24 year old are fickle as hell. Nice for hit and quits though.

Yes.. It was discussed. She was my girlfriend and I was her boyfriend

Well, that's life. Improve yourself.

Lol thats a great idea

I will just move on..if she continues her actions one day she will slip up and get caught or piss off the wrong guy who will tell her husband..I do not want any bullshit drama from either one..I'm not worried about the husband cause I have pictures and texts from her that screws over any lie she tells

I stopped at online dating site. You'll never find anything on pof or okcupid.

I figured it was worth a shot, I'm tired of bar flies and one night stands. I'd like to meet someone special

Delete Facebook, hit the gym..

Whatever. That's going to be GifHorse's response... But what people don't tell you is that you could do all of that self improvement stuff but it'll never net you a quality woman.

Why?

You're either attractive or you're not. No amount of bench presses or cooking classes will save you.

If you're a 300 pound fatbody without a job both of those things could help you.

Not to sound like a douche but, I'm not a bad looking guy by any means. The online dating site stuff may come off as kind of pathetic.. But I'm not going to meet my wife chasing KU coeds on Mass St.

While is is probably true, there's something another man had that you don't. That's really all it boils down to.

How do you come to that conclusion when talking about okcupid women who are all damaged goods.

A great many are but not all.

After making fun of the free sites and meeting way too many shallow chicks on match, I am currently dating a girl I have pretty much everything in common with off a freebie. Life is strange sometimes. It isn't pathetic at all it is just another avenue to meet people.

She found someone with a better job, a bigger dick, or both. Sucks but happens to us all.

Pics?

*someone that has something that you don't that's more important to her

You're looking for it and women can sense that shit a mile away. Stop looking or worrying about it and it will come to you. It's a fine line that's hard to master!

Don't worry about the last one cuz it wasn't meant to be. Guaranteed there's a better more compatible woman around the corner!

It's not just the looks, you have to be the whole package, you have to be rich, good looking, and charming. **** that noise, I just bust my nut and move on, it's not worth it. Everyone has been programmed to think that they have to date and get married. It's just another skeem to trap you and hold you down.

Yup.

I have to look at this way.

IF I get a job it will be no more than $28k a year.

That's not impressive.. unless we're talking about undocumented workers or Stone County trailer park queens.

There are tons of short guys, broke guys, ugly guys, fat guys, nerdy guys. Criminals, guys with no car, guys that still live with their parents, guys with acne, guys with small dicks... And yet, somehow they manage.

28K where you are isn't impressive but it is enough. Cost of living is relatively low and you don't have kids. You could make due with 28K...

You're just a pussy. You could be making 50K and you'd still find a way to lose.

you find it when you're not looking for it.

happened to me when I wasn't looking at all. I will have been married 10 years this October.

much like job hunting, networking is a huge deal. the more people you know, the more people 'know someone' who they think you'd like etc. I can't imagine just hitting the bricks, 'cold calling' (for lack of a better term) at bars etc.

Well I mean if a woman won't date a dude who makes 28k but will go for a guy that looks and acts like the first guy as long as he makes an extra 22k kind of points at the problem being located at the independent variable..

absolutely agree about the $ part to a degree. I wasn't making jack when I met my wife, but I was also only 23. so it was sort of par for the course.

older women (and men, to be fair) do place a certain percentage on income IMO. To what degree, if at all, it varies. Money's not the only thing, but it's part of the equation.

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Of course they do. Women search for security and income becomes more and more important the older we get.

I was under the impression that Discuss is around 27 or something, though.. It's totally normal for guys to be figuring shit out at that point in time.

yeah....he's ****ing loaded.

Yep. I agree. I don't know Discuss etc, but when I was 27 I was in the process of figuring shit out as well.

Days from being 26.

if it makes you feel any better I'm 37 and people think I'm a 20 year old stoner on this board lol.


.....so I've got that going for me.

How about the schmucks that are like" Yeah I'll go get me a wife overseas.?" As soon as she becomes Americanized she will be out the door. A friend of my dads married this chick from Brazil and like a year later her and her mother took everything of his and kicked him out the door, how sweet of them.

He has to be. no way she marries a guy without arms unless he has money, call me a prick but you know its true.

damn.....

absolutely.

not that your a prick, but 'absolutely' that he had money. :evil:

I think some of you are single because youre negative as ****

I'm single by choice.

Same here.

Some couples I know are happy some are not. To each his own.

agree. IMO, some things in life people do because of what was taught that they 'should' do as opposed to what someone wants to do. College is an example. I think relationships, marriage, kids etc is another.

Some folks, deep down, don't want a relationship or marriage but might 'think' they 'have to' based on traditions or upbringing. It's not a bad thing to want to remain single etc.

I think honesty with ones' self is important. For sure.

This is exactly right and that's a huge problem.

Some are not capable of being in a relationship.

Agree about the dumb bitches that will only date a certain income level. They deserve to be one and doned.

Met a girl off of match and it was going well for a couple months, but then it just seemed - off.

I was in similar situation when I was younger. So I followed the advice I didn't take the first time around & cornered her with "what's the deal and where do we stand?". She gave me the ole' it's me not you because she decided that she didn't want to seriously date anyone.

The first time, when I didn't take the advice, the girl was seeing me but was trying to get someone else (didn't figure it out until after the fact). I was too afraid of asking her because I was loving the little I received from her. She ended up getting with him eventually and it hurt a bit. That's why I confronted this chick, she said what she had to say to me and then posts a pic of her and a guy on her IG a few days later.

It sucks but it's true. If you're not firing on all cylinders for a girl, you're just wasting your time. Any time I feel I'm not getting "all" her attention, she's probably got something else going too - so I'm out. A bunch of my buddies (guys & girls) feel that she's going to end up hitting me up but I'm over it.

Always trust your gut instincts.

Those guys aren't self-loathers with incessant victim-complexes.

Wrong.

Right.


It's about confidence. Sure, looks can give you confidence. So can exercising, socializing, and self-improvement. Many girls are attracted to a guy who is confident and that guy becomes better looking than he really may be.

Being a "Hot guy" is not all about looks. You can be the top 99% of wit, humor, money making, social skills, etc. You can be a hot guy with average looks. I have a bag O tricks because I have years in the game. I have tools that I can use to bring down those hot girls bitch face. Of course people want to whine and play xbox all day because they are lazy ****s. I also am not of the approach "let it happen" I don't see any other skills in life where people "let it happen" it's not like you learn to play piano by "Not thinking about it and letting it happen" you work on your game and you work on relationships like any other skills. Think about what you want and what you don't want and improve yourself over time to get that. In my world "Let it happen and don't worry about it" gets you some sea donkey that sucks at making me laugh and can't do shit for herself.

I am confident after reading a Dakc post because he is awesome

True story.

Solid.

This goes to the poeple who act like victims in this thread. In the love game no one is a victim. The good ones go out and make it happen.

Billay how is that milf?

Eh.

Dating is nothing like getting fit, learning to play piano, getting your dream job, etc. There is compatibility involved. You can be the "best" you there is to be and still not find the right woman until the time is right.

When we're talking about "letting it happen" we don't mean sit on your ass all day playing Xbox expecting your dream girl to be your pizza delivery driver or some shit like that. Just be yourself, go out and meet people, and eventually you will find the right girl for you.

he is a great motivational speaker.

is he a pussy?

Some guys just aren't that guy. Everybody's different and some people just aren't wired that way. It's not like you can go out and buy a bottle of "change your entire being". If somebody needs real psychological help, no amount of "exercising, socializing and self-improvement" is actually going to 'fix' whatever's really wrong with them. Not that they shouldn't do those things, but without addressing the real core issues that make them the person they are, it'll just be a bi-polar roller-coaster.

I don't disagree with you. Some people have issues. Discuss has severe self-esteem issues. I also realize that his issues are what drive his attitude. What I was responding to, however, is the notion that if you're not good looking, don't bother because you'll never succeed with females. While I have no experience relating to that circumstance, I have perceived confidence, among other things, to be of more importance to a woman than mere looks.

Confidence makes you universally attractive but what women seek physically in men is about as universal as what you people seek in us. Quit blaming your face.

Start blaming your expression.

Looks only get you so far, anyway.

I've learned to stop trying to connect with women simply because they're physically attractive.

There has to be SOME kind of physical attraction there, but if we don't have common interests or personalities that mesh it's not going to work.

Case in point, I had dinner two weeks ago with a very cute girl, but the conversation was like pulling teeth. I'm not wasting any more time with her unless she feels a need to get in touch again.

Odds are if you're the kind of person who believes you won't ever have luck with the ladies because of how you look, there are also a variety of other (related) reasons why you won't have any success. It's really easy to find reasons why you won't, whether it's looks or money or age or 'being too different'.

In the end, it's all connected I think. It's all fear. Whether it's fear of rejection or fear of committment or fear of the unknown or fear of change or all of the above.. At the end of the day, being the down-on-your-luck loser can get to be a comfortable sort of mindset, and it's a lot easier to stay there than it is to move on to anywhere/-thing/-one else.

(trust me, I know...)

You learn.

It's slow sledding, but you can do it...

That's absolutely true, and it's not at all superficial to say it.

Perfect

1) Anyone who spends as much time grooming themselves as you do is attractive to women. Women love a well groomed man.

You manscape. You go the extra level before the mirror. You go back to the room and brush after dinner even though it's not necessary.

Women (on dates) love that $3it.

2) Anyone that prissy has money. Women love that even more.

3) See 1 and 2...

4) 5 years later they bang the dirty illegal immigrant cutting the yard because it's "naughty" and "you're so confined and straight" and they feel "smothered."

5) Women love strange. Men love strange. It's a psychological desire. It's evolution...

i'll be a good boy mommy i promise

Doesn't matter if you're a pussy or not if a woman wants your money she's going to get it one way or another.

It's a little more obvious when you buy them...

Yeah he's probably a pussy but what does that have to do with it? Even Arnold Schwarzenegger wasn't safe.

Big muscles didn't make Arnold less of a pussy.

I know, him being strong doesn't mean a woman couldn't laugh and take half, that's all I'm saying. They were asking if my dads friend was a pussy as if he could prevent that from happening. At least that's how I took it.

confidence is a huge part too (as others have already mentioned).

I also think there's a fine line between acting like you don't like a chick, and acting very confident. There is a large percentage of women, IMO, who like the fact that a guy doesn't turn into a blubbering idiot around them. Those gals seem to be interested in a guy who can talk to them etc, and if it doesn't go off very well, the guy doesn't walk away with his tail between his legs. Sometimes that can even peak her interest a bit more.

"Confidence" is tricky. You either look confident, or look like an arrogant douche. hard to balance that IMO

It is more in regards to letting himself get locked out of his own house. I might be wrong, all he has to do is prove, which seems easy at this point the wife was lying to get citizenship. If it is just a year later, annul that shit and ship her back.

Kaptian what gets guys put in the friend zone with you?

The knowledge that it's so much easier to score with me if you start there.

But really anything that makes me feel protective over you rather than passionate.

Hasn't anyone seen beautiful women with ugly men--even short and slightly overweight?

I see it a lot. There's a jewelry store commercially on tv locally, with a weird looking short punch owner with a super hot wife.

Polls on women consistently show confidence is rated highly but not the dick arrogant kind of confidence. That really isn't confidence but insecurity or conceit--very unattractive.

polls can eat a dick. They always say that sense of humor is high, but comedians are the last people to get laid. You have to be hot. High in social status, hot to her friends, hot with family, hot money, or cars, hot with wit, hot with body, hot with style.

Demongame...how much tail you pull in a year on average?

Nah! I think it's true. It reflects my own view and other women I know.
Plus just look around and you'll see beautiful women with men that aren't even in their league. Confidence relates to financial success usually as well.

Hot just gets you in a girl's pants.

Nothing says gold digging whore like a short fat jewelry store owner with a super hot wife.

Diamonds are forever.... or until she gets fat and old and he trades her in for a newer improved super hot wife.LMAO

Indeed, what a gamble. To spend your every day waiting for the moment when money can't fix the effects of age. To wonder if you've managed to tie your guy tight enough to you, to afford you an easy retirement. Imagine the years of faking, forcing and fornicating for security. To never really know what it is to be loved strictly for yourself.

Plus all the plastic surgery. **** that.

Simply Randy is attempting to romance a young cougar in his apartment building.

S, we'll call her.

S feeds a stray cat every day apparently.

Randy, in his observations, has noticed this and formed a cunning play to win her fickle heart.

Welcome...to "The Power Move."

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