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My wife is in the hospital tonight. I'm home with the kids. Started off with my wife getting ill in July, and losing 40 lbs from then until now. Today, she endured the scopes, both ends. We're waiting on biopsies, and trying to reduce an infection in her colon. Could be cancer, there are perforations from the lower intestine into her abdomen. Most likely she's going to require a removal of big piece of her lower intestine.

I'm a ****ing mess right now. I'm trying to keep my kids focused on positive outcomes. I spent 31 years of my life waiting for a woman like her to come into my life. I haven't been this scared since the Doc told me I had cancer in 1983. Whatever you've got on the positive side, I'm not afraid to ask tonghti.

prayers sent.

You got it.

Prayers sent your way, stay strong

Crones disease maybe?

Hope she's alright, my man. Prayers sent.

Thoughts and Prayers sent your way.

Thinking of you, man. Hang in there.

Coming your way .

You got it, brother. Stay strong, and give my best to your better half.

Good luck to her, my friend.

Keeping a brave face for the kids can be tough. Best wishes...stay positive.

Prayers sent.

Hang in there, buddy. Prayers sent your way.

prayers sent

Best of luck to your wife, I'll add her to my prayers tonight. Stay strong for the kids and know that if it is cancer, modern treatment has come a long way. We've recently dealt with it and won the battle.

Prayers out to you and the family. This sounds very similar to what my sister experienced. She ended up having Crohn's. Prayers for something minor and treatable and a quick recovery. I wouldn't wish cancer or crohns on anyone.

Prayers sent.

prayers braincase!

Prayers and positive thoughts are going your way tonight, my friend. Here's to the good doctors fixing her right up and her being home healthy in no time.

Positive thoughts heading your way.

Thoughts and prayers sent.

Sorry to hear...hang in there buddy!

Sorry man, hoping for the best!

Prayers sent. Hang in there and stay strong.

Prayers and thoughts your way.

Prayers sent.

Dude, you got it.

Prayers sent. Hope all has a good outcome

Prayed and will pray!

Its so easy to feel the immediacy of your words, man... hang on and don't let the kids get too worked up.

Your family will be in my prayers, no doubt.

Will be praying for your family.

i hope it's not this. that's a bad mo fo.

positive thoughts sent your way.

Prayers sent.

Best wishes for your wife. Now's the time to be the rock for the family. Bruised, battered but never beaten.

You're first quality, bro. Good things happen for good people. She'll be good as new very soon. But just in case overconfidence doesn't work, I will speak with the big Man about this issue tonight.

Yikes. :(

Wishing for the best for her.

Done buddy, all my best to you and your wife.

Prayers sent. I really don't have words to convey my sentiment. May god bless you and your family as you go through this. Hold on to the love brother.

Been there done that. Hope all the best

Done man.

Be strong for your kids. They need you.

Prayers for you and your family, man. So sorry to hear what she is going through.

Prayers, I hope everything works out.

**** that's how it started with my mom i'm so sorry to hear this. Prayers with your wife and family.

That's a shame man....Prayers being said.

God speed.



It's all going work out buddy. I can't tell you don't fret but hang in there best you can and it will all be ok.

Prayers sent.

You know, when all is said and done, your wife being a freakin' genious on the magnitude of a shark with laser beams will invent something that will make this easier for everyone else who goes through this too....

Prayers sent for your wife and your family....
Hang in there with positive energy!!

I hope your wife has a swift recovery and positive outcome.

All the best to yourself, your wife, and your family.

Ben there and gone there that.... A few times... With my wife... PM me if needed. Hope all is going well.

BC, good luck to her, you and the kids.

Prayers sent.

May you and your wife find the strength to endure, Braincase...now's the time to throw the family on your back and carry them for awhile.

Best wishes for the best possible outcome.

Best wishes for your wife, you, and the kids. Hope all turns out OK.

Prayers being sent early and often.

wow -- hang in there bud -- prayers for you & yours

Prayers to your wife and family.

Prayers your way man.

Our thoughts and prayers are with you!

Hang in there, Braincase. I'll keep your wife in my thoughts today. Good luck.

Son off to a wrestling tournament, time to head up to the hospital. Time for another talk with the docs and find where we're at with surgery prospects. Y'know, this shit sure is a lot easier to deal with when it's happening to me instead of someone I love.

Thanks for the support, fellas.

Thoughts and prayers go out to your wife, your kids and to you man. Hang in there BC!

Yes.

Good thoughts dude. You and your loved ones are special to us here at the planet.

Just like your cancer was handled so can this.

Hope for the best.

Sorry to hear this. Been thru a few surgeries with the wife in that area and my dad as well. PM me if needed. My sister-law has beat 2 rounds of cancer in that area.

Best wishes to everything turning out fine.

prayers sent and good thoughts may your family have peace.

Prayers sent. Prayer is the most powerful force in this universe.

That is the truth.

We're bringing her home. Looks like we might've dodged cancer, but we're waiting on biopsies. Based on what we know, she has diverticulitis. Apparently, she had a polyp in her lower intestine rupture, then get infected. The antibiotics are helping. We're going to schedule surgery to have a resection and removal of that part of her colon. They want the antibiotics to reduce the infection as much as possible before the procedure.

Thanks all for the positive thoughts and prayers. It means a lot to my family and me.

prayers still coming glad she is ok

I hope everything continues to be as positive as possible.

Dad had the exact same thing in July. He's fine!

Took a couple weeks to feel right, but it's all good once everything heals up!

God bless ya, BC. We'll be praying for your Family.

Hope everything works out and she's back on her feet soon. Hang in there and keep the good thought.

Wife has gone to the hospital for surgery. They're putting her under at 10:30. We moved her procedure up from Jan 14 to today due to the amount of pain she was in, but it created a conflict for me at work. I'll be leaving my office at 11:30 and hopefully get to the hospital as she goes into recovery. Hoping that this one operation can resolve the problem, but the docs are taking a wait and see approach.

Wanted to thank all of you for the support.

good luck dude.

Thanks for the update.

Keep us posted. Will keep you and her and the kids in my thoughts.

Sorry I missed this the first time. A prayer has been sent up for your wife for a successful surgery and quick recovery.

Good luck, Braincase.