Does she have money?

there is no shame in having an affair if you are the one who isn't married. She's gonna cheat eventually anyways, you may as well get to have the fun. But if you are worried about the friendship, then don't do it, but otherwise I'd be all over it. Don't hate the playa....

Are you sure she sent the email? Maybe her husband sent it to see if anything weird is going on between you two.

Im sure . 100%

I hooked up with my first love who was in a bad marriage. We never did anything physical, just talked alot on the phone . She would profess her love to me , and how she wanted to be with me, and how I should of been the father of her kids...well...she ended up leaving the guy, but by then I was in a new relationship. After I broke up with my X, I looked her up , and she was in TX . We talked and attempted to make plans for me to fly down there...but I really was interested in a long term thing at that point so we just decided to be friends. I guess my point is I don't regret hooking up with her while she was married. If I was that guy , I wouldn't want it done to me...I didn't have a problem talking to her, but I couldn't do more then that...and I had plenty of opportunities too also.

Let's see. She has a husband, but she's going to back off because you're dating someone. Sounds like a plan.

Put it in an email, did she? Your friend must have an I.Q. of 159.

Understand that she won't be able to keep her mouth shut. Women want attention more than anything.

This.


In most instances they are not ****ing you because they want to **** you, they are trying to punish their hubby.

They will want to get caught, eventually, and the whole world will come crashing down.

We talked tonight. I wouldn't say it went good. But I wouldn't say it went bad either.
I told her I care about her as a friend & that anything more at this time would just ruin our friendship. I don't think that's what she wanted to hear.
She went on about .What if I leave him?
I told her it still wouldn't work. I don't want everyone we know thinking I wrecked your marriage. Mutual friends would blame me just for the fact that I'm ME!
That's kinda where we left it.

You did the right thing. Hopefully she will see that eventually.

Just now getting to this thread... you could have spared her feelings and your friendship by telling her you have herpes.

/just tryin to be helpful :D

You are a smart man. I knew I should have waited for your advise LMAO

Damn dude. Hopefully the friendship isn't dead. But props for doing the right thing.

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