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MarkDavis'Haircut 07-14-2018 10:46 AM
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Originally Posted by Frazod (Post 13628061)
And the people who work for them. :D

My firm is basically an all things for rich people type of place. Nothing like some high level corporate prick who left his ice cold wife of 20 years for the plastic-titted receptionist. These people get so wrapped up in rage that they'll expend $50,000 in legal fees fighting over a $500 vase. Luckily, I work on the commercial side. I definitely prefer dealing with professional clients who just want to close a deal and move on to the next deal to butthurt emotional wrecks.

At the end of the day, unless the wife smokes crack in the courtroom, she's going to get custody of the kids, and if she made less money or didn't work at all, alimony. Often even documented, iron clad evidence of infidelity doesn't factor in. It's ridiculous how pro wife most judges are. And of course taking care of the children is always paramount in their eyes. Remember the case where the man was proven to not be the father of a kid, but got stuck paying child support anyway? IIRC, that was in Kansas.

My advice - suffer in silence until the kids are grown, and then try to split as amicably as possible. And hope she dies of natural causes in the interim.
I have a good friend who was screwed in family court merely because of his gender. It is despicable. But you don't see third wave feminists arguing for equality there.

That case you cited is ridiculous. How can a man be responsible for child support in that situation?!

Frazod 07-14-2018 10:48 AM
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Originally Posted by Carr4MVP (Post 13628065)
I have a good friend who was screwed in family court merely because of his gender. It is despicable. But you don't see third wave feminists arguing for equality there.

That case you cited is ridiculous. How can a man be responsible for child support in that situation?!
There was a thread about it here somewhere, but it happened a few years ago. I don't remember the details, but the basic gist of it was somebody needed to take care of the child, and that was all that mattered.

Prison Bitch 07-14-2018 11:04 AM
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Originally Posted by baitism (Post 13627803)
Well, yeah it sucks. Could someone who has been through a divorce with a spouse that was cheating send me a PM? Kansas laws. I need to get the hell out of this situation and could use some advice. Thanks.
From what I've heard. Grain of salt:


1. Cheating is meaningless. Won't be factored in a divorce

2. Kansas I hear (if JoCo) almost always goes 50-50 in assets child support and custody now. Barring any extreme factors


Hope that helps. I just saved you 10k or whatever it costs.

baitism 07-14-2018 11:08 AM
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Originally Posted by BryanBusby (Post 13627999)
The OP said nothing about kids, so...
I have three. That's by far the worst part. Financially, I'll be alright.

Bugeater 07-14-2018 11:16 AM
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Originally Posted by stevieray (Post 13628052)
Sorry, brother, adultery is a complete heart punch. That crap hurts.

you need someone to vent to let me know.

The fact that judges don't care about it is disheartening.
I suppose the way they see it is that infidelity is a result of a marriage that has already failed. Not sayin' it's right...just sayin'.

BWillie 07-14-2018 11:17 AM
Remember, it's not the guys fault for banging your chick. It's strictly your wife or GF's fault. I don't get the logic of getting pissed off at the guy that banged your chick. It's never made any sense to me.

Prison Bitch 07-14-2018 11:18 AM
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Originally Posted by Bugeater (Post 13628126)
I suppose the way they see it is that infidelity is a result of a marriage that has already failed. Not sayin' it's right...just sayin'.

They don't care because adultery isn't a legal issue. They are right not to care.

Prison Bitch 07-14-2018 11:22 AM
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Originally Posted by KC Tattoo (Post 13627830)
Congratulations



Divorce can be a good thing embrace your new life. A new beginning a new hope.



Don't get down on yourself my utmost best advice Go fishing I'm not talking POF real fishing discover yourself.


Bullshit^


For very few people, divorce is good. For the vast majority it's shit. I've seen it plenty.


Any guy who thinks divorce means more fishing, more pussy (10 years younger too!) and more happiness is deluding himself.


***disclaimer: if she's a fat psycho cheating monster, disregard this

BIG_DADDY 07-14-2018 11:22 AM
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Originally Posted by baitism (Post 13627803)
Well, yeah it sucks. Could someone who has been through a divorce with a spouse that was cheating send me a PM? Kansas laws. I need to get the hell out of this situation and could use some advice. Thanks.
Kids complicate things big time. Do you have kids?

HemiEd 07-14-2018 11:24 AM
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Originally Posted by Carr4MVP (Post 13628065)
That case you cited is ridiculous. How can a man be responsible for child support in that situation?!
Pretty sure it was in Texas.

It is my understanding the first time you make a payment, you are on the hook.

3rd&Long 07-14-2018 11:24 AM
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Originally Posted by KCrockaholic (Post 13627814)
Never marry again dude.
Could not agree more. Get out as fast as you can, anyway you can, but that's only me. The same thing happened to me back in the 90s and it's still the gift that keeps giving because her new brother in law is a lowlife lawyer who sits around dreaming up new ways to extort me.

Frazod 07-14-2018 11:25 AM
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Originally Posted by BWillie (Post 13628128)
Remember, it's not the guys fault for banging your chick. It's strictly your wife or GF's fault. I don't get the logic of getting pissed off at the guy that banged your chick. It's never made any sense to me.
Well, you are kind of a dumbass, so I can see how you wouldn't get it.

If the guy doesn't know the woman is married, that's one thing. Sounds like he knew. He's also married to somebody else.

I doubt if he was over for tea and accidentally slipped and fell and stuck his dick in her. He's just as at fault as she is.

BWillie 07-14-2018 11:25 AM
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Originally Posted by Carr4MVP (Post 13627911)
Prenups do get thrown out or ignored by judges at times.
Yikes really? That is the only thing holding me back from marriage. I have a ton of assets. If I get married, I'm going to need to have an iron clad prenup. I've been with my chick for 9 years. She's very upset with me we haven't gotten married yet ROFL

Chazno 07-14-2018 11:36 AM
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Originally Posted by BWillie (Post 13628151)
Yikes really? That is the only thing holding me back from marriage. I have a ton of assets. If I get married, I'm going to need to have an iron clad prenup. I've been with my chick for 9 years. She's very upset with me we haven't gotten married yet ROFL
Talk to an attorney. I think you'll find they only get thrown out when it would leave someone destitute and unable to care for themselves or someone intentionally manipulating assets to end marriage with nothing while they have assets protected via prenup.

stevieray 07-14-2018 11:48 AM
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Originally Posted by Bugeater (Post 13628126)
I suppose the way they see it is that infidelity is a result of a marriage that has already failed. Not sayin' it's right...just sayin'.
I could see it from that angle, but in the end, it just marginalizes marriage.


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