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Originally Posted by Shag
Dating is the "trying out" period - that's pretty much the whole point. No, you won't get the "I've lived with you for 10 years" experience while dating, but you try and figure out as much of that as possible.
Sexual compatibility is an important part to any relationship. Nobody here is saying it has to be the best sex of your life, but making sure sexual interests and similar, and most importantly, sex drive/frequency are along the same lines is extremely important. Devaluing sex is crazy. There's a reason why sex and money are the two biggest issues of contention in marriages.
Source: was married for 10 years.
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You are correct....dating is a trying out period, but not specifically for sex.
I never said sexual compatibility isn't important...quite the contrary. But I say it isn't a reason to leave marriage. And trust me, women adapt more to mens sexual desires that vice versa. And in all reality money is the biggest reason that marriages crumble...infidelity is the second.
Source: Married for 30 years.