Confronting a cheater
 

Haven't been here in awhile, so check this out. Guess this could be related to the cheaters thread, but oh well. I had been seeing this woman for about 3 years. Everything was great, we got along, amazing sex, etc. But during this whole time, I live in Wichita, she in Newton, a 30 minute drive. She always had to visit me at my house because she lived with her ex. They had never been married, just dated for 9 years. Long story short, I saw the end coming, she was pulling away, as she had done before a few years ago, so I found where she lived and told her supposed ex the whole story of me and his woman. Oh yeah, they were very much together, he said. But he was a big puss and didn't get mad or anything. But needless to say, she got hysterical, said she hated me, i ruined her life, etc. I knew all this was going to happen anyway, but I just couldn't let her get away with her doing the whole player thing. So basically, what is your opinion on confronting the cheaters significant other?

My opinion is take a writing class.

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WTF?

That didn't set off any flags or whistles that indicated psychosis?

Yeah, it did, but did I mention the great sex?

That's a great plan, Walter. That's ****in' ingenious if I understand it correctly. It's a Swiss ****in' watch.

doesn't seem like you had too much of a problem with it until she started to pull away

Both of you are losers.

That was an EASY call...

i don't think she needed to cheat.
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lol. You enjoyed it while you could, and now that she doesn't want you anymore, you have to punish her.

Either the story is full of shit or you are.

I guess that's not an either/or.

kill them. melt em' down. use em' for boot polish.

This summer, we found out someone in my close circle's wife was running, and at the very moment was at one of the guy's house at a party. 3 of us went out there and the husband kicked his ass across his house and back to the other side.

You're the other guy....the husband is the one who should be pissed off. I think you knew what the score was...on some level if not outright.

I hate the filthy pirate hooker in my story.

It appears YOU were the cheater.

Wait so you're the guy she cheated with and now that she pulled away from you, you're upset?

When you go into that situation you take it for what it is.

and before I forget....


Dude. Abide. with her decision.

Sounds like a great way to get shot.