:rolleyes:

She'd be better off not marrying you,

Remember that nobody controls your happiness but you.

That is what I was hoping the OP would try to understand. The more petro soaked logs you throw on the fire the greater the possibilities of burns resulting from said logs.

It happens!

If there are kids involved, then fish. If not, cut bait.

I had such a slips and falls but it was mostly in another city where I did not live and drinking was involved.

The moral high ground of not sleeping with a married woman makes no sense. If she is rubbing my leg and purring then she is rubbing other's legs and purring just as loud. Someone one is going to slip and fall and find their dick in her pussy.
Having a man slip and fall in the family home home while the kids and hubby are gone would tell me that this is a regular activity for her and this guy saved himself a hundred on a room.:D:D:D:D:D

Maybe the fact that the OP is not telling us about the marriage should account for something.

Yep, it's also lessens the possibility of settling before trial which means double or triple the legal fees.

Half my wife's job is reminding her clients that until the divorce is over, you should treat all interactions with your wife/husband like you would a coworker. If you wouldn't do or say it to a coworker, don't say it to them. She loves taking profanity and insult laden emails (that her client received) into court.

You can protect those assets. I don't know what you consider a lot but if it is I would sit down with a good estate attorney before you consider anything. The best advise of course is to not get married. I never thought I would say that but it is true. The nature of your relationship when they have leverage almost always changes for the worse.

I've been on both sides of this. My wife was in a failing relationship with another man when we first met (not married, but living together) and I stole her away from him. I ended up with his woman and his apartment, and also beat the shit out of him for good measure. I'm sure I'm not on his list of favorite people. :D

Prior to that, I was cheated on by my first wife, and after that, I cheated on her. I was in the military and she was in college in another state, so our relationship was pretty much doomed from the start anyway. A couple of the women I cheated with were also married - lonely military wives whose husbands were elsewhere, just like mine. Pretty safe to say that nobody involved ever should have been married in the first place. I knew they were married; they knew I was married. It takes two to tango.

Just remember if you choose to sleep with a married person, you are basically choosing to help destroy another family. Me, I’m not a home wrecker and yes, I’ve had a married women wanting me. But she had a husband and kids and I am not a home wrecker guy.

I recall a redheaded gal who said "what he never knows will never hurt him" I think they are still married.

Congrats!

Lets remember the steps of divorce...he is not ready for congrats....yet

So you slept with her husband instead?

Get a quickie from the Dominican Republic. It's cheap and fast.