LMAO wrong thread.

BUT A 3 RUN HOME BY ALEX GORDON!!!

WOOOOOO

The StarTrek chick I got rejected by is apparently at Kauffman today.. and she pretty much hated sports as far as I knew.

So awesome.

Move on, dude. Rejection blows, but you have to remember that there's no point in reminiscing on a failed attempt. Be the best person you can be (without compromising for anybody else's expectations) and eventually a woman will come along with whom you share genuine affection and respect.

Unlikely.

Mike Moustakas has a better chance of being a Hall of Fame 3rd Baseman than I do of having any of that happening.

With that attitude, maybe. Go do shit for your own sake and become happy without a woman, if that's what it takes.

Pretty much why I'm probably going to spend the next 2-6 years in graduate school for a career that I have an almost infinitesimal chance of breaking into.

I'll probably be at the same point I'm at now (hopefully with better employment than the current) in a decade but without a lot of debt. I have nothing to lose but maybe my reputation because my friends will think I'm insane for trying to work in an NFL FO with no experience whatsoever.

Thanks

How do you know her location?

Saw it on Facebook.

Delete her man.

creepy ginger is looking to expand his stalking repertoire.

Looks petty if I do so.

Pretty much have to unsub and try not to look at her page until she purges me from the list.

Could you be more passive?

Youre poor

Well I mean if you got some suggestions... I might as well go all out, right?

EDIT: And I thought you were here to harass Billay?

If thinking about her upsets you just remove her and move on. It will help you get over her. If you think she will eventually remove you what difference does it make?

Hes here to stalk me like he does in every thread.

Billay, you are a stalker. I like to troll you in this thread because you are a non-game having ginger that tries to give others dating advice.

Just delete her. If she rejected you and you don't want to see anything from her, just delete her. Who gives a **** if it looks petty?

Says the guy who brags about banging an escort while engaged to a fat chick.

Looks like speed dating was a complete and total waste of my time. The one girl I mutually matched with has ignored my email.

All you got out of the deal was an email contact?

Sounds like you were in a Kobayashi Maru situation from the get-go man.

Just go to Harpos on tuesday or a weekend night and save you money.

I won't be going out with any women for at least a month. Probably two.

Experminting with dudes?

Learn to spell, you fat ginger subhuman.

Sounds like Tinder, only with more work and expenses.

Repeating lies over and over doesn't make them true creepy ginger.

She probably hooked up with one of the other studs

This a milf or a nice young piece?

wtf.. Just delete. More than likely she does not even notice. How many friends does she have?

I purge my page all the time. most girls do not notice unless they are stalking your page. Then if they do notice then you can broach the subject.

Wait, Clay lives in KC now?

Discuss seems extra grumpy today.

Musta had even less sex than usual.

Follow-up question: how does one have negative sex? Ineffective masturbation?







































Follow-follow-up: **** 'em, Discuss, me included. I think it's incredibly cool that you're going after a front-office NFL job. Keep that shit up.

Thanks for the support... Though it doesn't seem right to be on CP without someone telling me that I'm a reerun and that my mother should be ****ed in the mouth while chugging antifreeze... or something along those lines

Need pics of Discuss ( non dick pics billay) or a celebrity comparison. Michael Cera?

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Mancow? Shit man u can do work looking like that.

Discuss is this the same women you made a move on a month ago?

Sure.. if my ceiling is single mothers with more tattoos than children

We have all been rejected. The difference is some of us keep swinging. Women are weird man and extremely fickle.

I am the common denominator with every (failed) relationship with women that I've experienced to this point.

At some point you have to realize you're swinging a FuNoodle and your place is at the shallow end at the pool versus standing in the batter's box.

Then your self worth makes u a match for the fatties and single mothers u make fun of. They need luvin too!

I believe its the aura you put out. If girls sense the slightest things that you share with us on here you dont have a chance.

Let it go and move forward man.

Who here hasn't been rejected? You seem to not be able to handle it. You seem hung up on your appearance instead of working on your attitude. Also if you are overweight go to the ****ing gym or eat healthy.

It has nothing to do with attitude at this point.. There's something about who I am as a person that's defective.

And if that's the case, then there's really nothing I can do about it beside completely fabricating an entirely fake personality. Losing 15 to 30lbs won't really help in that regard.

Its your insecurity playboy.

My advice is quit worrying about what other people think of you..When you can stop giving a shit about what other people think of you and can really be yourself then your life will become a lot easier..yea it sounds cliché but it is true..whenever you can walk up and talk to another person and just be yourself not worrying about what they think or how they see you then you can really begin to look for the person you are really compatible with

Most people start relationships on lies..being something they aren't..sending sweet texts or talking on the phone all night..flowers showing up unexpected to surprise the other person..unless that is who you are day in and out its a lie to trick the other person into liking you..After a while things slowly slide back into who both people really are and things normally sour

So be who you are..don't give a shit about what other people think and don't try to put on a show to have someone like a highlight reel of who you can pretend to be..If they don't like you for you then they are a waste of your time and there is something wrong with them

I used to worry about how other people seen me..Once I stopped caring and was myself then I was able to let go and talk to anyone I wanted and had way more success doing that and it thinned out the bullshit of trying to talk to someone who didn't really match up to who I would be good with

I'm an asshole..I have no trouble admitting it..If a chick doesn't like that then she can go on with her life looking for whatever she wants..If a girl can handle my asshole attitude and my sarcasm from the start then she can be graced with my awesome and my sweet moves in the sack that will make her life a nonstop ride to orgasm land

Speaking as someone with some experience with self-esteem issues, that doesn't do anything for your self-esteem. Actually makes it worse in the end.

To add my own color to this, speaking as someone who's had extremely low self-esteem his entire life, when conversations like this get going, it always strikes me just how little people actually understand what's going on in my head. Now, I can't speak for this guy, but I can speak from my own experience, and maybe the number one most misunderstood thing with my self-esteem is that it has anything at all to do with how other people see me. It actually doesn't. It has to do with how I see myself and where that kicks in with my social difficulties is just assuming that everyone else sees the same thing (aka 'projection'). It's hard to explain or to verbalize, but it's not so much caring what other people think of me as just expecting other people to realize right away that I'm broken, somehow. Like it's written on my forehead. (In my case it would say "loser" in flashing neon lights - that's the word I most often use to identify myself...). There's really nothing rational about it, it's just how I'm wired, and in the end how other people see me never really even factors into the equation. Hell, I've had people tell me I'm great, that I'm smart and funny and there's so much more I could be doing with my life. But it just rolls off me. Because it's not what I believe. All I can ever see in myself is the things that I identify as 'wrong'.

That's the nutshell version. Be happy those of you whose brains don't work this way...

Such a self imposed prison, baby.

Keg I have been there and still battle that every day. You CAN change though, but it takes a lot of effort and doing things you aren't always comfortable doing. I will agree that it's not as easy as people make it sound, but it all starts with forcing yourself to change. Know what your weaknesses are and either work on them or embrace them. Basically a prisoner of your own mind.

Took me 37 years, but I'm breaking free from that way of thinking. It's so liberating.

You will never be able to truly be accepted by anyone else until you learn how to accept yourself. Something else I've learned in the last six months. The old me yearned for acceptance by other people for "me". I was willing to change who I was in order to be the type of person they would accept. Now, the more I'm learning to accept myself, the less I find myself "needing" the acceptance of others. Funny thing is, the less emphasis I put on it, the more I find people accepting me. Weird how that works.

Luv Gaza strip or landing strip?

I'm an asshole..I have no trouble admitting it..If a chick doesn't like that then she can go on with her life looking for whatever she wants..If a girl can handle my asshole attitude and my sarcasm from the start then she can be graced with my awesome and my sweet moves in the sack that will make her life a nonstop ride to orgasm land[/QUOTE]

Gonna steal that last line

LMAO

People's opinion of you are colored ultimately by your own opinion of yourself.

Be yourself, with CONFIDENCE, and not only will people accept you, they'll like you.

People flock to confidence.

especially chicks.
chicks don't want an insecure guy.

confidence is a pheramone
*edit* Confidence whilst not being a prick.

To everyone in this thread who gets down (including me) it could be worse, you could have broken your dick like this guy...

http://www.reddit.com/r/tifu/comment..._morning_wood/

I'm not even clicking that lol

ROFL

Went back and read this today. 2-3 bottles and wet the bed. That's a bit extreme.

"pissed the bed TOO many times" lol

I wasn't looking for advice or even describing who I am now as much as just trying to paint a picture of what it can be like. And I think maybe letting the other guy know that there was somebody out there who might 'get' what he was trying to say. I had a pretty good idea of what he was thinking, because I've been there, and sometimes it helps just to hear somebody say that...

The difficult thing with people with low self-esteem and relationships (in my experience) is that we expect too much from them. They can't fix you. Being with someone else doesn't make you like yourself. And beyond that it's really easy to land yourself in a bad situation. You think so little of yourself that any attention you get is gratifying, at least at first. But as the relationship normalizes and the honeymoon phase ends, you start to see everything without the rose colored glasses. Maybe you wonder how you got yourself in the situation you're in. Maybe you hate yourself just a little bit more because of it. But at the same time you stick with it, because, hey, it's the best you can do. At least somebody likes you, so why not let it play out.

Personally, I think dating's bad enough on its own. Adding all that to the mix on top of everything else is just toxic. The words "recipe for disaster" come to mind...

There's no easy fix. I think he probably needs therapy, someone to help him unravel what's going on psychologically. Then, maybe, it'll be time to try dipping a toe in the dating pool. I do think it needs to go in that order, work on the self first. But he will have to work at it. And that's the hard part. It's easier to just stay who you are. Even if you don't like him/her.

Don't forget to hide your love of Star Trek.

:facepalm:

put a sock down your pants when you meet her. at a minimum you'll get a call back.

There are real geek girls out there. Star Trek's probably an easier sell than Star Wars. Although maybe the Bad Robotification of it will help with that. Or not.

It's always amazed me over the years how many people (not just women) hate Star Wars without ever watching it. Like it's some kind of stigma. Then they watch and it's like "oh man, this is cool, why didn't I watch it sooner?"

Who the F hasn't seen Star Wars?

I've only seen probably 10 minutes of it when I was little

Maybe I just encounter sheltered people.

Correct. I was just trying to give my personal experience on the subject.

Even geek girls are out of my league anymore.

Or they're also weird as shit ones that like anime and cosplay.

Yeah. I was mostly steering the conversation away from me. More interested in anything I can say that might help him, wasn't so much talking about myself, wanted to make sure people understood that.

Sure they are, if you tell yourself they are, and by extension tell them they are.

Another way to think about it which helped me a time or two is to consider how you're disrespecting other people when you do that. You're not giving anybody a chance to make their own mind up about you when you project on them. People can surprise you if you give yourself a chance.I dunno. There can be some hot freaky chicks.

The only way a girl is out of your league is if you believe she is. Period.

I met a girl that was a 'bud light' girl wearing a referee's outfit at a bar one night. all my lame buddies were hitting on her while playing pool. I said something like if you leave, can I go too". sarcastically etc. rest of the night she was hanging aound me etc.

Ended up being my only 'conquest'