Seriously, how will we know whether a grudge-3some is worth it without pics?

The no contact rule didn't work last nite, you can ask my wife if you don't believe me.

i find it ONLY WORKS if you really mean it.


The problem is that you can't really mean it if it's a ploy.


it's similar to the problem about finding a girl when you NEED a girl.

It's always easier to get a chick when you already have one because you truly act different.

You have to really move on ... REALLY,REALLY move on, or it's just fake and it won't work.

As always, Swingers has sage advice on the topic.

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She was just divorced and wanted to have some fun (the kind you see in porn films), he wanted to get married she didn't and cut him off. So he sent the pics. He spent some money on her flying back and forth from KC area to out to California and a few resorts.

Interesting. They also charge him with violating the Mann Act?

Oooouuuuch! Let me translate for you. "I needed a guy when I was lonely to hang out with. You were there and it was, well, Ok. Then, I realized a really wanted a guy I could have lots of fun with and have sex like crazy. You weren't that guy. You wanted to be, but I found some other guys that were more fun to let treat me like a $40 **** doll. Soooo, even tho you want to be that guy, I'm gonna let you off easy and just tell you that I needed a break and go back to getting pummeled by other guys"

I know it hurts now, but the reality is that a year from now this chick will simply be fap memory material while your new girl is upstairs getting ready.

I apologize for not taking this thread seriously, but this is the best advice you could take. You might take the low road and give her an earful but it would be better to not have ANY contact at all with her and let it go.

The "No Contact" rule also works when imposed by a judge. A common result when the self-imposed "No Contact" rule is ignored.

nope, just call a cab and move on

Thank your lucky stars you didn't get an STD and walk away.

Just be glad the gal told you and move on. Lots of sluts don't even tell you until they're caught in bed with your best friend and then you're scarred and turn gay. That's how it happens.

Huh?

I think she's being pretty reasonable. It sounds like he's pushed her away with borderline stalkerish behaviour.

Tip: Girls don't like obsessive boys. At least not the ones worth having.

it's true, the girl has got to need you before you let her see/know that you need her.

This is like rule #1 for dating

NEVER,EVER be needy until after you have her hooked ... EVER!!!