If you're her pal she won't **** you

So no friends with benefits? I guess that's what I want... lol! :-)

Oh well... I'm going to stop trying to be this and that. I need to learn to just flow and be... And if that's good, then cool. If not, then whatever.

Do you think so much around guys?? probably not, that's how you need to be around women, don't put them on a pedestal

What do you mean by not giving them attention? I always wondered that. Cause, do you talk to them? Do you still smile at them? I mean, I don't let her walk all over me. She said I should do something for her and I was like, "Uh, hellll no!" So I'm not a doormat.

But I always wanted to know what it means when you're not supposed to give them attention. Cause ZERO attention and they won't even know your name.

The only way a FWB works is if you only get together for sex. If there's any connection other than that, then one or the other is going to get too emotionally involved and complicate shit.

Actually, I do think like this around guys. I think like this before I even post on here. Its just who I aaam...

The original poster forgot the "FML" at the end.

:( booooo...

I don't care if she likes me more than I like her... I can deal with that. And since I've never been in love, and don't really "fall" for girls like some people do, I am not worried.

I just want some nookie/social interaction.

Bullshit. FWB can't go to a movie and make out in the dark?

Be confident in yourself, not cocky...that's all. You can talk to women but don't talk to them like they are your everything or you really are interested in them etc. if you are on a date or whatever be yourself, but be a MAN about it, don't be a pansy. Pretty much don't give a shit how she reacts to what you say etc. I havent done the dating shit in awhile but once you do it once and get a girl it will be easy from then on. Confidence is key, it's just a damn woman

Okay here is my take on situation. The chick is acting like a normal girl for the most part expect she is used to getting hit on. Basically if you want in her pants - you got to ignore her and say negative but sly comments to her. If you want her to go away, bug the shit out of her by talking to her. That could also backfire on you since women naturally want to talk about their problems.

Still focusing on the sex factor. It's not like you hold conversations during the movie.

First of all Buddha, you never let on how much you like a girl.

"Oh, Debbie. Hi."

Two, you always call the shots.

"Kiss me. You won't regret it."

Now three, act like wherever you are, that's the place to be.

"Isn't this great?"

Four, when ordering food, you find out what she wants, then order for the both of you. It's a classy move.

"Now, the lady will have the linguini and white clam sauce, and a Coke with no ice."

And five, now this is the most important, Buddha. When it comes down to making out, whenever possible, put on side one of Led Zeppelin IV.

Dude. You're already saying she drives you crazy. She'll smother you.

You can't make out the whole time.

I think FWB should be able to go out to bars and play grabass. Go dancing and dry hump. That sort of thing.