| R&GHomer |
06-17-2008 05:17 PM |
I haven't read all the comments, but I'm sure this has been brought up already.
Don't be needy or clingy. Be confident, even a little cocky. I'm not saying be an asshole, just maintain the upper hand. Contrary to popular belief woman generally don’t like yes men, and the ones that do, you want no part of. On the first date, even if you're hitting it off perfectly; end it early "you already had plans later or some shit" don't call her back for a few days. Basically, don't come across as needing a girl friend. Just be casual and funny. I'm not single anymore, but I used to like to shock them a little. I'd say shit like "wow, I love your hair, I bet it looks even better when you wash it". LOL I even told this one chick on our second date “I love your hair cut, it makes your head look normal” good shit… Although I have to admit you need to be pretty confident to pull it off, oh and don't play like that with a chick with self esteem problems...lol not pretty.
Take your time, don’t jump into a relationship to simply be with someone. Hey, I’m all for the old saying “the best way to get a chick out of you head is to get another one in your bed” just don’t have them ****ing move in with you or some shit. It’s been my experience that Woman take a little longer than men to show affection, but un-like men when they fall for someone they fall hard and fast. Be upfront! If it works out it works out.
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