I did...I had to use that money for a bankruptcy lawyer.

I remember before this went down that you had a spell of calling me a drama queen....


holy shit.

You led people here to believe they were buying your shit to help you with a divorce....and that's not what you did.


Reach down and punch yourself where your balls used to be.

You are in a never ending cycle of crap... you had an opportunity to take more control of your situation and improve your life, but you didn't take it. It's nearly a year later and you're no more happier than you were when all of this crap first happened.

Unless I missed it, you're still married to her... there's now 4 kids (right?) and 2 baby daddies in the mix with one mom.

The definition of insanity is doing the same things over and over while expecting a different result. You have sought out advice in the past, but you've taken your own road... are you in a better place than you were in April 2009?

If not, make changes... if you can't make changes, then buckle up because this hellish emotional roller coaster isn't going to end any time soon. And, if you think your kids are innocent bystanders with no clue as to what is happening, I think you should really take a close look and evaluate the situation.

Nobody here knows anything more than what you've posted... and I think it's hard for many to fathom the idea that all is great in their world right now. It doesn't appear to be great for you or your wife... how could it be any different for them?

So... your CURRENT wife is sleeping with another guy - all night and just had his kid. But, really, she loves you. After all, you're good for a quickie **** in the afternoon when the kids aren't home and her lover is at work... or does he sit in the driveway and wait until she's done?

And you think you don't need counseling?

id hate to see a decent woman wasted on you. maybe youll grow up someday. some people never do. in either case keep your dick in that nasty holster. the rest of the world can breathe easier knowing the pair of you are occupied.
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Getting laid, going out with other girls... Even falling in love, has NOTHING to do with getting over someone.

You have no clue of yourself, your qualities, and ultimately your worth right now. That is what's going to be passed onto your kids more than anything. It sends the message that self worth is tied intowho you are with every bit as much as the single mom
who hops from guy to guy. I don't give a rip how young your kids are, and how much you think you are hiding, they are learning that lesson already.

If I knew you in person, I'd want to beat some sense intoyou, but ultimately all I can do is pray for you, and more importantly, your kids.

Find yourself. Often to do that, one needs to be by himself.

http://www.jerryspringertv.com/be_a_guest.php

Seriously, check into ... maybe you can make a few dollars that you can put to good use.

Sounds very familiar to comments from several of us 10 months ago...

Have a 3 some and web cast it.Sharing creampies is the new money shot in porn!

and bring another friend, I'll bet she's a 3 car garage.

Sadly, there were just as many people telling him to **** it out of his system.

Also, as evidenced by his comments even on here, he's still more than willing to make every excuse possible to continue not doing the right thing. He's his own worst enabler.

Good Point!!!

Yeah, there's still hope for him though... but, he has to do it for himself and unfortunately there doesn't appear to be anyone within his circle of friends or family willing to take the initiative to push him in the right direction.

THIS.

Wait. We're talking about his thread-making, right?

After reading through this entire thread and remembering when he was telling the break up story last year, I call bullshit!

He is an attention whore and writing an internet farce. Seriously there is no person in the world this f'n dumb.