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Hammock Parties 06-10-2013 01:13 PM

That bitch is crazy.

Abort.

Rudy tossed tigger's salad 06-10-2013 01:14 PM

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Originally Posted by CJizzles (Post 9741357)
She sounds high maintenance.

Abort.

Sounds like Buck is the high maintenance one

keg in kc 06-10-2013 01:16 PM

There's probably more to it than that, but at the end of the day, sometimes a weekend trip like that is a good way to tell you how things really are.
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Originally Posted by AphexPhin (Post 9741326)
sorry to hear that dude. Maybe it was that time of the month or something. Women are generally bi polar in nature. Just something us guys have to deal with.

We dudes can be every bit as bi-polar. There's even research showing we have our own monthly cycle.

The Franchise 06-10-2013 01:18 PM

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Originally Posted by Buck (Post 9741349)
Our flight to Denver left at 7 am so we had to leave for the airport at 5:30 am.

On Saturday we were going to a show and when I was getting dressed for the show I realized I left the shirt at her house. So I went to Ross and bought a new shirt. We went to the show and had a great time then we got back and she was just so mad a t me over the shirt thing and said she can't see herself with someone who forgets a shirt so I called her out on it as being a stupid excuse blah blah blah. We were both drunk at the time.

Sunday we made up and kept doing our stuff.

This morning we had breakfast at a Bed and Breakfast and they ****ed up because we told them she's a vegetarian who doesn't eat eggs and they were supposed to accommodate her, so I told the people to bring her something that she could eat. She wasn't happy about that and hasn't been talking to me.

Yeah I'm over it.

Yeah....those are two bullshit excuses for someone to get upset about.

Buck 06-10-2013 01:18 PM

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Originally Posted by keg in kc (Post 9741393)
There's probably more to it than that, but at the end of the day, sometimes a weekend trip like that is a good way to tell you how things really are.

Yeah, she won't admit to anything, but getting that pissed over a shirt is a deal breaker for me anyways.

keg in kc 06-10-2013 01:23 PM

Yeah, the shirt thing makes no sense. The breakfast I could understand, although not why she'd be upset with you about it.

DaKCMan AP 06-10-2013 01:40 PM

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Originally Posted by Buck (Post 9741310)
I think I'm back on the market.

Girlfriend was completely insufferable all weekend and now I'm pretty much over it. She ruined my vacation.

You & me both, Buck. My relationship 'officially' ended yesterday.

luv 06-10-2013 01:41 PM

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Originally Posted by Buck (Post 9741328)
And I just saw all those other posts. Doesn't matter because I realized that I actually don't love her anymore. I'm ready to go home. I'm sitting next to her in the Denver airport and we haven't talked to each other in a friendly manner since breakfast.


This is why I'm slow in telling someone I love them. If my feelings can do a 180 in a single weekend, then I wouldn't consider it love.

luv 06-10-2013 01:42 PM

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Originally Posted by DaKCMan AP (Post 9741458)
You & me both, Buck. My relationship 'officially' ended yesterday.

What?! I thought things were Awesome?

Fish 06-10-2013 01:42 PM

LMAO Can't see herself being with someone who could forget a shirt?

WTF Buck?

Sounds like her crazy is starting to leak out....

DaKCMan AP 06-10-2013 01:43 PM

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Originally Posted by luv (Post 9741467)
What?! I thought things were Awesome?

They were.

luv 06-10-2013 01:44 PM

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Originally Posted by DaKCMan AP (Post 9741470)
They were.

Something in particular happen, or was it just outside forces? Sorry to hear it.

Donger 06-10-2013 01:44 PM

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Originally Posted by Buck (Post 9741349)
Our flight to Denver left at 7 am so we had to leave for the airport at 5:30 am.

On Saturday we were going to a show and when I was getting dressed for the show I realized I left the shirt at her house. So I went to Ross and bought a new shirt. We went to the show and had a great time then we got back and she was just so mad a t me over the shirt thing and said she can't see herself with someone who forgets a shirt so I called her out on it as being a stupid excuse blah blah blah. We were both drunk at the time.

Sunday we made up and kept doing our stuff.

This morning we had breakfast at a Bed and Breakfast and they ****ed up because we told them she's a vegetarian who doesn't eat eggs and they were supposed to accommodate her, so I told the people to bring her something that she could eat. She wasn't happy about that and hasn't been talking to me.

Yeah I'm over it.

Yeah, but how was Mt. Evans?

Donger 06-10-2013 01:45 PM

The key to determining long-term compatibility?

Do a move together. Not necessarily your own, but just do a move together.

patteeu 06-10-2013 01:47 PM

It's hard to believe you can be so gaga over her one week and then let a few bumps in the road like this derail the situation completely. One thing you need to realize about relationships is that they aren't always smooth sailing. A couple of the skills you need to develop before you can have a successful long term relationship are (a) being able to forgive the occasional unpleasant realities of your partner and (b) being able to defuse a problem between the two of you without laying all the blame on the partner.

Of course, the partner has the same hill to climb so no matter how good you get at it, if she's not trying to do the same it can still fail. I don't know whether this gal is someone you can be happy with or not, but most likely, both of you have some responsibility for how this weekend went. And I'm not talking about the fact that you forgot your shirt. I'm mostly talking about how the two of you interacted when these hurdles confronted you. Defensiveness and blame begets more defensiveness and blame and a mild bump in the road can turn into a significant fight pretty easily.

Whether you work on your reconciliation skills with this girl or not, you're going to have to do it at some point. It's when you can both work at fixing relationship snafus that you can really say you have a meaningful relationship. Until then, you're really just along for the ride.


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