I lost my mom today
 

My mother was diagnosed with stage 4 liver cancer after a gall bladder removal in January of this year. She passed away this morning 2 days after her 80th birthday where she was alive and participating. I am NOT looking for sympathy. I just want the ones I offended, YOU know who you are. I just want to say I am VERY sorry. I love this site, been here over 20 years. I was an asshole to 2 Planeteers which I asked forgiveness. They both granted me that and I thank them for it. Life moves forward. I love you all. Thank you for being yet another family.

Prayers

Prayers for you and your family.

Sorry for your loss.



Forgiveness is a powerful tool. Good on you.

Sorry for your loss. May your cherished memories of Mom give you some comfort as you cope and heal from this loss.

Sucks man.

I’m sorry

You haven’t offended me but thanks for the post. Enjoy your memories of her. Life is too short to keep grudges so I appreciate what you are saying.

Prayers for you and your family.

So sorry for your loss

Very sorry, prayer sent

Mom is the toughest man. Just had a funeral Saturday for a "neighborhood mom" that has had cancer for two years, last 8 or so months on hospice. Couldn't go to the bathroom or shower herself.

Count your blessings, she didn't have to go that way, hopefully she passed with some dignity.

God bless. Always remember that she is in a better place.

Sorry to hear about that.

It definitely changes your outlook and how you approach life. It should.

Prayers to you and your family. RIP

Sorry for you loss. Prayers to you and your family

Condolences. I know you're not looking for sympathy, but that doesn't mean it doesn't suck.

All the best friend.

Sorry for your loss.

Sorry for your loss.. Prayers sent..

So sorry to hear that bud.

Sorry for your loss, it takes alot of time to feel better, Good luck!

Sorry for your loss. Try and remember the good times, when the time is right. Wish you the best.

I’m so sorry for your loss.
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Sorry for your loss. May the days ahead provide you with some healing and good memories of your mother.

Sorry for your loss. I dread the day I have to bury my mother.

Thoughts and prayers for you and yours.

So sorry to hear. Cancer sucks.

Losing Moms is the worst. Sorry to hear this-prayers

I'm sorry for your loss. Losing a parent is really hard. Prayers that Jesus takes your mom into his loving arms.

That sucks and I am praying for you and your family. In light of what you shared it is understandable why you would have been the way you were. That is extremely stressful.

Prayers. That is my biggest fear I have after losing my dad.

Comes to us all.

sorry to hear this. may she rest in peace.

Sorry to hear, man. I'm sure it hurts. Prayers for you and your family.

Very sorry for your loss. Keeping you all in my prayers.

Sorry for your loss

Condolences, Stryker.

Take care of yourself brother.

I lost my dad in January, I know how you feel.

Prayers to you and your family during this difficult time.

My father died the day before his 57th birthday from liver cancer. It's an ugly way to go and I share your pain.

Terrible man. Sorry to hear.

Styrker sorry to hear about your Mom. As a man, losing your Mom is about the toughest gut punch there is as far as family goes. Hell it's your Mom. Their also the one's who help keep along with your Aunt's all the extended family together. Anyway I just wanted to say I know how you feel. Hang in there.

Sorry for your loss

Stryker... that's terrible to hear and you're in our prayers. Losing a parent is one of the toughest things to encounter. Keep the faith and don't worry about people you may or may not have offended around here. This place is not reality.

I hate to hear this man. May your family find peace quickly.

Shoot, don't worry about offending a few members here on this site. That's not important right now. Be with your family, and honor your mother's memory. Very sorry for you loss.

Sorry for your loss Stryker. May she RIP.

Ugh, I'm so sorry.

Keep her close to your heart, memories don’t fade.

Sorry for your loss. I hope the fond memories of her help ease your pain.

Great post

Prayers

I truly feel for you. My Mom passed from cancer just over a year ago and it was horrible. I wish you peace and comfort in the coming days.

Sorry for your loss and prayers for you and your family.

Cancer sucks. Sorry for your loss. I was a mess when my dad died. Losing a parent is too damned hard. Hang tough, eventually it gets easier.

I'm sorry to hear, Stryker (and mabbott). It's great that you had a good relationship.

Oh man. So sorry.
My mom is 82. I dread that day.

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Godspeed to you and your family.

Thoughts are with you Stryker. Hope you and your family are doing well.

Sorry to hear of your mother's passing Stryker. I am all too familiar with what you are going through now. Just know she is at peace now and no longer suffering in pain. I know there is nothing I can say to ease the pain of your loss but will keep you in my prayers.

I never know what to say.

But we are with you and there are others to lean on. Prayers.

Sorry to hear.....prayers sent

So sorry for your loss...

Sorry to hear that. All my best to you and your family.

Prayers for you and your family!

God bless and best wishes during this difficult time.

I'm sorry to hear that.

So sorry to hear this brother.

Best wishes to you and your family!

I’ve been where you’re at, hang in there

Thoughts and Prayers to you and your family.
RIP to your Mom

Guys, thank you, from the bottom of my heart, for your heart felt messages. It is really appreciated. For those who have said it before, cancer sucks! My mother did not smoke or drink was retired and did exercise classes and swam weekly yet, she got the shitty hand dealt to her. I never will understand that. My brother said to me today (he is 50 and I am 61) "I never imagined we would be parentless (our father passed away in 2015; at the hospital where I work) and here we are." My brother has been a rock and has handled so much in this loss. All arrangements are in order and our mothers finances are attended to. It will be a long road but we will get there. She and the love she gave us will never be forgotten. Thank you again Chiefsplanet for your love and support again, it is so very, very much appreciated.

Sorry to hear OP. One of the rougher cards we're dealt. Lost mine 11/2020 to Alzheimer's which was beyond brutal. What doesn't kill you makes you stronger. Keep your head up, you'll get through it. Prayers up.

Sorry for your loss. You and your family are in my prayers.

Sorry to hear. Dad went earlier this year but to be honest mum's going to be the tough one. Thoughts with you.

Prayed for you and sorry for your loss. Be strong.