You mean the HUSBAND that allowed his wife to leave for a couple of months and go live someplace else?

How could he have stopped that?

Shoulda given her the Black Snake Moan treatment, eh?

Divorced her stupid ass.

working on it, it's harder than you may think

LMAO thought the same thing.

If she did this in a court room? Then you have rights.She gave them to you when she said this
I dont have to put myself in your shoes. I have wore them & OWNED THEM!
Our stories are very similar
My advise,Get the best lawyer money can buy. I did it & took custody away from my lil girls mom. My X is a bitch. that has worked for the post office for 20 years, Has a masters degree. Everyone said & I mean every one.

LIVE STEAM you dont stand a chance of taking custody away from her. You are wasting thousands of dollars on a pipe dream.

I didnt care. I looked at this way.
When Saylor (my lil buglet) is all grown up,I dont want her asking me why I didnt fight for her. Win or lose at least I wont have to cross that bridge.
My next step was finding a lawyer that I felt could win this case. I didn't really have anything but hearsay.
So I interviewed several lawyers or they interviewed me. Anyways, the first words out of my mouth to each lawyer was. LOSING IS NOT AN OPTION! Lets get that straight before we get started. Some said good day & that was that.
Others listened to what I had to say, then said I dont think I can win with this.
But 1 lawyer said. LIVE STEAM I will destroy her & her attorney. BINGO!
You sir are hired. I did what he said, Kept my HUGE MOUTH SHUT!
& have had custody of my lil girl since 2005

You are the father. YOU HAVE RIGHTS! Just as many as her.

Sort of a followup to that...

What's the divorce rate in the US?

What's the divorce rate in the US when the wife has an affair?

What's the divorce rate in the US when the wife has an affair, and has a baby by someone other than the husband?

I think you'll find that it's pretty high. And if/when that happens you think he's going to keep caring for that child that he knows is not his? Yet how is that in his best interests? At least this way, even if I lose, that child wont have to deal with finding out 16 years down the road (when he's arguing with whom he thinks is his father) that his father really isnt..

when I first came to chiefsplanet, someone told me to change it. That's when GOchiefs was still gochiefs and not who he is now.

oh well.

Maybe he didn't want to throw his marriage away. Maybe he just wants a normal family just like the OP wants.

I'm shocked they're not as outraged over rights being denied to an adulterer.

Seriously?

Show me where the OP said that he wanted a normal family. He said that he wants a DNA test to prove that this is HIS son.

You have the right to see your child as long as you are not a convicted Jerry Senduskie
No judge in America can prevent you from your seeing your child. Go kick her ****ing ass!

Yeah....keep acting like this is the only guy to ever **** a married woman.

To what end? To have a family.