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Phobia 08-01-2010 10:59 PM
Hey - RedThat - why don't you pick us up a twelver and come over. We'll drink your beer on my deck and you can cry in your beer. Then you can pass out. I promise to throw a mosquito net over you.

RedThat 08-01-2010 11:03 PM
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Originally Posted by Phobia (Post 6911528)
Hey - RedThat - why don't you pick us up a twelver and come over. We'll drink your beer on my deck and you can cry in your beer. Then you can pass out. I promise to throw a mosquito net over you.
I got more than a twelver

The Bad Guy 08-01-2010 11:04 PM
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Originally Posted by RedThat (Post 6911518)
I maintained my composure while I was there. I kept it inside, and Im just sharing how I felt about the whole incident. Never told him, hey you're a dick didn't like the way I was treated etc..Never said anything like that..Deep down in my own heart Im mad, I just never express it out to him in person.

Alright. It could have been a lot more organized. Like I said previously, if I was told beforehand that it was my responsibility to find my way back home, no complaints about that. I understand its a wedding and sh*t gets stressful and stuff like that can easily be overlooked. But when you ask a simple question, and someone says to you, "it's not my responsibility." Or, offers me suggestions on what I should do..i.e, like go hitch a ride with someone else. Think about that? Put that together, and the guy sounds like a real dick to me.

Now, if he was apologetic about the incident and said it straight like, "hey you know something, Im really sorry about that. I should of told you beforehand, that it is your own responsibility to find a ride home. Or you know something, let me see if I could do something for you." THATS WHAT A DECENT FRIEND IS ALL ABOUT BUDDY!
But expecting him to do something for you, at that instant, after an insanely stressful day, is bad. Putting a groom in that situation also isn't a decent thing to do. I'm sure you knew others at the wedding and didn't have to put it all on his shoulders at the end of the night when the only thing he wants to do is go upstairs and consumate the marriage.

chasedude 08-01-2010 11:07 PM
You're "friend" is definitely a dick. I know where you're coming from, having helped out those in need only to seen it thrown back in my face. Drop the dude like a big pile-o-shit and hang out with those that appreciate your friendship.

pr_capone 08-01-2010 11:10 PM
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Originally Posted by RedThat (Post 6911518)
Alright. It could have been a lot more organized. Like I said previously, if I was told beforehand that it was my responsibility to find my way back home, no complaints about that. I understand its a wedding and sh*t gets stressful and stuff like that can easily be overlooked. But when you ask a simple question, and someone says to you, "it's not my responsibility." Or, offers me suggestions on what I should do..i.e, like go hitch a ride with someone else. Think about that? Put that together, and the guy sounds like a real dick to me.

Now, if he was apologetic about the incident and said it straight like, "hey you know something, Im really sorry about that. I should of told you beforehand, that it is your own responsibility to find a ride home. Or you know something, let me see if I could do something for you." THATS WHAT A DECENT FRIEND IS ALL ABOUT BUDDY!
WOW.

Would it have been nice had he told you ahead of time? Yup. Could you have acted like a man and fended for yourself instead of throwing a hissy fit? Yup.

At that point when you ask him how you are going to get home... what did you expect him to do? Drop you off on the way to take what is maritally his? "Hey guys, can you swing me by my place before you seal the deal?"

Really??? What did you expect from him at that point? What kind of a man tries to cockblock his buddy on his wedding night?

pr_capone 08-01-2010 11:12 PM
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Originally Posted by The Bad Guy (Post 6911531)
But expecting him to do something for you, at that instant, after an insanely stressful day, is bad. Putting a groom in that situation also isn't a decent thing to do. I'm sure you knew others at the wedding and didn't have to put it all on his shoulders at the end of the night when the only thing he wants to do is go upstairs and consumate the marriage.
:clap:

RedThat 08-01-2010 11:14 PM
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Originally Posted by The Bad Guy (Post 6911531)
But expecting him to do something for you, at that instant, after an insanely stressful day, is bad. Putting a groom in that situation also isn't a decent thing to do. I'm sure you knew others at the wedding and didn't have to put it all on his shoulders at the end of the night when the only thing he wants to do is go upstairs and consumate the marriage.
I did know others at the wedding but honestly Im not going to go up to them and ask them for a ride home. Dude, I'd feel embarrassed to do that.

*I see your point of view, but Im grateful in a way that stuff like this happens because it shows the true colours of a person. jmo

Stanley Nickels 08-01-2010 11:14 PM
I don't know if I'm the only one, but this would never happen with my friends. I don't mean the limo, money, etc issues-- that's life. No, I mean the in-fighting and drama. If somebody ****s me over, we get angry at one another. Once the tiff is over, we buy each other a beer and life goes on. If it becomes a pattern, you have everyone call the guy on it until he mans up; if he doesn't, nobody calls him anymore to hang out. I guess that's just our way of handling things. I wouldn't think it's too uncommon though.

LaChapelle 08-01-2010 11:15 PM
Stop giving a **** what these mother ****ers think
giving is what got you into this mess to begin with
do what you gotta

pr_capone 08-01-2010 11:16 PM
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Originally Posted by RedThat (Post 6911545)
I did know others at the wedding but honestly Im not going to go up to them and ask them for a ride home. Dude, I'd feel embarrassed to do that.
But not to embarrassed to ask the groom before he goes to play hide the pickle.

Phobia 08-01-2010 11:16 PM
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Originally Posted by pr_capone (Post 6911539)
WOW.

Would it have been nice had he told you ahead of time? Yup. Could you have acted like a man and fended for yourself instead of throwing a hissy fit? Yup.

At that point when you ask him how you are going to get home... what did you expect him to do? Drop you off on the way to take what is maritally his? "Hey guys, can you swing me by my place before you seal the deal?"

Really??? What did you expect from him at that point? What kind of a man tries to cockblock his buddy on his wedding night?
He didn't throw a fit. The groom took him to the wedding so a reasonable expectation is that arrangements had been made to get them back to their vehicles. The groom could have said - "crap - my bad, can you make it work" and this dude wouldn't have a problem. Instead, the groom said something kinda crappy. I get where he's coming from.

RedThat 08-01-2010 11:17 PM
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Originally Posted by pr_capone (Post 6911539)
WOW.

Would it have been nice had he told you ahead of time? Yup. Could you have acted like a man and fended for yourself instead of throwing a hissy fit? Yup.

At that point when you ask him how you are going to get home... what did you expect him to do? Drop you off on the way to take what is maritally his? "Hey guys, can you swing me by my place before you seal the deal?"

Really??? What did you expect from him at that point? What kind of a man tries to cockblock his buddy on his wedding night?
No no..do you really think I would expect that?

All i wanted was a little decency. Thats it.

Phobia 08-01-2010 11:18 PM
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Originally Posted by RedThat (Post 6911530)
I got more than a twelver
Dude - no crappy water beer at my house. The stuff you bring here ... a twelver is plenty for two dudes.

chasedude 08-01-2010 11:19 PM
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Originally Posted by RedThat (Post 6911552)
No no..do you really think I would expect that?

All i wanted was a little decency. Thats it.
Screw these ****ers... they're just enjoying a good pile on.

RedThat 08-01-2010 11:19 PM
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Originally Posted by pr_capone (Post 6911549)
But not to embarrassed to ask the groom before he goes to play hide the pickle.
Well, the only reason I asked him was because he was responsible for taking me there, and I thought Id ask him only because he and his wife organized the whole damn thing.


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