Is a single Mom ever a catch?
 

Discuss.

This mom live near you??

Can be. If she's hot, has a great ass & tits and the kid is not a dick. Unlikely though.

Well, she ****s, so...

4F club that shit

This is why orphanages were invented.

Damn ROFL

Widows the better gamble

Could be a great girl whose spouse died.

Could also be a great girl who invested in the wrong man. Investing in the wrong man is oftentimes a red flag, though.

In general, I’d say the average single mom is not a catch. Kids are baggage and on top of that, most will come with relationship baggage as well.

Most important first question: Natural child birth or C-section during birth?

Can't have a single Mom with 5 kids all delivered natural birth.

That thing be like a rain barrel.

Sure, some of them are rich

What bitch ****ed you up, TLO?

Question, “Why did she fail to lock down the dude she made the baby with?”

Matt Damon seems to have done pretty well, and he could’ve had anyone.

Gisele?

If the kids are grown then yep

If she’s still juggling a couple young ones then you’re walking into a mess

One of my best friends married a divorced woman who had a six year old daughter and they've been happily married for 30 years. If it's love, then it's love.

Dealing with another dude's bullshit for ~20 years?

Pass.


I mean the ex, not the kid(s). I'm sure the kid(s) is/are probably awesome more than not.

Wha?

Of course they are, you better smarten up... this is a nation slam full of single moms, win her kids over and win her heart

Well, sure. But with modern DNA testing and crime scene technology it's hard to not get caught.

There are no perks to dating a single Mom.

Baggage for life. Forget it.

Not my situation. Just a generalized question.

Does she eat ass?

A catch? That’s a tough sell and would be highly situation dependent. In general though, no. You can be happy and make things work but it comes with a lot of headaches. The biggest challenge is parenting. Single moms are far more protective of their kids than single fathers and are much more likely to resist integrating the new father as a true equal in parenting, which makes things very challenging with many a barrier and stressor.

Catch and release, maybe.

This. What a ridiculous question.

“Is anyone on CP a catch?” shoulder garner far fewer affirmative answers.

Sure, as long as she doesn’t have kids.

I find the awesome ness of children correlates directly with biological input

Being a step parent is one of the hardest and un rewarding jobs there is. Plus the real dad will do everything in their power to sow division between you and the kids.

Then the mom feels bad about raising the kids in a broken household. So is over protective of them and doesn't let you parent. Or let's the kids run roughshod over her.

I am sure in some situations it is great. But in others....

Well do you like shards of bamboo sticks shoved under your fingernails. Cause that is what your life is going to most likely be like until the kids are out of the house.

She wouldn't be a single mom if she ate ass...

A guy who gets with a single mom* is the type of guy she would never bother with before she had children.






* Widows != single moms.

Only for a friends with benefits relationship on the sperm donors weekend to watch the rugrat.

Moms are loose

Cum and run

Ah yes, being a step dad. All of the responsibility, none of the authority, and solid chance of having none of the love or respect. You also get the privilege of knowing that you will never be the single mom's priority. You will always take a backseat to her kids. Good luck if her kids just decide they don't like you. Single moms are a big L the vast majority of the time. There's literally no upside.

Dude no one anywhere near our age is childless, hell most of us are Grampa aged... if you want a woman 30+ the kids are a 100% built in responsibility more often than not

Step in there and be firm but fair

I caught me a single mom 10 years ago and we're still together. We were both coming out of divorces and weren't expecting much. But she and I worked so we made it work for the kids too.

But I totally see why someone might want to stay away from the situation. I was certainly iffy about it initially, but ultimately I could see myself with her for a long time, so I learned how to be there for the kids too.

This ****ing board. LMAO

Shut the **** up incel

When I was younger I would have been dumb enough to go in blind.

With years of wisdom and other friends getting absolutely ****ed over in single mom situations, no way in hell.

Lol, I’m way past that point in my life where I’d even consider dealing with all that. Back in the day I did, but I don’t have the time or bandwidth for that now.

Just went to a wedding Friday where I am friends of the step dad. He got to speak at the wedding but the bio dad did not, even though he was present.

Statistics say probably not good odds. But individual people are not stats.

1 kid, maybe. Multiple kids same dad.... worse odds but still maybe. Multiple kids by multiple dads.....RUN AWAY!

They suck cock like they're gonna get jellybeans

Depends on how she feels about military school.

It seemed to work for the Brady Bunch. Of course, those darn kids got into all sorts of mischief. And the dad was gay and nobody knew it.

Better than some kidless slam pig that has had 10 abortions.

Ill take a bitch with kids and morals over some young slut with no sense of self


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No ****ing way. I'm taking the bitch with enough brains to not keep having 5+ kids because she hasn't figured out how birth control works.

Pump and dump

How would you know if said slam pig had 10 abortions?

Nobody said they were oops babies


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Well you drew the dumb parallel in that scenario, not me.

How about two women recently out of committed relationships, one has 3 kids and the other none? You'd take the 3 kids because it means she hasn't had an abortion?

I think the OP is talking about a woman having a kid in all scenarios.

Theres a 20% chance a woman between 18-40 has had an abortion in the US, and a 56% chance a woman between 18-40 has had at least one kid.

If you want one that had had neither good luck picking that needle out of the haystack.


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I'm with you, its mostly too late to raise someone else' kid... but if the right situation arose we'd both give it a go, and just maybe have some knowledge to pass along here and there

Mr Brady was swapping with Sam the butcher. Mr. Brady got the meals, clean house and daycare, while Sam got meat curtains/roast beef

Yes, if she has standards and makes you work for it proving that you are a good person and can be a dad to her children. You have to love them if you are going to love her.

You want to date a married mom.

Absolutely. The only scenario in which this would be true is if you have no interest in having kids. If you don't want kids, then stay away from single moms.

Has anyone here dated a single woman with children?

I did it once. It wasn’t easy. I was 34, she was 30, her daughter was 5.

Twelve years later, she married a dude and moved to Texas. Mom is obsessed with fitness and the gym, her daughter is a fat cow who hates her mother.

I did once upon a time. It wasn't awful. I loved being around the kids - it was her I couldn't stand.

Gotta step up!

I have, twice.

One was like 23 with a 9 month old son. She was still living with her parents and baby daddy. Plus she was Puerto Rican and Cuban so I knew there was very little long-term potential there lol Red Flag City.

She was actually a great person, just not very intelligent. Always had the kid dressed in the freshest Jordan’s, Nike clothes, etc. I’m like, dude, he is 9 months old. He’ll grow out of those clothes within two months. Also had some car wash subscription package. IIRC, it was $260/month for unlimited car washes. Not to mention she already had two different guy’s names tattooed on her LMAO

Her ass was so fat, though. OMG. To this day, the fattest ass I’ve ever been with. By far.

I probably shouldn’t say that she was intelligent. That is rude.

I think it’s more appropriate to say that we had very different values and I rarely agreed with her decision-making.

Not if he died suspiciously.

I guess I'm just lucky/happy I met my wife when she was in her early 20's and w/o drama of any sort.

Fishing thru the divorce dumpster and whores from high school with 10 and 12 year olds that are never gonna fully embrace you as a parental figure looks grim.

My best friend got divorced from his wife a couple of years ago. He's dating a younger chick with two kids that got divorced a couple of years ago. It looks like they're gonna work out but he's got a 14 and 10 year old and she's got a 7 and 5 year old.

That's a lot of goddamn work he's taking on and there's a Dad in the mix that actively works to sabotage and shit talk their relationships all around. Gonna end up with him having to fight this dude and who knows what else because he decided to be a good guy and step up and be a positive male role model for kids that aren't his.

I realize that there are plenty of landmines out there as far as single moms go, but when you put the word "ever" in a poll I don't know how anybody could vote "no". Especially considering most of the dudes who are voting in this poll.

Pics of said ass?
Or at least something for reference?

The most important personal, financial, emotional, etc decision most people will ever make is their choice in spouse. Finding someone in the early 20s and settling with them by mid to late 20s at latest seems the most ideal situation. Many people take it far too lightly and/or assume they can just “have fun” until they are ready to settle down after age 30 with some perfect person. By that time, your pool of partners has dwindled significantly and is disproportionately (compared to early 20s) made up of people with a lot of baggage that requires both people to really work at making things work. It’s of course possible, just tends to be more challenging than when you spend your 20s growing with your spouse.

I've seen this play out a few times over the years with friends, still waiting to see a positive outcome. Parenting styles are usually too varied between the two parent groups (Bio-Mom and Stepdad, Bio-Dad and whatever), and that's where most of the conflict comes from.

I know this feeling all too well. Had a girlfriend that just lacked common sense and capable decision-making, but had an amazing body and she was kinky as hell. Every time I saw her for like the last 2 months of it, I had the intention to break up because the relationship was going nowhere, but when the sex is that good, you tend to stick around when you shouldn't (especially when youre young and dumb) LOL

A perfect ass will keep you around much longer than you should be hahaha

If you're older than 25 and looking to date in this country, you better hope so.

Just because you date a single mom doesn't mean you become responsible for her kid. Not at all.

you're so dumb

It's really funny how simple minded so many of you are. Just classic dummies.

Woman marries her high school sweetheart.
They have one kid and now that kid is 20.
Mom and Dad divorce after 22 years of marriage and being together for 25.
Woman is divorced for about 6 months to year.

That is a good catch as long as she isn't crazy, a drug addict or a shopaholic.

Anything's possible

Wow. Funny enough, I do still have some pics she sent me.

Her face isn’t in most of these but she does have a recognizable ass tatt (a cover up of a man’s name, like I mentioned lol).

Funny the effect a good piece of ass can have on your decision making lol

In most cases, no, but there are obviously exceptions to the rule.

I got lucky and I'm now the legal father of the kid and that child is pre-med. My retirement plan b.