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DaFace 12-03-2014 07:48 PM

Is this firing justified?
 
For the five of you who know who he is, Adrian Dater, the beat writer for Avalanche hockey for the Denver Post since 1994, was fired today for being creepy to a girl on Twitter. You can check out the posts on her account here if you'd like, but the key screenshots she posted were these:

Post from May 2013 where he comments about her profile photo:


Post from October 2013 where he basically says she's not worth debating because she's a woman:


Recent post where he asks for an uncropped version of her (already suggestive) profile photo:


The interwebs seem to think that he's an evil bastard who deserves everything coming to him, but I honestly have trouble feeling like the guy should have been FIRED for this. So I figured I'd ask the undoubtedly female friendly CP how you all feel to get some perspective. ;)

SAUTO 12-03-2014 07:51 PM

The first two spoilers are the same thing

BucEyedPea 12-03-2014 07:54 PM

It's ridiculous. A man can't say anything anymore.

DaFace 12-03-2014 07:59 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by JASONSAUTO (Post 11164846)
The first two spoilers are the same thing

Fixed.

The Franchise 12-03-2014 08:02 PM

That's not worth being fired for.

alnorth 12-03-2014 08:03 PM

The only thing that is relevant to me is the last tweet on the second spoiler. You just can't say that and expect to keep your job, especially when you work for a newspaper, which is a struggling business anyway. It doesn't matter whether you think he "deserves" to be fired or not, letting this moron go is the correct business decision. A newspaper can't afford protests and boycots.

SPchief 12-03-2014 08:04 PM

link to the supposed photo?

The Franchise 12-03-2014 08:05 PM

What was the "suggestive" picture he wanted?

DaFace 12-03-2014 08:05 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by SPchief (Post 11164878)
link to the supposed photo?

http://i.imgur.com/VE9a1ak.jpg

Bearcat 12-03-2014 08:05 PM

Looks like that was just a few of many things that got him fired.

SPchief 12-03-2014 08:06 PM

Yeah, I'm going to agree with AL here. Telling someone you aren't going to argue with a woman, even if he means it literally, that he doesn't argue with women, still gives off bad pub.

cdcox 12-03-2014 08:07 PM

In the workplace, or when representing my employer, I find it best to pretend that all humans are asexual beings. Also, the worth of someone's opinion should not depend on their membership in one social group or another.

kstater 12-03-2014 08:09 PM

Eh, there's probably some hr warning at some point where he was told to back off

BucEyedPea 12-03-2014 08:10 PM

Ah, I didn't see the photo. That is until now.

Now, I think he should have been warned or disciplined—not sure about firing him.

Rain Man 12-03-2014 08:11 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by cdcox (Post 11164887)
In the workplace, or when representing my employer, I find it best to pretend that all humans are asexual beings. Also, the worth of someone's opinion should not depend on their membership in one social group or another.

I don't even know the genders of the people who work with me.

Rain Man 12-03-2014 08:12 PM

So did somebody complain? And if so, was it the woman tweeter or someone else?

listopencil 12-03-2014 08:12 PM

My answer isn't part of the poll: It's a private media company that is justified in terminating its employees if management decides that this person isn't representing their company appropriately. Either the company will suffer because the public responds negatively to the move, or the company is enriched because the public responds positively to the move. Either he will suffer because he diminished his worth in the marketplace, or he will be enriched because he increased his worth in the marketplace. Que sera, sera.

Bugeater 12-03-2014 08:12 PM

Hard to say, the guy may have some other history of being creepy to women. Wonder if he ever got the pic.

The Franchise 12-03-2014 08:13 PM

I know it doesn't change anything....but go check out the rest of her twitter pictures. Low cut tops....exposing cleavage.

Plus....what was with the "Good! Glad you liked it" when he first commented on the picture?

Baby Lee 12-03-2014 08:18 PM

None of the choices encapsulate my opinion. I'm presuming an at will employment state, which nearly closes the book on the matter. But further, hitting on people in the workplace is henke enough. Doing it so you leave a record is playing with fire. Dismissing her opinion based on her gender isn't something I'd document either.

Put me in 'it's their prerogative' column.

alnorth 12-03-2014 08:22 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by listopencil (Post 11164897)
My answer isn't part of the poll: It's a private media company that is justified in terminating its employees if management decides that this person isn't representing their company appropriately. Either the company will suffer because the public responds negatively to the move, or the company is enriched because the public responds positively to the move. Either he will suffer because he diminished his worth in the marketplace, or he will be enriched because he increased his worth in the marketplace. Que sera, sera.

I negotiated this dilemma by taking morality out of it and just looked at it from the standpoint of the employer. Would the employer be harmed by retaining this employee? If so, then I think its justified.

Bearcat 12-03-2014 08:22 PM

There's clearly more to it...

https://www.facebook.com/adriandater...89?pnref=story

Quote:

Friends
My long association with the Post came to an end today. That's a really bad thing to have to write, but it's reality.
I said a bunch of stupid things on social media once too often. It was unprofessional and I paid the price.
Social media and I were always going to be a dangerous mix. I'm opinionated and have the occasional real hot temper.
But my problems were deeper than that.
I've had some pretty bad substance abuse problems. Every single time I got myself in trouble with my mouth, substances helped play a role, probably a big one.
I tried to deny it was a big problem but it obviously was and is.
A lifestyle of a lot of late nights away from home in lonely hotel rooms and a stressful lifestyle at times kind of caught up with me. I used too many wrong things as coping mechanisms. I also have dealt with manic depression for years and when the real dark moods come over me I tend to do things to hurt myself more. I don't want these to be used as excuses or to win sympathy. But I'm just adding explanations of what I've had problems with.
I do believe some things said about me recently in accusatory manners is totally false, with people misrepresenting things. Some things that have been written about one incident are completely wrong.
But the bottom line is I caused my own problems and have to own them.
I've been seeking more in-depth help for some of my problems and if I could ask for one thing, it's that you hope for the best that I can.
I know I'm a good person down deep, but greatly flawed.
It was my pleasure writing on the Avalanche for 20 years for a great paper. Nobody can take those memories away.
I love my family and the No. 1 thing I need to do is try and make them proud of me again.
I'm so sorry I let people down. I hope to some day write a happier comeback story for you to read.
Adrian

cdcox 12-03-2014 08:26 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Bearcat (Post 11164918)

Refreshing honesty. I wish him the best.

BucEyedPea 12-03-2014 08:26 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Pestilence (Post 11164900)
I know it doesn't change anything....but go check out the rest of her twitter pictures. Low cut tops....exposing cleavage.

Plus....what was with the "Good! Glad you liked it" when he first commented on the picture?

The young ones all seem to dress like that nowadays. Unfortunately, I couldn't believe a top my own daughter had on when she emerged from a classroom when I went up a few days early for the ND game.I have to always tell her to pull it up. It's nothing to them.

alnorth 12-03-2014 08:27 PM

drunk-tweeting is bad, m'kay...

TLO 12-03-2014 08:28 PM

Always trying to keep a brotha down.

Ming the Merciless 12-03-2014 08:33 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by cdcox (Post 11164887)
In the workplace, or when representing my employer, I find it best to pretend that all humans are asexual beings.

Oh so your workplace ethics match your personal & romantic life?

cdcox 12-03-2014 08:36 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Pawnmower (Post 11164947)
Oh so your workplace ethics match your personal & romantic life?

There is a time and place for o:-) and a time and place for :evil:.

Just Passin' By 12-03-2014 08:37 PM

Nothing that you posted comes close to a firing offense. That said, if he's in a right to work state without a contract, or he's dumb enough to sign a vague morals clause, that's the end of that.

mikeyis4dcats. 12-03-2014 08:38 PM

so these were direct messages to her, so she must have filed a complaint?

the interaction seemed much more like friends to me than scribe/reader. Not that creeping your friends is right, but a different dynamic for sure.

i suspect they were aware of his other issues and this was a way of getting rid of him.

DaFace 12-03-2014 08:43 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Just Passin' By (Post 11164952)
Nothing that you posted comes close to a firing offense. That said, if he's in a right to work state without a contract, or he's dumb enough to sign a vague morals clause, that's the end of that.

I don't think anyone disagrees that they have the legal right to do it. The question is just whether that's a good enough reason that a reasonable person would think firing is necessary.

DaFace 12-03-2014 08:44 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by mikeyis4dcats. (Post 11164956)
so these were direct messages to her, so she must have filed a complaint?

the interaction seemed much more like friends to me than scribe/reader. Not that creeping your friends is right, but a different dynamic for sure.

i suspect they were aware of his other issues and this was a way of getting rid of him.

Direct messages that she posted publicly on her Twitter account.

Just Passin' By 12-03-2014 08:49 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by DaFace (Post 11164964)
I don't think anyone disagrees that they have the legal right to do it. The question is just whether that's a good enough reason that a reasonable person would think firing is necessary.

Reasonable person is a very fluid standard today, which is a big problem. No reasonable person would look at anything his said as being worth of getting fired. But reasonable people aren't working HR and PR for big companies.

The Franchise 12-03-2014 08:52 PM

She's claiming that he asked for nudes. Not seeing that.

mikeyis4dcats. 12-03-2014 08:54 PM

was this his personal account, or a branded one?

Saulbadguy 12-03-2014 08:56 PM

What a creepster.

Stad 12-03-2014 08:57 PM

He was suspended earlier this season as well and he had this coming. If you follow the NHL closely you would know he's an arrogant prick and always has been, not too mention he's god awful at his job, i'm shocked he kept it this long tbh.

Here's why he was suspended earlier this season:

http://deadspin.com/denver-post-susp...ter-1643760909

Those DM's to that chick wouldn't be all that bad if he wasn't MARRIED ffs.

listopencil 12-03-2014 09:06 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Just Passin' By (Post 11164972)
Reasonable person is a very fluid standard today, which is a big problem. No reasonable person would look at anything his said as being worth of getting fired. But reasonable people aren't working HR and PR for big companies.

I work in HR for Wal Mart, thankfully not PR. From an HR perspective it's a good term.

DaFace 12-03-2014 09:07 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by mikeyis4dcats. (Post 11164979)
was this his personal account, or a branded one?

Personal account (@adater) that was VERY widely used to post Avs news and commentary.

Just Passin' By 12-03-2014 09:09 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by listopencil (Post 11164999)
I work in HR for Wal Mart, thankfully not PR. From an HR perspective it's a good term.

Nothing is 100%, and I'm certainly not singling you out, but HR is home to some of the most insufferable SJWs on the planet.

Simply Red 12-03-2014 09:13 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by DaFace (Post 11164841)
Is this firing justified?




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tk13 12-03-2014 09:22 PM

When I saw this headline, I thought Rain Man had fired you and we were about to have the greatest thread ever.

DaFace 12-03-2014 09:28 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by tk13 (Post 11165036)
When I saw this headline, I thought Rain Man had fired you and we were about to have the greatest thread ever.

Now that you mention it, I asked him for an uncropped version of his avatar once...

wazu 12-03-2014 10:21 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by cdcox (Post 11164929)
Refreshing honesty. I wish him the best.

This. A very human explanation. Hits kind of close to home.

noa 12-03-2014 10:23 PM

Those tweets display poor judgment, and poor judgment in social media gets plenty of people fired these days. Not surprised that this reflected deeper issues going on.

Eleazar 12-03-2014 10:26 PM

Sure it is. You are representing your employer in public, so whatever you do that might embarrass them in public could be grounds. I am sure he has such a clause in his employment agreement.

Gadzooks 12-03-2014 11:16 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Rain Man (Post 11164894)
I don't even know the genders of the people who work with me.

I'm pretty sure DaFace is a male. (if that helps).

ChiliConCarnage 12-04-2014 07:39 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by alnorth (Post 11164932)
drunk-tweeting is bad, m'kay...

Yeah, when I clicked on the link for him being suspended for arguing with fans and sending an email to a cowriter to **** off that's what I first thought. That's a lot like what the new NFL broadcaster Goldberg got released for this year.

I think her exposing his DMs is a bit iffy. The last one wasn't that bad. Dudes a human, if he was doing it with all sorts of women or harassing her constantly.. that's one thing but it never hurts to take a shot :)
The middle DM is the one that's rough

ClevelandBronco 12-04-2014 07:58 AM

When he says he's not going to argue with a woman, it sounds like he might be trying to be polite. It's not like he says he's not going to argue with an empty headed puck bunny.

He probably shouldn't have pulled the show-us-your-tatas move, however.

Sully 12-04-2014 08:11 AM

Is this the guy who was cussing people out a few weeks ago on twitter?

Garcia Bronco 12-04-2014 08:59 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by SPchief (Post 11164885)
Yeah, I'm going to agree with AL here. Telling someone you aren't going to argue with a woman, even if he means it literally, that he doesn't argue with women, still gives off bad pub.

I don t argue with women. I won t argue with a woman. And there is nithing wrong with saying so. Good grief

Buehler445 12-04-2014 09:17 AM

I'm in the probably category. It's different when you deal with the public, and the public is most certainly the paper's customer.

It's not all that different from a retail guy creeping on some chick wearing his uniform standing outside the store. He creeps on too many customers, it's time for him to go.

Or think about it this way, if after you hand a client their report, you catch them after work and say, "tits or GTFO," Rain Man is probably going to be upset.

ThaVirus 12-04-2014 11:22 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Pestilence (Post 11164900)
I know it doesn't change anything....but go check out the rest of her twitter pictures. Low cut tops....exposing cleavage.

Plus....what was with the "Good! Glad you liked it" when he first commented on the picture?


"No more.... She was asking for it.

NO MORE."

alnorth 12-04-2014 11:36 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Garcia Bronco (Post 11165440)
I don t argue with women. I won t argue with a woman. And there is nithing wrong with saying so. Good grief

Yes, there is something VERY wrong with saying that, as a columnist, representing a newspaper. You are basically saying that females are an inferior type of human or sub-human who can't be reasoned with, that they are unworthy of you debating an issue with them.

The Franchise 12-04-2014 11:40 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by alnorth (Post 11165684)
Yes, there is something VERY wrong with saying that, as a columnist, representing a newspaper. You are basically saying that females are an inferior type of human or sub-human who can't be reasoned with, that they are unworthy of you debating an issue with them.

He didn't say "I'm not going to argue with you because you're a woman and you don't know shit". He simply said....I'm not going to argue with a woman.

The Franchise 12-04-2014 11:40 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by ThaVirus (Post 11165661)
"No more.... She was asking for it.

NO MORE."

http://ronemymajicdc.files.wordpress...5&h=189&crop=1

Rain Man 12-04-2014 02:13 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Pestilence (Post 11165698)
He didn't say "I'm not going to argue with you because you're a woman and you don't know shit". He simply said....I'm not going to argue with a woman.

I kind of read that as the same thing.

Jimmya 12-04-2014 02:22 PM

Agree with Rain Man 100%

The Franchise 12-04-2014 02:23 PM

I think what it comes down to is that he obviously had issues and probably crossed the line but this woman took it as an opportunity to blow it out of proportion and get a guy fired.

Beef Supreme 12-04-2014 03:52 PM

On the one hand, it's ridiculous that someone got fired over this. On the other hand, twitter is stupid.

keg in kc 12-04-2014 04:01 PM

Something tells me that there's probably more to it than just this.


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