LMAO

So Facebook is now a way to get into the inner circle? The random readers that my mother allows to befriend her on Facebook because they are interested in her books are now members of my mother's inner circle and privy to her deepest thoughts, just by virtue of a friend request? The person befriended is now required to share all her secrets?

I'm going to have to let my mother know this. She'll want to get rid of that account immediately.

THIS


rep to you billay

You apparently aren't taking these requests in context and the motivation behind them.

billay made one threat to expose you over chiefsplanet. What's the difference? Wow, you sure did get hacked off when it threatened to invade your real life. Seem like a bit of a double standard, Clayton Wendler?

I think we are being Dongered.

So is posting on a message board. After all, this stuff will get back to people eventually.

Less bitching and more nude pics, please.

That is incorrect.

You should also ask your mother to slap you because you're being deliberately difficult or you're just unable to follow logical thought. Either way, she should slap you silly.

no it's not. We don't know your real name. We don't have access to contact your friends and family. On Facebook you do.

Get over it and quit being a douche.

You don't know that. We do know that these people will see these requests, unless she dies or they cancel their accounts on Facebook BECAUSE of these requests.

what's your mom's facebook link? I'd like to become a friend.

Why do people send your mother Facebook friends requests?

Uhm we'd ask if he has any more pictures her.....

If they seek it out, sure. I could go camp out at Westboro Baptist and get myself worked into a tizzy too but then that would be on me, wouldn't it?

You're being obtuse. Stop it.

So she'll see a friend request. She's not required to accept them.

Put me down for a yes plz

ROFL

No, but she will manually have to go through and deny each one.

No, she is not. And do you think getting all these requests will make her feel better or worse?

It'd just be easier to delete the account and create a new one.

Yeah, JPB, I'd like to friend your mom on FB as well, if you don't mind.

That would cut into her student-doing time. We can't have that, now can we?

Neither if she's dead.

thats not the point.

Well, since she doesn't seem to be too smart, she will probably feel BETTER. "Oh look, lots of people want to be my friend and support me."

The reasons vary. I would think that's a pretty common thing, is it not?

very common. So link me to her account...

Again, I go back to the motivation of those sending the requests.

I don't know the woman, so I can't answer your question with any degree of certainty.

Can we send a request to your mom or not?

the end justifies the means?

How many of them send her requests for the sole purpose of being nasty?

No, I get it. There've been lots of douches doing the "hurr hurr hot teacher" creeper thing and it's tasteless. I get that. But if this lady wanted to keep on in the world of FB (which I highly doubt) then I'd imagine she'd just get a new account.

Depends on the individual. Clearly, for some, it does.

aside from her, people are doing the same to the husband. Why should he have to delete and start over?

The big issue is being obtuse about it...

I would assume it's set up to allow friend requests, since she's told me about some people who've sent those requests, but I couldn't tell you much beyond that. As I stated, I don't use Facebook. I don't know the account name of anyone's Facebook, and I don't really know how it works outside of a few scraps of information that I've heard or read. That's why I've asked questions about it here.

sooo....can I be besties with your mom?

I have no idea.

I have no input in the matter.

I agree, it's shameless. Tragic situations somehow have a way of getting society's knuckledraggers out in force.

What's her name and where does she live (city,state)? We can find her on FB that way.

You're confusing disagreement with your position with an inability to follow your argument.

Well, if your Mom were to started banging high school boys and a thread was started about it here, I would wager that the vast majority of them would be sent to be nasty and not actually friendly.

whats her name, I'll leave it up to her to decide.

Curious = nasty?

Perhaps you jumped into this without reading far enough back, but I posted earlier that I thought Clay's action of contacting the husband and sending him an invite to come here was distasteful.

Only on friday nights.

It can be, yes.

Anyway, that scenario above is hypothetical (I presume).

What you did was not. And you've already acknowledged that your intentions were not friendly.

So is sending a Facebook friend request to the wife.

Imagine someone creates a thread on the main board about something you're really embarrassed about. Some secret so bad, that you would consider committing suicide if it were to become public. Now imagine those people from TMB started sending you friend requests on FB. Would that have a nasty feel to you or would you just think it was innocent curiosity? Comon, man, you're not that dumb. Admit you were acting like a little piece of shit and move on.

I disagree. Well, to be more accurate, I would say that it would depend on intent.

Then you're an idiot. Sorry.

I see you added. Yes, the intent is key. Now, what do you think was the intent of those who claim they sent her a request?

so what's your mom's name? I wanna send her a friend request.

You can't logically conclude how a woman in her situation would feel about hundreds of random friend requests after her shameful secrets became public knowledge? You're a ****ing a reerun.

I bet she picked a few good looking guys for the rebound.

I've stated that I'm with them on the husband thing. He's an innocent non-party. I'm not sure where you think making posts about wanting to befriend my mother is somehow not involving an innocent, be we'll have to disagree about that.

I know that's not you, man. I don't think too many people find your trolling funny in this thread so just stop.

Oh, so you admit the friend requests to her were malicious, but it's OK because she slept with a bunch of high-schoolers and deserves the punishment? Apologies if I'm misinterpreting anything.

what, you don't want me sending her a friend request? Whats wrong with it? She can just ignore it....

You do realize that people react differently, right?

I didn't admit that the friend requests were malicious. Do you have a reading comprehension problem?

let's try this again:

You can't logically conclude how a woman who just attempted suicide would feel about hundreds of random friend requests after her shameful secrets became public knowledge? You're a ****ing a reerun.

Yeah, some people drive their SUV off a cliff in response to events. But, I'm sure that she will get a giggle out of all the friend requests generated by teh same event.

So, you really think that the requests were sent with the honest intention of helping her through this troubled time? Shoulder to cry upon?

No, I just figured it was implied since you mentioned how it was WRONG to do the same thing to her husband since he's an "innocent non-party" (whatever the **** 'non-party' means there).

Did you tell you that she was so upset by friend requests that she drove off of a cliff?

No.

No, but one can be curious without being malicious. Surely you don't disagree with that.

Then your comment would seem to have no basis to it, in context.

Yes. And it is logical to conclude that these requests were malicious/nasty in order to give themselves a giggle.

I'm curious about your mother's books. What's her name again?

The fact that they're curious about her and try to invade her privacy is malicious in an of itself even if the intent to be malicious isn't there. Christ, man, do you have even the slightest ability to empathize?

It's pretty simple. She was apparently distraught enough by being this event that she drove her car off a cliff. We don't know if she saw any of these requests come in before that happened.

But, if she did (or will if she lives), do you think that she'll be pleased with them or not?

The husband was an innocent non-party. Clay was not sending the wife, who is the main party in the drama, a friend request. Clay was trying to get the guy here to read this thread.

I see a significant difference there. You don't seem to see one.

I don't know whether she'll be pleased or not. I expect the same is true of you. Perhaps you know her intimately and have kept that from us, though. If that's the case, I bow to your superior knowledge of her way of thinking.

What privacy is being invaded with a mere friend request that can be denied? You apparently don't need to be her Facebook friend to see her bare ass naked, or to know the basics of her current situation. If you truly had any empathy (your word choice) regarding her situation, and felt that the desire to know more was malicious in itself, you wouldn't be following this thread at all.

Yes, I'm sure that she'll be thrilled to have a bunch of requests come in from Internet dorks wanting to see more nudie pictures of her.

Do I know? No.

Is it logical to assume that a person who apparently tried to kill herself over this incident getting out would find requests of that type to be not a good thing? Yes.