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Originally Posted by Mosbonian
Interesting...you added that last line while I was answering you.
Marriage isn't like buying a car....you don't get to "try out" the person before "buying" them.
SO much will change after you get married....I won't speak for women here, but I am betting that a woman won't leave you because you don't rock their world in bed, especially if you are a good hubby in other ways.
Go look it up....see what women value in a marriage vs. what a man values in marriage.
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Dating is the "trying out" period - that's pretty much the whole point. No, you won't get the "I've lived with you for 10 years" experience while dating, but you try and figure out as much of that as possible.
Sexual compatibility is an important part to any relationship. Nobody here is saying it has to be the best sex of your life, but making sure sexual interests and similar, and most importantly, sex drive/frequency are along the same lines is extremely important. Devaluing sex is crazy. There's a reason why sex and money are the two biggest issues of contention in marriages.
Source: was married for 10 years.