My fathers' rights case
 

Hey guys, I'm trying to get some public exposure about my case in the media, and while I dont live in Missouri or Kansas, I do frequent here so I thought I'd share my story as well. Feel free to share if you are so inclined, any publicity I can get would be appreciated.

Take a look here:
http://www.fathersandfamilies.org/?p=20918

And here's my lawyers blog:
http://marcatanner.wordpress.com/201...fixable-hmmmm/

http://marcatanner.wordpress.com/201...tah-part-deux/

In our last hearing, she admitted that I'm the biological father, that she was telling me she wanted a divorce, that she did leave her husband, and that she was not having sex with her husband when the baby was concieved. Even after the judge chastised her for doing all that, they still said I have no right to ask for a DNA test.

Now think of it like this: If the husband had knocked up a single woman, could he also hide behind "the stability of the marriage", as isnt having a single woman asking for a DNA test interfereing in the marriage? Answer NO...they'd hit you up with CS and a DNA test so fast that your head would spin. This law only exists to protect women, and as such violates the equal protection clause of the constitution.

Anyways thought I would share my story.

**** Utah and **** stupid bitches.

Change the first part of your usename. Just a suggestion. Best of luck with your case.

that ****ed up man grab the baby and hide in Texas.

You're in the clear, dude. Wash your hands of this and run away.

He already did. That's what led to this little problem. Please try to keep up.

So why did she go running back to Utah? And why is she still in a relationship she wants no part of?

In hindsight, yes I wish I never listened to her begging me to come get her (I wouldnt be in this mess), but this is my son, I have to fight for him.

I cant walk away, god forbid he ever need to know his medical history, or need a transplant...whos he gonna go Edit: to?

because her mom and dad bombarded her with "what kind of mom leaves her kids"..etc.

Under testimony she stated that her marriage only became stable AFTER the birth of my son....think about that for a sec. Not the 9 months of her being pregnant..but after his birth...Funny that it lines up perfectly when I hit them up with a paternity suit..so they had to put on the "we are a happy family" face.

You're insane. You are volunteering to tangle yourself in this crazy woman's web because you "might" have been a sperm donor.

Jesus Christ, man. :facepalm:

I see on the blog that you paid your lawyer $4K last November. What's the total tally up to now?

It was my understanding that fathers don't really have rights.

Well, except to pay out some dough. You can almost always get that right.

I'm really struggling to know why you'd like to take on 20 years of paying child support. Marry the woman let the husband pay you child support for your own kid.

Win? :shrug:

Maybe he wants to do the responsible thing and be a part of his childs life? Maybe you're the insane one, Brock.

She's testified that I am the father, so there's no might to it.

And it's not her life I'm volunteering to be in (while I know it comes with it), it's my kids.

Put yourself in my shoes, if you knew it was your son..you'd just walk away and never try to be apart of his life?