My opinion.... for the two cents it's worth, you ought to live on your own for awhile.... not in a dorm or in your parents house. Dorms are close, but you don't have to worry about cooking or paying bills. Living with her for at least 6 mo will let the politeness of the "honeymoon" stage of the relationship die and you will start being totally yourself. Not getting up and leaving the room to fart.... and picking up when you don't do it at home.
Can you describe her without including the size of her breast? Picture her having a terrible accident and disfiguring Or her as fat as a Gieswien..... attitude or like your dad's girlfriend.... would you still want to marry her???


Besides.... since you've met her in October..... my bet has been that you'll be asking her on 2-14-2007

You know...not 100% sure...but aren't you my step mom? I pick up around her place all the time. She cooks and I do the dishes for her...so yeah I'm not as lazy as I use to be. I don't plan on asking her on Valentines Day...won't be with her then...the weekend before or after.

We thought about getting our own place but it'd be cheaper for us to live with our friends. My buddy and his girlfriend got a house and lived with three other people and they are working out great. So hopefully, it all works out for me.

Whats going to happen when you get into a brawl with her PMSing best friend? What happens when that girl is pissed at you and is bitching to your girlfriend?

What if you don't get along well with her brother as a roomate? I've had alot of friends that I couldn't live with, and some good friends I have lived with, that didn't really work out.

This is an entirely different animal.

Do NOT get engaged until you've had a major fight. DO NOT get engaged until you've been around her when she's been sick, or when one of you has been inconvenienced by a family tragedy or illness.

If you started dating in October...you barely know this girl.

C'mon in. The water's fine.

Then you're probably not going to like them.

I don't see why I wouldn't get along with her brother...I'm with him quite a bit...drink with him all the time. Her best friend would have to snap for us to get into it. She's always calm and pretty nice actually. She was actually pretty sick last month for about a week...ended up getting me sick. Like I said...if I feel like something isn't right between us, I'm not going to do it.

good luck III.

I hope it works out and you live happily evAR after.

I just want to urge caution as a voice of reason.

I never understood the whole 'engagement' thing. She gets a ring to show her GFs and they decide whether you're worthy or not?

IT's FOREVER. So why wait? Just go to the courthouse and be done with it.

And don't even get me started on how much people waste at their weddings...

My wife to be moved in with me in the middle of March and we were married in the middle of April.

Thanks...I don't blame you for telling me to be careful. I am risking a lot for this.

I bought the ring last weekend. I am going to ask her tonight at the place we first met.

Dude - best of luck. I mean that.

Thanks. I haven't really been nervous about it till tonight. The more I think about it the worse I get.

Good luck.