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Originally Posted by AndChiefs
So I imagine I'll regret this...but...I met a girl at a Halloween party over the weekend but she left a bit early and I was unable to get her number before she left.
I reached out to a mutual friend who I got her number from. I'm going to ask her out either way but obviously it's a bit odd to have someone randomly call you when you didn't give them your number.
So my options:
1. Call her and ask her out. Could put extra pressure on her to say yes when she doesn't really want to. Positive is it will be viewed as a more assertive option over texting.
2. Text her and ask her out. Less assertive, less pressure on her.
I'm leaning towards calling but wanted some further opinions in case I'm missing something.
If we have a female that actually reads this thread your opinion is obviously welcomed. (KCGal?)
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It would be cute if you could text her and ask her some BS question about something you discussed during the party. If she responds them you would know she might have some interest then you could ask her out.
Normally I would say I prefer a man to just take the risk and ask me out via a call but since you didn't actually get her number directly from her it might be a good idea to go the text route first.