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Titty Meat 06-06-2013 01:09 PM

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Originally Posted by luv (Post 9733174)
People looking for **** buddies aren't interested in dating them.

Not true

gblowfish 06-06-2013 01:28 PM

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Originally Posted by Canofbier (Post 9731052)
"Going out"? LMAO

Is that a pull tab in her navel?

Fish 06-06-2013 01:32 PM

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Originally Posted by luv (Post 9733174)
People looking for **** buddies aren't interested in dating them.

Why not?

luv 06-06-2013 01:49 PM

If you're looking for a **** buddy, it's because you're not looking to date. If you're looking to date, you don't treat someone like a **** buddy. Three kinds of sexual relationships:

**** buddy (aka booty call buddy): Someone you only call when you want to have sex. It's the only time you see each other.

Friends with benefits: A friend you get along with well. You're not really each other's type for anything long term, but you like to hang out and occasionally have sex.

Dating: You're looking for someone long term. You are getting to know them, possibly falling for them, and sex is of course part of that.

I had a **** buddy years ago. When one of us was in a relationship, we let the other one know. We would not contact each other until we were out of said relationship. If the other one was also not currently in a relationship, we'd go back to being **** buddies. IMO, I can't recall anyone who ended up being FWB with someone come out of it even being friends.

Fish 06-06-2013 02:24 PM

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Originally Posted by luv (Post 9733268)
If you're looking for a **** buddy, it's because you're not looking to date. If you're looking to date, you don't treat someone like a **** buddy. Three kinds of sexual relationships:

**** buddy (aka booty call buddy): Someone you only call when you want to have sex. It's the only time you see each other.

Friends with benefits: A friend you get along with well. You're not really each other's type for anything long term, but you like to hang out and occasionally have sex.

Dating: You're looking for someone long term. You are getting to know them, possibly falling for them, and sex is of course part of that.

I had a **** buddy years ago. When one of us was in a relationship, we let the other one know. We would not contact each other until we were out of said relationship. If the other one was also not currently in a relationship, we'd go back to being **** buddies. IMO, I can't recall anyone who ended up being FWB with someone come out of it even being friends.

I don't think it's as simple as that. Expecting a potential partner to fit into some pre-defined category is a good way to set yourself up for disappointment...

luv 06-06-2013 02:32 PM

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Originally Posted by Fish (Post 9733353)
I don't think it's as simple as that. Expecting a potential partner to fit into some pre-defined category is a good way to set yourself up for disappointment...

Well, I am still single, so......



Of course, I've been told it's because I need to lose weight. Maybe there's more to it than that.

Fish 06-06-2013 02:47 PM

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Originally Posted by luv (Post 9733370)
Well, I am still single, so......



Of course, I've been told it's because I need to lose weight. Maybe there's more to it than that.

Definitely more to it than that. Every girl I've ever met or dated, that told themselves they needed to "Do something" before being able to find love, has been their own worst enemy with regards to actually finding love. Whether it be losing weight, or graduating college, or whatever. You're constructing your own roadblock to happiness.

Discuss Thrower 06-06-2013 03:08 PM

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Originally Posted by Fish (Post 9733418)
Definitely more to it than that. Every girl I've ever met or dated, that told themselves they needed to "Do something" before being able to find love, has been their own worst enemy with regards to actually finding love. Whether it be losing weight, or graduating college, or whatever. You're constructing your own roadblock to happiness.

No... physical attractiveness is pretty much the key thing in the start of any romantic relationships.

luv 06-06-2013 03:14 PM

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Originally Posted by Discuss Thrower (Post 9733455)
No... physical attractiveness is pretty much the key thing in the start of any romantic relationships.

And, of course, nothing above a size 8 can ever be considered attractive.

Discuss Thrower 06-06-2013 03:17 PM

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Originally Posted by luv (Post 9733467)
And, of course, nothing above a size 8 can ever be considered attractive.

To a lot of dudes, probably. SOmetimes it's a case by case thing.

ThaVirus 06-06-2013 03:50 PM

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Originally Posted by luv (Post 9733467)
And, of course, nothing above a size 8 can ever be considered attractive.

*size 00 / Omaha

Valiant 06-06-2013 05:17 PM

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Originally Posted by Bo's Pelini (Post 9733220)
Not true

You have a point..

Attractive **** buddies do become significants..


Average/ugly **** buddies are always that..

Valiant 06-06-2013 05:30 PM

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Originally Posted by luv (Post 9733467)
And, of course, nothing above a size 8 can ever be considered attractive.

No, tons of girls above that size find love..

Honestly from some of your stories I get that you are a chameleon girl, you adapt to the guy you like, by doing this you put yourself in the friend zone all the time on your own..

Seems one of the few things you have only done for yourself is derby, which is awesome, still trying to figure out how you have not gotten guys through that.. Some of the manish looking derby girls up here even get guys.. You are better than them from what I remember.

You seem caught up trying to get an image of yourself that you do not want to try and achieve or cannot and blame that for your problems. Learn to like yourself, and then guys will see that confidence. If not you might become one of those old jaded women that have 12 cats.

Sorry, going to be the evil guy in this..

Hammock Parties 06-06-2013 05:42 PM

luv's standards are probably too high

she needs to look for a fat guy

simple as that

Simply Red 06-06-2013 05:44 PM

alcohol is a silent killer.


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