Originally Posted by rico (Post 13627807)

Holy shit, the timing of this thread is weird for me. I have had a very bumpy, eventful past 6 weeks myself with this. I will respond with my situation when I get home from work. Ultimately, we reconciled and are back together...and closer than ever.

The last 2-3 months have been the worst of my life...hands down.

Is Kansas a fault or no fault state?

Originally Posted by Iconic (Post 13628493)

Yes it's on the wife. She should be held responsible but it doesn't mean the guy should be absolved of any wrong doings. He's a giant piece of shit. They BOTH deserve something sweet and vengeful.

Originally Posted by -King- (Post 13628470)

Look, she should know, but like I said, that's a can of worms you're opening that you might not want to open. If it was your friend, of course you should say something. But a stranger? Eh.

You don't know what the guy is capable of. What if he tries to fight you or kill you because "you ended his marriage"(I'm assuming he would blame you and not himself because a guy that does shit like that usually is too pussy to accept their own faults). IMO, worry about your kids and be mad about your wife. If your wife would have never opened her legs, the guy would have never ****ed her. It's her fault at the end of the day. She's the one who had a responsibility to you, not the guy.
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Originally Posted by Frazod (Post 13628061)

And the people who work for them. :D

My firm is basically an all things for rich people type of place. Nothing like some high level corporate prick who left his ice cold wife of 20 years for the plastic-titted receptionist. These people get so wrapped up in rage that they'll expend $50,000 in legal fees fighting over a $500 vase. Luckily, I work on the commercial side. I definitely prefer dealing with professional clients who just want to close a deal and move on to the next deal to butthurt emotional wrecks.

At the end of the day, unless the wife smokes crack in the courtroom, she's going to get custody of the kids, and if she made less money or didn't work at all, alimony. Often even documented, iron clad evidence of infidelity doesn't factor in. It's ridiculous how pro wife most judges are. And of course taking care of the children is always paramount in their eyes. Remember the case where the man was proven to not be the father of a kid, but got stuck paying child support anyway? IIRC, that was in Kansas.

My advice - suffer in silence until the kids are grown, and then try to split as amicably as possible. And hope she dies of natural causes in the interim.

Originally Posted by Cave Johnson (Post 13628578)

Fraz is a man-legal??

It all makes sense now.

Originally Posted by Pablo (Post 13628581)

I think the preferred term is para-nuts.

Originally Posted by BWillie (Post 13628151)

Yikes really? That is the only thing holding me back from marriage. I have a ton of assets. If I get married, I'm going to need to have an iron clad prenup. I've been with my chick for 9 years. She's very upset with me we haven't gotten married yet ROFL

Originally Posted by cooper barrett (Post 13628172)

That is what I was hoping the OP would try to understand. The more petro soaked logs you throw on the fire the greater the possibilities of burns resulting from said logs.

Originally Posted by Otter (Post 13628442)

Are we talking the hypothetical wife removed her wedding ring and drove out of town, met a stranger and slept with him or are we talking the guy knew she was married and you were the husband?

Because if it's the latter then I'm gonna kill your dog and beat you to death with the corpse while your kids watch.

It's really easy; don't stick your dick in another man's wife.

Originally Posted by SAUTO (Post 13628600)

You took the words out of my mouth. Except I would have eaten the dog for dinner afterwards

Originally Posted by Otter (Post 13628442)

Are we talking the hypothetical wife removed her wedding ring and drove out of town, met a stranger and slept with him or are we talking the guy knew she was married and you were the husband?

Because if it's the latter then I'm gonna kill your dog and beat you to death with the corpse while your kids watch.

It's really easy; don't stick your dick in another man's wife.

Originally Posted by Cave Johnson (Post 13628602)

Enjoy nothing but prison sex for the next 5 years, boys.

Totes worth it!!

Originally Posted by SAUTO (Post 13628610)

Some people might take it in prison.

Not this guy though.