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ClevelandBronco 05-14-2010 09:08 AM

WTF were the parents of these little girls thinking?
 
Heard about this on the radio a few minutes ago. Apparently the video has gone viral and the rest of us are feeling a little better about our imperfect parenting skills.

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Donger 05-14-2010 09:12 AM

Are you sure those are little girls? They look like midgets to me.

ToxSocks 05-14-2010 09:15 AM

Child Molesters dream come true. Congrats you ****ing reeruned parents, not only are you encouraging your daughters to dress and dance like whores, you're giving pedo's around the world something to fap to.

joesomebody 05-14-2010 09:17 AM

Besides what is obviously wrong with this video, there is also the fact that these poor kids probably have no life.

I can't imagine how many hours went in to learning all that crap. Let kids be kids... not forced to learn reeruned dance moves.

gblowfish 05-14-2010 09:20 AM

The parents of these kids are probably of the same voting bloc that wants to make sure all the Strip Clubs in Missouri are closed. Pole dancing is only for eight year olds!

Buck 05-14-2010 09:20 AM

JFC.

Isn't there some kind of decency code at these dancing events?

Sofa King 05-14-2010 09:21 AM

REPOST!!!

i already had this posted in the EPIC FAIL thread... where it belongs...


9 year olds BTW...


EDIT: http://www.chiefsplanet.com/BB/showt...85997&page=463 link with original music and some background..

ClevelandBronco 05-14-2010 09:21 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by joesomebody (Post 6758223)
Besides what is obviously wrong with this video, there is also the fact that these poor kids probably have no life.

I can't imagine how many hours went in to learning all that crap. Let kids be kids... not forced to learn reeruned dance moves.

Tiger sacrificed his childhood for golf.

Think about the advantage these girls will have when it comes to getting a job working the pole.

Not in Missouri, of course.

ClevelandBronco 05-14-2010 09:22 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Sofa King (Post 6758234)
REPOST!!!

i already had this posted in the EPIC FAIL thread... where it belongs...

Damn right.

Quote:

9 year olds BTW...
:shake:

Discuss Thrower 05-14-2010 09:25 AM

Sometimes I doubt your commitment to Sparkle Motion.

The Franchise 05-14-2010 09:26 AM

These are the parents.

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:facepalm:

Donger 05-14-2010 09:29 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Pestilence (Post 6758253)
These are the parents.

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:facepalm:

Wearing lingerie is the standard costume for this "activity"? What exactly is "this activity"?

The Franchise 05-14-2010 09:30 AM

Yep....they got it from the Alvin and the Chipmunks movie. Oh....by the way....this is the scene they're referring too. It looks NOTHING like what these 9 year old girls were doing.

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Saulbadguy 05-14-2010 09:30 AM

They are terrible dancers. They should quit.

ClevelandBronco 05-14-2010 09:33 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Pestilence (Post 6758253)
These are the parents.

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:facepalm:

The mother: "I'm shocked about what people are saying about eight- and nine-year-old girls."

No, bitch. We're saying it about you.

The father: "They don't really know what they're doing..."

No kidding, putz. They're children. Knowing what they're doing is your job.

ClevelandBronco 05-14-2010 09:35 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Pestilence (Post 6758264)
Yep....they got it from the Alvin and the Chipmunks movie. Oh....by the way....this is the scene they're referring too. It looks NOTHING like what these 9 year old girls were doing.

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That looks like a cheerleader routine.

The Franchise 05-14-2010 09:37 AM

And for anyone who hasn't seen the Beyonce video. Here....

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Yeahhhhhh.....the girl's dance routine looks NOTHING like this video. :rolleyes:

sedated 05-14-2010 09:37 AM

nothing but passed-their-prime soccer moms living out their dreams through their helpless daughters.

Predarat 05-14-2010 09:39 AM

My gosh I know sometimes I sound like a prude, but this kind of crap has been going on for ahwile and keeps getting worse. This is ****ing awful. These pop culture slutty artists combined with crappy parents is worse then fuel and a match. It gets worse and worse, Spice Girls, Brittney Spears, Agualara, BEPs/Fergie, whoever sings that clap your hands song, Myley Cyrus. I always said if I had a daughter id be in jail by the time she is 14 for shooting some guy but now it looks like I have to change that to 9 and it may get younger. Holy hell.

ClevelandBronco 05-14-2010 09:39 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by sedated (Post 6758287)
nothing but passed-their-prime soccer moms living out their dreams through their helpless daughters.

Ah, the lost dream of being a ho.

kc rush 05-14-2010 09:41 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Pestilence (Post 6758264)
Yep....they got it from the Alvin and the Chipmunks movie. Oh....by the way....this is the scene they're referring too. It looks NOTHING like what these 9 year old girls were doing.


Those slutty chipmunks are clearly setting a bad example for our youth. Burn 'em.

ToxSocks 05-14-2010 09:44 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by kc rush (Post 6758303)
Those slutty chipmunks are clearly setting a bad example for our youth. Burn 'em.

****ing whores!

Chiefs Rool 05-14-2010 09:46 AM

I want to punch that bundle of sticks father in the face

Deberg_1990 05-14-2010 09:48 AM

These girls will be chugging vodka at parties in another 4 or 5 years.

RJ 05-14-2010 09:54 AM

Wow. That is ****ed up beyond words. I can't even imagine what would those girl's parents could be thinking.

Mr. Plow 05-14-2010 10:00 AM

Showed my wife these videos. She was a dancer much like these girls at the same age. She didn't find it as inappropriate as I did. I calmly explained to her that in no way shape or form will our daughter being wearing shit like that nor dancing like that.

Donger 05-14-2010 10:11 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by RJ (Post 6758331)
Wow. That is ****ed up beyond words. I can't even imagine what would those girl's parents could be thinking.

Probably something along the lines of: "Gee, it's really hard to think about stuff at the same time as maintaining my autonomous bodily functions!"

Demonpenz 05-14-2010 10:20 AM

i will be paying for their welfare soon

Predarat 05-14-2010 10:27 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Demonpenz (Post 6758412)
i will be paying for their welfare soon

Them and their x amount of x kids holy crap.

CosmicPal 05-14-2010 10:27 AM

It's like watching midget strippers.

ClevelandBronco 05-14-2010 10:28 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by CosmicPal (Post 6758433)
It's like watching midget strippers.

I have some concerns about you and Donger.

kepp 05-14-2010 10:43 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Demonpenz (Post 6758412)
i will be paying for their welfare soon

Ouch...that's probably true.

BigRichard 05-14-2010 10:48 AM

Those girls were amazing dancers. The outfits are a bit over the top though.

patteeu 05-14-2010 10:59 AM

I don't have a problem with the dancing. I have a little problem with the costumes although in a different context I'd be OK with them even for 9 year olds. I have a big problem with the song they used (not with the song itself, but with playing it for kids, much more for using it for the basis of this dance routine).

Rausch 05-14-2010 12:17 PM

Uh, we'll still need strippers in 15 years...

ToxSocks 05-14-2010 12:18 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Rausch (Post 6758693)
Uh, we'll still need strippers in 15 years...

Not in MO

Mr. Laz 05-14-2010 12:25 PM

Talented dancers ... they are pretty good for that young.


you would think that an adult involved would decide they should be dressed like 9 year olds though. :shake:

mikeyis4dcats. 05-14-2010 12:29 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by patteeu (Post 6758525)
I don't have a problem with the dancing. I have a little problem with the costumes although in a different context I'd be OK with them even for 9 year olds. I have a big problem with the song they used (not with the song itself, but with playing it for kids, much more for using it for the basis of this dance routine).

if you paid a shred of attention you would know that the song in the youtube is NOT the song they danced to.

The Franchise 05-14-2010 12:33 PM

Can we delete this thread before Hootie finds it and then proceeds to go blind.

KevB 05-14-2010 12:54 PM

My daughter dances competitively, and this isn't all that unusual. It's a bit more over the top in terms of costume/song/moves, but where do you guys think college dance team participants come from? Are all of them going to be strippers too? In the same way that boys are more and more competitive at younger ages in sports, girls in dance, gymnastics, etc. are the same. It's hard to find the line that is too over the top IMO. My daughter hasn't gotten close to the point of this video, but I've seen some along these lines and while it bothers me, where's the line? In terms of working to get better -someone mentioned the amount of work this would take - again, where's the line? Is it one night a week? 4 nights? When your child loves what she's doing and wants to practice and get better....how much is too much?

I'm curious how many that have commented have children around this age? I'm not criticizing everyone's opinion by any means, and I agree with many. But as a parent in this day and age, these are some of the things that we're challenged with and it's not an easy gig.

ToxSocks 05-14-2010 12:58 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by KevB (Post 6758804)
My daughter dances competitively, and this isn't all that unusual. It's a bit more over the top in terms of costume/song/moves, but where do you guys think college dance team participants come from? Are all of them going to be strippers too? In the same way that boys are more and more competitive at younger ages in sports, girls in dance, gymnastics, etc. are the same. It's hard to find the line that is too over the top IMO. My daughter hasn't gotten close to the point of this video, but I've seen some along these lines and while it bothers me, where's the line? In terms of working to get better -someone mentioned the amount of work this would take - again, where's the line? Is it one night a week? 4 nights? When your child loves what she's doing and wants to practice and get better....how much is too much?

I'm curious how many that have commented have children around this age? I'm not criticizing everyone's opinion by any means, and I agree with many. But as a parent in this day and age, these are some of the things that we're challenged with and it's not an easy gig.

It's not the dancing so much as it is what they are wearing. Little girls are dancing like that now-a-days.....it doesn't make it right IMO, but it's becoming the norm. Those moves, those costumes, IMO, are teaching girls at an early age to exploit their sexuality.

What they are wearing, which is essentially lingerie for midgets, is what sets it over the top.

googlegoogle 05-14-2010 01:02 PM

With real audio. Young Girls Do Beyonce's 'Single Ladies' (VIDEO)

Pitt Gorilla 05-14-2010 01:04 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by KevB (Post 6758804)
My daughter dances competitively, and this isn't all that unusual. It's a bit more over the top in terms of costume/song/moves, but where do you guys think college dance team participants come from? Are all of them going to be strippers too? In the same way that boys are more and more competitive at younger ages in sports, girls in dance, gymnastics, etc. are the same. It's hard to find the line that is too over the top IMO. My daughter hasn't gotten close to the point of this video, but I've seen some along these lines and while it bothers me, where's the line? In terms of working to get better -someone mentioned the amount of work this would take - again, where's the line? Is it one night a week? 4 nights? When your child loves what she's doing and wants to practice and get better....how much is too much?

I'm curious how many that have commented have children around this age? I'm not criticizing everyone's opinion by any means, and I agree with many. But as a parent in this day and age, these are some of the things that we're challenged with and it's not an easy gig.

THAT crossed the line. It doesn't matter exactly where the line is when it's clear that something has jumped far across it.

ClevelandBronco 05-14-2010 01:06 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by KevB (Post 6758804)
My daughter dances competitively, and this isn't all that unusual. It's a bit more over the top in terms of costume/song/moves, but where do you guys think college dance team participants come from? Are all of them going to be strippers too? In the same way that boys are more and more competitive at younger ages in sports, girls in dance, gymnastics, etc. are the same. It's hard to find the line that is too over the top IMO. My daughter hasn't gotten close to the point of this video, but I've seen some along these lines and while it bothers me, where's the line? In terms of working to get better -someone mentioned the amount of work this would take - again, where's the line? Is it one night a week? 4 nights? When your child loves what she's doing and wants to practice and get better....how much is too much?

I'm curious how many that have commented have children around this age? I'm not criticizing everyone's opinion by any means, and I agree with many. But as a parent in this day and age, these are some of the things that we're challenged with and it's not an easy gig.

I have an eight-year-old daughter. There's no way on God's green earth I'd allow her to be sexualized in this way or any other.

Mr. Laz 05-14-2010 01:14 PM

put them in a full type body suit and eliminate a few of those "grind squats" or whatever and there isn't a problem imo.

the real song is Beyonce singing "Single Ladies" put a ring on it blah,blah,blah

and the kids were clearly trying to dance like Beyonce

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once again, if an adult would of just toned it down just a bit(dress,hips) it would of be almost exactly the same without all the "sexual" overtones.

Omaha 05-14-2010 01:14 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Sofa King (Post 6758234)
REPOST!!!

i already had this posted in the EPIC FAIL thread... where it belongs...


Yes! Well said! I feel dirty for watching it.

Mr. Laz 05-14-2010 01:26 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Omaha (Post 6758856)
Yes! Well said! I feel dirty for watching it.

you shouldn't feel dirty unless you actually had sexual thoughts :spock:

i watched it and it didn't look sexy at all to me inappropriate for girls so young but not sexy ... no "dirty" feelings here.


so lets discuss your relationship with your mother ....

http://www.boxturtlebulletin.com/btb...gmundfreud.jpg

ClevelandBronco 05-14-2010 01:30 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Laz (Post 6758878)
you shouldn't feel dirty unless you actually had sexual thoughts :spock:

i watched it and it didn't look sexy at all to me inappropriate for girls so young but not sexy ... no "dirty" feelings here.


so lets discuss your relationship with your mother ....

http://www.boxturtlebulletin.com/btb...gmundfreud.jpg

Bullshit.

ClevelandBronco 05-14-2010 01:32 PM

Sometimes a cigar is just a cigar, but a nine-year-old slut is always a shame to her parents.

ArrowheadHawk 05-14-2010 01:34 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Buck (Post 6758233)
JFC.

Isn't there some kind of decency code at these dancing events?

Apparently not. My daughter is in competition dance and I am amazed at some of the costumes that parents let their kids wear. My daughters studio doesn't allow the midriff to show. And I wouldn't let my daughter wear anything that did. Some people are fuggin reeruned.

Predarat 05-14-2010 01:35 PM

I bet Kayne West likes that video.

Param 05-14-2010 01:36 PM

I don't see a problem with it. Girls looked like they were having fun doing the dance routine.

ArrowheadHawk 05-14-2010 01:36 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by KevB (Post 6758804)
My daughter dances competitively, and this isn't all that unusual. It's a bit more over the top in terms of costume/song/moves, but where do you guys think college dance team participants come from? Are all of them going to be strippers too? In the same way that boys are more and more competitive at younger ages in sports, girls in dance, gymnastics, etc. are the same. It's hard to find the line that is too over the top IMO. My daughter hasn't gotten close to the point of this video, but I've seen some along these lines and while it bothers me, where's the line? In terms of working to get better -someone mentioned the amount of work this would take - again, where's the line? Is it one night a week? 4 nights? When your child loves what she's doing and wants to practice and get better....how much is too much?

I'm curious how many that have commented have children around this age? I'm not criticizing everyone's opinion by any means, and I agree with many. But as a parent in this day and age, these are some of the things that we're challenged with and it's not an easy gig.

As I mentioned about my daughter is also in competetive dance and their team doesn't dance or dress like hoochies.

ToxSocks 05-14-2010 01:37 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Predarat (Post 6758899)
I bet Kayne West likes that video.

Cha-Ching

The Franchise 05-14-2010 01:37 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Param (Post 6758900)
I don't see a problem with it. Girls looked like they were having fun doing the dance routine.

:spock:

Blindside58 05-14-2010 01:39 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by KevB (Post 6758804)
My daughter dances competitively, and this isn't all that unusual. It's a bit more over the top in terms of costume/song/moves, but where do you guys think college dance team participants come from? Are all of them going to be strippers too? In the same way that boys are more and more competitive at younger ages in sports, girls in dance, gymnastics, etc. are the same. It's hard to find the line that is too over the top IMO. My daughter hasn't gotten close to the point of this video, but I've seen some along these lines and while it bothers me, where's the line? In terms of working to get better -someone mentioned the amount of work this would take - again, where's the line? Is it one night a week? 4 nights? When your child loves what she's doing and wants to practice and get better....how much is too much?

I'm curious how many that have commented have children around this age? I'm not criticizing everyone's opinion by any means, and I agree with many. But as a parent in this day and age, these are some of the things that we're challenged with and it's not an easy gig.

I agree

I am a dance dad as well of a competitive 8 year old. The outfits are definitely the worst part of the entire routine, and there are minimally 3 large studios in KC that put kids out there dressed like this all the time. Also, there are at least 50 competitions going on every weekend Nationwide (at least 1 every weekend in KC) with 500 to 1000 entries that have routines like this one (over 50,000 kids every weekend). My daughters instructor will not allow costumes like these because he is a parent as well.

My daughter is not forced to do what she loves and yes she spends about 12-15 hours a week in a studio with her "Extended" family of dancers/parents just like travel baseball/football team parents. If she even once murmered or complained about it, she would be pulled out and we would try something else at her request.

Believe it or not most of the dancers that want to grow up and be professional do not become strippers, they start out traveling the world as cruise ship performers or performing and traveling the world in Dora, Sesame street shows or back-ups to singers, even places like the Branson strip shows making $600-$1000 week at 18-21 years old with all meals and lodging paid. that is not to bad of a living to start out.

ClevelandBronco 05-14-2010 01:44 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Param (Post 6758900)
I don't see a problem with it. Girls looked like they were having fun doing the dance routine.

I don't see a problem with the girls. They're children. I see a big problem with the parents — including, it appears, you.

But it's your ho. Raise her as you see fit. As long as she's having fun.

ArrowheadHawk 05-14-2010 01:45 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Blindside58 (Post 6758907)
I agree

I am a dance dad as well of a competitive 8 year old. The outfits are definitely the worst part of the entire routine, and there are minimally 3 large studios in KC that put kids out there dressed like this all the time. Also, there are at least 50 competitions going on every weekend Nationwide (at least 1 every weekend in KC) with 500 to 1000 entries that have routines like this one (over 50,000 kids every weekend). My daughters instructor will not allow costumes like these because he is a parent as well.

My daughter is not forced to do what she loves and yes she spends about 12-15 hours a week in a studio with her "Extended" family of dancers/parents just like travel baseball/football team parents. If she even once murmered or complained about it, she would be pulled out and we would try something else at her request.

Believe it or not most of the dancers that want to grow up and be professional do not become strippers, they start out traveling the world as cruise ship performers or performing and traveling the world in Dora, Sesame street shows or back-ups to singers, even places like the Branson strip shows making $600-$1000 week at 18-21 years old with all meals and lodging paid. that is not to bad of a living to start out.

Props to a fellow Dance Dad. I was at a competition in Overland Park last weekend and got suckered onto the stage by my daughter. We did a dance off. That was embarrasing considering I have no dance knowledge. But my daughter and her friends thought I was the coolest Dad in the world. So it was rewarding.

Donger 05-14-2010 01:45 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Param (Post 6758900)
I don't see a problem with it. Girls looked like they were having fun doing the dance routine.

You don't have a problem with 9 year old girls wearing lingerie on stage?

Blindside58 05-14-2010 01:54 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by ArrowheadHawk (Post 6758915)
Props to a fellow Dance Dad. I was at a competition in Overland Park last weekend and got suckered onto the stage by my daughter. We did a dance off. That was embarrasing considering I have no dance knowledge. But my daughter and her friends thought I was the coolest Dad in the world. So it was rewarding.


Props back to ya'
Funny thing, I was there as well and watched you 3 dads "do your thing", nice work! were you the guy who flipped and stumbled back into the kids?

KevB 05-14-2010 01:56 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by ArrowheadHawk (Post 6758915)
Props to a fellow Dance Dad. I was at a competition in Overland Park last weekend and got suckered onto the stage by my daughter. We did a dance off. That was embarrasing considering I have no dance knowledge. But my daughter and her friends thought I was the coolest Dad in the world. So it was rewarding.

I was at the same competition, although by the dad dance off, I'd taken my son and daughter home. I was there the next day to watch the mom's dance off however....funny stuff.

RJ 05-14-2010 02:20 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by KevB (Post 6758804)
I'm curious how many that have commented have children around this age? I'm not criticizing everyone's opinion by any means, and I agree with many. But as a parent in this day and age, these are some of the things that we're challenged with and it's not an easy gig.


I have a daughter who turned 7 yesterday and I can say without doubt that there is no way I would allow her to dance or dress like those little girls. It's completely inappropriate, IMO.

And you're right Kev, it's not an easy gig. We each have to make what we think are the best decisions for our own families.

Fish 05-14-2010 02:20 PM

It has nothing at all to do with how much time these little girls commit to dancing. It has everything to do with what they are wearing and the sexuality they are projecting in the dance. It's not difficult at all to allow them to dance to their fullest without looking like little hookers. 8 and 9 year old girls can be taught to dance without the need to hump the air repeatedly through the routine while wearing lacy lingerie.

Quite sexualizing your children......

patteeu 05-14-2010 02:23 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by mikeyis4dcats. (Post 6758752)
if you paid a shred of attention you would know that the song in the youtube is NOT the song they danced to.

It hadn't been mentioned in the thread so my position is that it requires more than a mere shred of attention to uncover that fact. I appreciate you paying the close attention and being there for me though. What song did they dance to? If it was more age appropriate, then I don't have any problem with this dance routine or the parents.

Edit: I see now that the name of the song has been mentioned, just so I'm not falsely accused of not paying attention again.

patteeu 05-14-2010 02:32 PM

Who knew I was such a loose and permissive dad? I really don't see a problem with this dance, including the costumes as long as the song is appropriate. I guess I didn't really notice any overly sexualized gyrations. Maybe I'm just not a pervert. :shrug: :p

ArrowheadHawk 05-14-2010 02:39 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Blindside58 (Post 6758943)
Props back to ya'
Funny thing, I was there as well and watched you 3 dads "do your thing", nice work! were you the guy who flipped and stumbled back into the kids?

Yes that was me. It was more of a cartwheel than a flip though. I'm pretty sure I should have won but the other guy had more fan support.

DumbHillbillies 05-14-2010 02:42 PM

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Originally Posted by patteeu (Post 6759092)
Who knew I was such a loose and permissive dad? I really don't see a problem with this dance, including the costumes as long as the song is appropriate. I guess I didn't really notice any overly sexualized gyrations. Maybe I'm just not a pervert. :shrug: :p

This. I don't really see any sexuality associated with the dance or the outfits because they're are just little girls to me.

Fish 05-14-2010 02:50 PM

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Originally Posted by patteeu (Post 6759092)
Who knew I was such a loose and permissive dad? I really don't see a problem with this dance, including the costumes as long as the song is appropriate. I guess I didn't really notice any overly sexualized gyrations. Maybe I'm just not a pervert. :shrug: :p

Go ahead and pat yourself on the back for your lack of pedo-thoughts. Meanwhile, that guy over there in the trench coat just got curly toes watching your daughter dance in lingerie.

patteeu 05-14-2010 02:57 PM

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Originally Posted by KC Fish (Post 6759178)
Go ahead and pat yourself on the back for your lack of pedo-thoughts. Meanwhile, that guy over there in the trench coat just got curly toes watching your daughter dance in lingerie.

I'll take your word for it. On the other hand, I'd bet a pedophile can get off to a simple yearbook picture. Tell me if I'm wrong.

Donger 05-14-2010 03:03 PM

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Originally Posted by DumbHillbillies (Post 6759136)
This. I don't really see any sexuality associated with the dance or the outfits because they're are just little girls to me.

What is the purpose of lingerie, beyond the fact that it's just underwear?

Fish 05-14-2010 03:10 PM

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Originally Posted by patteeu (Post 6759199)
I'll take your word for it. On the other hand, I'd bet a pedophile can get off to a simple yearbook picture. Tell me if I'm wrong.

Possibly. But the fact that there are less dangerous alternatives doesn't change the situation though. No different than saying that a murderer could maybe be placated by playing violent video games instead of actually murdering people. I doubt that really prevents any murders though. Or in this case, it doesn't prevent pedophiles from ogling little girls dressed in lingerie.

Omaha 05-14-2010 03:16 PM

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Originally Posted by Laz (Post 6758878)
you shouldn't feel dirty unless you actually had sexual thoughts :spock:

i watched it and it didn't look sexy at all to me inappropriate for girls so young but not sexy ... no "dirty" feelings here.


so lets discuss your relationship with your mother ....

http://www.boxturtlebulletin.com/btb...gmundfreud.jpg

Maybe creepy is a better word. The girls are wearing lingerie & doing stripper moves. That's not cool.

Predarat 05-14-2010 03:18 PM

If any of these girls make it to 87, I bet they will be selling crack.

ArrowheadHawk 05-14-2010 03:20 PM

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Originally Posted by Predarat (Post 6759257)
If any of these girls make it to 87, I bet they will be selling crack.

They definitely won't be stripping in MO.

ToxSocks 05-14-2010 04:13 PM

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patteeu 05-14-2010 05:41 PM

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Originally Posted by Donger (Post 6759213)
What is the purpose of lingerie, beyond the fact that it's just underwear?

Meh. That "lingerie" wouldn't even pass as a bikini swim suit these days unless it were worn by a grandma. In fact, it's more like the style of bikini typically worn in the 50's and 60's.

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Originally Posted by KC Fish (Post 6759234)
Possibly. But the fact that there are less dangerous alternatives doesn't change the situation though. No different than saying that a murderer could maybe be placated by playing violent video games instead of actually murdering people. I doubt that really prevents any murders though. Or in this case, it doesn't prevent pedophiles from ogling little girls dressed in lingerie.

That doesn't seem like a very good analogy to me. No one is placating or facilitating anything here. Perhaps if our girls wore something like this we could avoid having to imagine the possibility of perverts whacking off to them.

http://operationitch.files.wordpress...9/06/burka.jpg

listopencil 05-14-2010 05:47 PM

Just thought I'd chime in here. When my daughters were 10 years old...they were playing football. Tackle football. In pads. OT, OG, DE and LB. They kicked ass, by the way. Never left the house looking like sluts either.

RedNFeisty 05-14-2010 06:19 PM

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Originally Posted by patteeu (Post 6759045)
It hadn't been mentioned in the thread so my position is that it requires more than a mere shred of attention to uncover that fact. I appreciate you paying the close attention and being there for me though. What song did they dance to? If it was more age appropriate, then I don't have any problem with this dance routine or the parents.

Edit: I see now that the name of the song has been mentioned, just so I'm not falsely accused of not paying attention again.

Man, why don't you pay attention once in a while. We're sick of repeating ourselves. Loser!! lol LMAO:p

I won't even let my daughter wear a bikini! Nor will she until she is over 18!! Lucky for me she is a football tackling dummy and loves every second of it, however, she is only three...lol

sandynme 05-14-2010 06:44 PM

IF THERE IS GRASS ON THE FIELD,IF THERE IS NO GRASS,GO MUDDING!

ElGringo 05-14-2010 06:47 PM

Okay, took some time, but watched the vid....gotta agree with some, don't see a real problem with it. I think they are practicing for possibly something they will be applauded for doing in school. I know if this was a video of high school girls doing the same thing (maybe a bit more polished) they would be applauded for their work, this is where they start. My ex-stepdaughter was a gymnast, and had to wear outfits that showed more leg (though not the midriff that apparently is a hotbutton for a lot of people) from age 6 or 7. Is it bait for pervs? Yes it is, but any summer day at the pool is just as good for them.


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