to Winstead's, though. And posted about it on the internet. Please date me!

That was kind of the response I was going for..maybe I should of just asked her if she wanted to go but even tho I didn't I don't think the response I got was right

Well I didn't know if she was joking..which is why I asked her where it come from..If she was joking that's fine..but for her to flip shot because I didn't get her joke isn't OK with me..she has been my friend forever which is why I didn't just stop talking

I guess this is CW? You can make some small differences. You edit the shit out of videos. Plenty of art girls would be down to talk about editing. It's all about attitude and mindset though.

Bright side - you figured out very quickly that she is crazy without investing in a dinner at Olive Garden.

You have a little beta on your chin. Clean it up son.

If you consider your life great, do what you want, and give no ****s about what people think about doing what you want then you will be fine.

You don't see what happened?

She said she wanted Olive Garden meaning "Take me now". You said you were going this weekend which probably came off as "No, thanks. I'll be going this weekend."

You and her have been "dating" and she knows you're fresh on the market. She also knows you won't have your kids this weekend and you didn't invite her so she made a huge leap to the conclusion that if you're going to a sit-in restaurant, you must be taking another woman.

It's really not even that crazy of a conclusion given what I know (which is, admittedly, not much at all). If I were in her shoes I probably would have assumed something similar but I'm not batshit and I know how to communicate so I probably would have outright asked who you were going with.

That chick is insecure to a fault.

Very true..even better note..I'm still going to get Olive Garden and I don't have to worry about her stabbing me during dinner

If a girl wanted to go to Olive Garden I would insist on taking her to a real restaurant. See what a great boyfriend I'd be?

I can understand..by me saying I'm going this weekend I assumed from the years of knowing her and our friendship that she would ask me who I was going with or if I was picking her up at her place or something along those lines..which is why I asked where the whore comment come from cause that isn't her style really so I was curious..maybe I should of just asked her to go..but damn the reaction I got is unstable..daddy didn't hang my painting on the fridge as a kid so you must love me now..type of unstable

Honestly, I would have too, but I still would have jokingly asked when he was picking me up. If he was going with someone else, then he would probably say so, and then I'd know to drop it.

That's me now. The old me would have have just assumed he was either going with someone else or just didn't want to take me. I would have then assumed he was simply talking to me to be nice, but didn't want to go out. I would have stopped talking to him while fretting over it. While I was a different type of crazy, I was still crazy...lol. Amazing what six months and a little self-confidence will do for you. :)

That sounds like a good way to spend a day.

Biking, fried foods, movie. All fun.

Can I get your number?

Straight in for the kill..good form

Update. Over a month later of me not contacting her or talking to her and she texts me saying she is so sorry and feels awful. She begged us to be friends on Monday and I said "sure".

So she texts me today saying "hey how are you? We should hangout! :)".









5 mins later I found out she got mad at that dbag and wants to use me. Christ man. Are there still decent women left in the world?

Yeah, this is probably an issue here.

You can really throw a lot of that out the window now. You've known her for all these years as a friend. Now she's viewing you as a potential mate which changes everything completely.