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Originally Posted by Canofbier
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I don't understand this response:
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I have a problem with this. I was in a relationship with a woman like this before, and although I respect her opinion, it was a major source of stress, which was bad for both of us. Given the pressure that society (and biological impulse) places on sex, I don't think that either she, I, or any man could be happy in that relationship unless there were some unusual circumstances involved.
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If the girl is repulsed by sex and you don't want to have a relationship with her because of that, then don't. You don't need to have sex with her to figure this out.
And I'm not sure where you get this theory:
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Again, this is an opinion that I can respect on its own. It's not one that I have had any direct relationship experience with, but I've had friends with this mindset who I noticed never had particularly deep or fulfilling relationships. I certainly won't claim that it's causal (or that there aren't any exceptions to my opinion), but I feel pretty comfortable saying that there's at least some degree of correlation between a restricted sex life and unsuccessful relationships.
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